My first and last review - a written account and confession & sad goodbye

[wilde]

When on your 25th anniversary your wife will look you in the eye and ask you if you ever cheated on her, you will have to lie or hurt her.

After 25 years of marriage, if you have not hurt or lie to your SO in some way shape or form. You are lying. To me, marriage is not about molding your SO into something you want them to be; it is about accepting each other's faults and short comings. Those who figure this out and are willing to do so, stays together and vice versa; or worst, ending up like our own Anita - one big bitter lemon.

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[kehoe]

After 25 years of marriage, if you have not hurt or lie to your SO in some way shape or form. You are lying. To me, marriage is not about molding your SO into something you want them to be; it is about accepting each other's faults and short comings. Those who figure this out and are willing to do so, stays together and vice versa; or worst, ending up like our own Anita - one big bitter lemon.

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yah, how is her marriage anyway?

 

[Maury Beniowski]

So in the end, for me, I cannot have sex with strangers. Only with someone I love, and right now, loving one person is all I really need, and have been needing since day-1.

You'll be back...

 

[eurhythmia]

Why you pickin on me?

I bet the wif ewould be mighty pissed if she realized the risk for diseases you just put on her!!

And im sorry but those asian places seem to be dripping with infections and all that shit now because of the dirty things they do for a buck

All i can say is, how nice that you feel that way.....now.....

And a big fuck you for not realizing it before you put your family in danger.

Well, honestly!! Here I thought I was helping a fellow out. Sure the wife would be a mite pissed. Frankly, she would drill a bullet through my head (she's a Texan) if she knew what filthy, dirty things I was up to in those disease-dripping, bacterial hell-holes that we all know Asian SPs are. (I'm being sarcastic and a tad ironic here so don't be aflamin' me.)

Yes, I do go to the clinic on a regular basis and have lovely chats with the perb health nurse. Last couple of visits my tests were clean. Question: how many pooners and poonies are doing the same? We are a community and for the sake of self, namely mine, preservation should all be taking responsibility.

And if you really, really want to stir up this pot how about all the guys who 'engage' other guys and also go to those twisted, ass-rimming, cum guzzling Asian SPs. Not a pretty thought. But it is reality.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

...The difference between "having sex" and "making love" was obvious. You take, when you have sex. And you give, when you make love. It's possible for both partners to take at the same time, as well as give at the same time. While with these three women, I was taking. Neither me nor my other partners knew what to give each other...

Very profound. As simple as it sounds, alot of people can't put their finger on it and put it into words. You've nailed it!
When you look at it in this light, it is alot easier to understand sex addiction.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

calicodog, good luck to you, but you have fucked up the most important thing in your marriage: the mutual trust.

When on your 25th anniversary your wife will look you in the eye and ask you if you ever cheated on her, you will have to lie or hurt her.

Anita, I distinctly remember you touting yourself recently as being "non-judgmental". Do you even know what that means??

 

[westwoody]

To me, marriage is not about molding your SO into something you want them to be; it is about accepting each other's faults and short comings.

Very well said. Love your SO for what they are, faults and all. If you demand perfection you will always be disappointed.

 

[apple juice]

Well, honestly!! Here I thought I was helping a fellow out. Sure the wife would be a mite pissed. Frankly, she would drill a bullet through my head (she's a Texan) if she knew what filthy, dirty things I was up to in those disease-dripping, bacterial hell-holes that we all know Asian SPs are. (I'm being sarcastic and a tad ironic here so don't be aflamin' me.)

Yes, I do go to the clinic on a regular basis and have lovely chats with the perb health nurse. Last couple of visits my tests were clean. Question: how many pooners and poonies are doing the same? We are a community and for the sake of self, namely mine, preservation should all be taking responsibility.

And if you really, really want to stir up this pot how about all the guys who 'engage' other guys and also go to those twisted, ass-rimming, cum guzzling Asian SPs. Not a pretty thought. But it is reality.

First and foremost I know this is veering off the topic a bit(in regards to Calicodogs' thread topic that is)...but this...to pick out and attack ALL the ASIAN sps...not just one or two or three...but ALL as being dirty, filthy, ass-rimming, cum guzzling, disease dripping, bacterial hell-holes!!! Sorry...but that makes me What does that make you? Anyways.....

Lastly...to Calicodog...hope things work out as you have planned. Goodluck

 

[Juggy]

Calico, great post dude.


Totally feel the same way, its difficult to be relaxed with a SP the first time, especially if your entire sexual experience is based on an emotional level. I'm the same way with all women I meet, professional and non professional. If you do return to this hobby perhaps you should find one SP and stick with her two or three times and see if you get a better result.

 

[logsplitter]

You say that you won't do that again? I doubt it!

Having sex like U did is very addictive. It is like crack cocaine (I presume)! Every time you are feeling horny (and that happens a lot I presume) U will think back to those bodies and the menu of ever changing available ladies and you will want to try again and again and again. You will try to stay away but you will allow yourself to (peek through the window so to speak) now and then by buying a man's magazine, then surfing ads, reading PERB and the like (sort of not cheating but enjoying the eye candy). Then one day U will try again.

IF YOU DON'T GOOD ON U!!!!!!!!! but it aint easy!

my advice is don't peek thru the window and it may make it a little easier not to walk thru the door!

 

[littlejimbigher]

Love and sex are not mutually exclusive, but when you are married with kids one of the two seems to dissapear.

 

[john23]

The difference between "having sex" and "making love" was obvious. You take, when you have sex. And you give, when you make love. It's possible for both partners to take at the same time, as well as give at the same time.

I couldn't agree more and I should say I've experienced both pooning. There's some great providers out there...

 

[edgecustom]

I think many of us, Anita, are getting totally tired of your bullshit.

lol, Too funny