my gf wants me to rape her
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You would be shocked how many women have, and act out, this fantasy. With strangers. Search "rape" in casual encounters on Craigslist and you will see several guys that offer these "services" (for free of course), and they are busy. I would say that it is more normal than you think.
^what she said...
She isn't asking to have her nose bloodied or her arms broken, she wants to have control taken from her.
It is very, very sexy and not something a woman would ask just any old guy.
For one thing, she would have to respect you and feel that you are strong enough to be in control.
Resisting and struggling is quite arousing...brings out the cave man/woman.
She isn't asking to have her nose bloodied or her arms broken, she wants to have control taken from her.
It is very, very sexy and not something a woman would ask just any old guy.
For one thing, she would have to respect you and feel that you are strong enough to be in control.
Resisting and struggling is quite arousing...brings out the cave man/woman.
Ok...maximus, you got there before me and in light of the new information maybe you are wise to forgo...
But, it is still a sexy experience.
But, it is still a sexy experience.
This is perfectly normal, and a whole lot of fun if done correctly. Find out what she wants to get from such a scene and surprise her someday. I second Miss Melody's suggestion of introducing rough sex first... It lets you get know what she's into before going all out.
http://www.redtube.com/113974Maybe she'd be satisfied with some good rough sex? I was given a guide to rough sex DVD by someone...it's super hot and may give you some tools to satisfy her cravings
Might that be the DVD you’re suggesting?
If you believe this might be her plan to get you to rape her so she can have you arrested or something like that.......why are you with her?
Otherwise rape fantasy is pretty common for women. Use your common sense, its not about violence.
She wants you to overpower her, strip her clothes, hold her down.
Not punch her in the face and kick her in the stomach.
Otherwise rape fantasy is pretty common for women. Use your common sense, its not about violence.
She wants you to overpower her, strip her clothes, hold her down.
Not punch her in the face and kick her in the stomach.
If she wanted to send you away, or damage your reputation, she wouldn't need to play act it first, she would just need to claim it happened. Enough people would believe her, no matter what, to make your life very uncomfortable.
That's exactly what I was thinking.
To the OP, how do you know she's not going to videotape this and cry rape if you leave her? I wouldn't do this if I were you.
Most people have said what needs to be said already.
A rape fantasy and being ravished are not uncommon fantasies and fetishes, even for woman.
The fact that you feel your current relationship has ulterior motive suggests you should not go through with it. Generally any time you feel uncomfortable and uneasy you should back out. Especially if you know that the fetish is common yet you still have a gut feeling something is wrong. Go with your instincts.
Love always make even the simplest advice complicated. If you feel obligated to go through with this and hope that things is only a fetish, then you may want to find a discrete way to cover your bases. It could be something as simple as a few text messages back and forth. Straight forward such as "Are you sure you want me to rape you?" to "I can't wait for our rape date" to "I've been thinking about you asking me to rape me". Naturally do this a few days before and if she gives you answers that don't confirm she wants it then don't do it.
Hope it works out for you.
A rape fantasy and being ravished are not uncommon fantasies and fetishes, even for woman.
The fact that you feel your current relationship has ulterior motive suggests you should not go through with it. Generally any time you feel uncomfortable and uneasy you should back out. Especially if you know that the fetish is common yet you still have a gut feeling something is wrong. Go with your instincts.
Love always make even the simplest advice complicated. If you feel obligated to go through with this and hope that things is only a fetish, then you may want to find a discrete way to cover your bases. It could be something as simple as a few text messages back and forth. Straight forward such as "Are you sure you want me to rape you?" to "I can't wait for our rape date" to "I've been thinking about you asking me to rape me". Naturally do this a few days before and if she gives you answers that don't confirm she wants it then don't do it.
Hope it works out for you.
I agree with the people that say you should dump her.....seems like you have your own suspicions. As for this type of fantasy in general, I would have it in writing somewhere that this is what she wants, and it's going to happen on such and such a date. Just to CYA (Cover Your Ass).
I friend of mine used to try to act this out with her ex, but the problem was she always wanted the sex so much that the being forced part never happened lol.
I friend of mine used to try to act this out with her ex, but the problem was she always wanted the sex so much that the being forced part never happened lol.
Lots of good advice in the start, and super hot first and last scenes... I've never seen the middle.
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I have a friend who is into this as well - she wants to partake in it with me as well, but I honestly don't think I could go through with it...
I agree.
While I respect everyone's right to have their own fantansies and act them out, along as both parties are willing participants, I couldn't even pretend to do this. I've done some role playing where my partner has asked to be bound and feel helpless and I even had one GF want me to slap her face (I politely declined). But is was alwasy done with tenderness and playfully.
I think rape is one of the most disgusting acts anyone can perpetrate on another human being. It is all about power and humiliation, not sex. For me sex, even with a stranger (ie, an SP) is about being gentle and pleasure. Sure, there are those out there who enjoy domination, rough sex and even pain but rape is more than these and should not be confused with healthy sex.
That's my $.02.
Cheers
i think what we men think of as rape fantasy is probably quite different from what our girlfriends think of as rape fantasy. You should do some careful reading and have a discussion with her about limits on this before you say no because what she is seeking might seem fairly nice to you
for example, most real rapes end up being anal rape - she might not be into anal at all. this is something you should know
but a little bit of gentle pulling her around the apartment by the hair might be what she is looking for, or maybe holding her hands firmly behind her back, or making her stand with her hands held above her head etc. this shouldn't be painful and shouldn't necessarily turn you off
i would disregard your 'friends' warning and the warnings of the chicken little's in this thread unless you know that she will be trying to entrap you
Rough sex I can deal with, it can be fun as hell... but my friend is looking for an actual scenario (aka me wearing a ski mask, at night, tying her up, ripping off panties, etc etc etc). Not gonna happen...
