my friend is a SP. Should i see her?

[the_shogun]

so i just recently found out that a friend of mine is escorting now. i'm not going to lie, she's hot and i have fantasized about doing her before. I kind of want to book a session with her, though she doesn't know that i know she's an SP. So i'm not sure if it would be in the right etiquette to do this.

Pooner's have you ever had a situation like this?

SP's how would you feel if someone you knew (but didn't know what you did) showed up at your door for a session?

 

[the_shogun]

LOL!

aye aye Ma'am!!

 

[the_shogun]

okay.

what if i said she also does porn, and she's aware that i know she does porn?

 

[henryhill]

I would do it for sure! As long as you don't have a wife or girlfriend who knows her. That could be disasterous. She would probably enjoy it anyways. Probably better that it's someone who she knows and trusts. Could be fun!!

 

[ma1234]

You have to make up your mind what is more important? Pussy or a good friend?
Because you can't have it both. Once you had sex with her friendship is over.

 

[Smother]

so i just recently found out that a friend of mine is escorting now. i'm not going to lie, she's hot and i have fantasized about doing her before. I kind of want to book a session with her, though she doesn't know that i know she's an SP. So i'm not sure if it would be in the right etiquette to do this.

Pooner's have you ever had a situation like this?

SP's how would you feel if someone you knew (but didn't know what you did) showed up at your door for a session?

Shotgun That might not be the brightest idea. Don't do it or there's a great chance of losing that freindship. There's a boundary between freinds and it should stay that way.
Should you think with the wrong head... ..you could lose her and your freindship could dissolve.


A couple of questions though are you close to her ?

 

[tedsweettangv]

It would help you live the fantasy but the question you have to ask is when you see her in a social situation later will it be awkward? Will it be so awkward your friendship would end mostly because you avoid each other in social situations? Is that worth it?

Besides what would probably happen is you would book and she would recognize you then or certainly when you showed up. She would tell you to go fuck yourself but at that point she would know you knew and you would get the awkward social situation without getting diddled.

If she comes out and tells you then it might be different.

My 2 cents (2.9 cents U.S.)

 

[the_shogun]

we aren't that close. i hung out a lot with her quite a bit durning the summer. but i wouldn't say were are like BFFs! (Best Friends Forever) LOL

and no she doesn't know that i'm aware she's escorting. i found out a couple months ago just browsing CL. though i am aware she does porn, she knows that.
i've seen the videos but never brought it up. oh yeah! and she has seen a my cock LOL.... does that matter for anything?

 

[wpgguy]

If she is a real friend I wouldn't see her. Real friends are a lot harder to come by than a hot SP.

 

[Smother]

we aren't that close. i hung out a lot with her quite a bit durning the summer. but i wouldn't say were are like BFFs! (Best Friends Forever) LOL

and no she doesn't know that i'm aware she's escorting. i found out a couple months ago just browsing CL. though i am aware she does porn, she knows that.
i've seen the videos but never brought it up. oh yeah! and she has seen a my cock LOL.... does that matter for anything?

Honest truth....I had a freind from my home town that became a seymour SW...she was gorgeous.....most guys in high school wanted her including myself. We were shocked to find out. But you know what I never ever approched her and we saw her on the streets. I couldn't bring myself to do it. I had too much respect for her and respected her choices....right or wrong. I don't see her anymore and have lost contact with her quite awhile back.

 

[claymotion]

id do it

dude, go for it, dont listen to these guys they just wanna know who she is so they can fuck her first.!!!!


just tell her you saw her ad and you thought the pics looked great ask her how long shes been doin it.... and if she is cool with the questions then ask her if she has an opening soon. hell if she is really cool about it ask her if you get a friends and family discount! LMAO family.... ok that was a little wrong, but it might be funny anyway.


I think I know who you mean and she is hot.

clay

 

[henryhill]

Don't listen to me dude. I thought it would be ok. But after reading some of these responses from other folks, especially the ladies, you might want to reconsider.

 

[Sasha=Passion]

so i just recently found out that a friend of mine is escorting now. i'm not going to lie, she's hot and i have fantasized about doing her before. I kind of want to book a session with her, though she doesn't know that i know she's an SP. So i'm not sure if it would be in the right etiquette to do this.

Pooner's have you ever had a situation like this?

SP's how would you feel if someone you knew (but didn't know what you did) showed up at your door for a session?

It'll change every thing for ever!

 

[the_shogun]

its all good feed back. i''m not going to jump into it and say make an appointment tomorrow!! i'll think about it some more.

i'm also a firm believer that it's only awkward if you make it awkward.

 

[Smother]

its all good feed back. i''m not going to jump into it and say make an appointment tomorrow!! i'll think about it some more.

i'm also a firm believer that it's only awkward if you make it awkward.

Whatever choice you make is your for sure. We're only giving you our suggestions and what i would and did if you read my post above. But it's your choice. I would approach her first and mention this and see how she reacts. hey you never know....you 2 could become an item!!
take your time man.

 

[naughtygirl]

Back in the day when I was Sp'ing I had a friend that had a crush on me, we both knew what I did for work. He asked if I would ever see him as a client. My answer was an easy no....For me,I would not have been able to look at him as a close friend that he was after taking his money for sex. In short, because of that we are still best of friends to this day. Had I chosen to see him as a client I don't think we would still be good friends. Sometimes an SP doesn't need a reminder in her personal life (such as a friend) that she's an SP. Never hurts to ask, just respect what she wants.

 

[Commando]

Just doesn't seem right to do it. Instead of donating for her services, you could always get to know her better and maybe things will head in that direction anyways.

 

[nube]

its all good feed back. i''m not going to jump into it and say make an appointment tomorrow!! i'll think about it some more.

i'm also a firm believer that it's only awkward if you make it awkward.

I too at first thought why not. But after reading the posts I can see where it could be a bad idea. There is no going back. A couple of things....

1)The idea of using SP's is discretion. It important to both sides. You won't have that.

2) Asking would put her in a tight spot, if she says no, how are you going to feel? How would it affect your friendship?

3) When you think about it, if you two haven't had relations while being friends, why would the fact that she is an SP change things? In other words, why can't you just ask her if she would have sex with you? Tell her she's hot and you'd like to take her to bed. - see where that goes, it may open a door for her to offer her services. But if she says NO, then that's it. Drop it.

The good side is you have an SP that is a friend, you enjoy her company without paying. AND more importantly there are many other SP's out there that you can book with - you do have the best of both worlds.

If it were me, I'd err on the side of caution, you do have a lot to lose.

Good luck on this one, let us know how it goes either way....

 

[Aerts]

so i just recently found out that a friend of mine is escorting now. i'm not going to lie, she's hot and i have fantasized about doing her before. I kind of want to book a session with her, though she doesn't know that i know she's an SP. So i'm not sure if it would be in the right etiquette to do this.

Pooner's have you ever had a situation like this?

SP's how would you feel if someone you knew (but didn't know what you did) showed up at your door for a session?

I'd have to see pics before I answer.

 

[nube]

Personally, I think I would find it impossible to just be friends with a hot SP, but then again, I’m a horny bastard.

Therein lies the root of the problem...

I know what you mean, and its tough. Hell, even a hot friend is tough.

you know you cause me to think, There have been some girls that I have met that were very attractive and you try to think of how you might get in her pants, and your little advances aren't being returned...I get a little annoyed, and I actually start to resent a little...and not wanting to make an issue i need to become less of a friend and pull away.

Oh it would be so much easier if I wasn't so horny...