Honestly, posting something like this a year after it transpired is silly, did you try to contact her afterwards to discuss a possible rebooking? Can you definately say she was at home when you got there, can you prove she stood you up on purpose?
Yes she should have been considerate in the situation and called you before you arrived and that was failure on her part, but if it was an emergency not may people have time to make calls depending on the severity of the situation. Considering she took a break after all this transpired might be a big clue that somerhing was wrong. She has also posted recently and is taking, bookings but as she has moved and not settled into her new place is only offering outcall at this time.
There are too may things you can speculate on, It is quite possible she may have not answered because there was something that made her uncomfortable about you and took that option not wanting to hurt your feelings(bad way of handling it), but in this buisness companions do have the right to refuse service if they do not feel right about the person they are to meet with.
When I go to an appointment I take into consideration that there is a chance that when I get there that I may get stood-up or turned away, there are too many factors that go into meeting somone for the first time.
I had somone cancel on me at last minute many years ago after I had entered her suite. She told me she was not feeling well and it just kind of ended with me leaving, It was awkward for both of us, I did not enquire as to why to respect her privacy. A few days later I called her again, I still wanted to meet her and she was surprised that I still wanted too, we rebooked and it was well worth it and she made up for it in spades. While we were snuggling she told me what had happened that day, A person she saw few hours earlier(semi regular) had not acted in a respectfull manner and she had to ask him to leave or she would have to contact the police(yes he unnerved her that much). The situation left her rattled and until I knocked on her door she thought she was ok with seeing somone at that time. We saw each other many times after that until she retired.
I know when I am in a foul/upset/bad mood that I am not a pleasant person to be around and I dislike subjecting others to the dark cloud hovering over me, so I have a tendancy to shut others out and not answer any communications , unless it is important and can't be dealt with at a later time.
I will give any person the benefit of the doubt especially when it comes to family or close friends.
It may have possibly been you or it could have been her, no one will know since you waited this long to post about it. Next time wait a day or two then re-initiate contact, if they wish to explain the circunstances that is their right.
Da mix, I do not know you or judge you, but in this case you should have resolved this with Via or just walked away, Via may not have been mature enough as a person at that time and people make mistakes. It is people who learn and grow from those mistakes that set them apart from others.
I just find soo many people are quick to make assumptions and jump to conclusions about things thet have no idea about, These ladies are people, they have emergencies and lives just like we do. I am sure Many of the women here could regail you with dissapointing stories of guys who booked time and no showed causing them to miss out on potential earnings. They put up with alot of our insecurities, sad stories of our lives and in many cases unrealistic desires/expectations. Take that into consideration next time, beign patient and understanding is one of the best traits anyone can have and will result in richer and more memorable experiences all around.
