My cock flatlinned

[wooodyp]

Just when I was trying to get some practice in with my favorite provider Jessica for my 60th birthday next month it happened. The little prick died or at least it was comatose. I could not get hard at all! No matter what she did (and she is a trooper) it would not respond. This has never happened to me before. Maybe the blood pressure is responsible (last time at doctor it was high) Does anyone know if blood pressure can affect performance to that extent? That is the only thing I can think of causing it. I'm going to go back to doctor soon and have it checked and go on meds if still high. I was hoping it would come down by itself.

I would have posted in the medical section but could not find a "post new thread" button. Anyone know why?

Thanks

Wooodyp

 

[resercher]

what I am about to write is going to seem very rude and seem like a joke but I swear I am trying to help .


I'm not a doctor so I cant not diagnose your condition or give medical advice but have you herd of porn induced erectile dysfunction ? how often do you masturbate to porn? maybe that's the problem lay off the porn also sperm is made from zink and potassium maybe you have a shortage of these try taking in more Zink . other than that exercise eat properly ect look after your general health.

 

[sensualsixty]

There are many potential causes of your problem, but... do not look to meds as the first line of defense for high blood pressure. Many years ago my doctor wanted me to take meds for high blood pressure, and I asked about alternatives. Changes in diet and exercise enabled me to postpone the meds for high blood pressure for several years. Sorry, it is a long time ago so I cannot remember the exact number.

 

[Tarzen]

what is your diet like. when was the last time you went golfing and did some hole in one.

Even Tarzan at his old age need to slow down. Feeling it.. can't go shaka laka 7 days non stop... sigh... even the incredible hulk goes to watch star wars the empire strikes back.

If this happens.. don't force or stresss it.

Everything in life is a mirror image. There are Young.. there are old. there is giving and there is receiving.
At our age... it's not always about feeling satisfied in receiving to be pleasured. Its time to enjoy the pleasure and be satisfied of giving back in seeing the lady gets pleasured.

 

[johnsmit]

If this is the first time it has happened then I am sure it will come back
When was the last time it worked.. Hopefully it not a case of don't use it you loss it
JUST remember sex is 90% mental if your mind and emotions are not into it
You won't stay up or even get up .With via grade you can.. but with ciealis you can't

 

[badbadboy]

Blood pressure issues can effect erections but woody (hmm, interesting name choice huh?) buddy don't come here for advice, definitely take your issue to your doctor. Good luck pal. :thumb:

Thick One nailed it first. Especially the part about seeing your Dr. BP and ED drugs are not to be messed around with and your Dr should be asking those questions.

 

[UhOh]

I've always had issues with condoms even in my 20's. The hotter the girl and therefore the more I wanted it the more likely my dick would let me down.
No condoms and I can bang for an hour. There's no substitute for a girlfriend where you Just hang out and do it bareback when the mood strikes.

 

[Tarzen]

I've always had issues with condoms even in my 20's. The hotter the girl and therefore the more I wanted it the more likely my dick would let me down.
No condoms and I can bang for an hour. There's no substitute for a girlfriend where you Just hang out and do it bareback when the mood strikes.

I fully agree with you... that warm and moist slippery feeling... that sensation of her inner muscle walls squeezing your Mr D. The freedom to let it go and fill her jungle with milkshake flurry.

This is available if you are into this... you can golf and shoot a hole in one without the rubber/latex glove. The phillippines where our friend tantalizeme has roam non stop.

 

[Man in Submission]

Oysters and pumpkin seeds are loaded with zinc.

Watermelon, asparagus, avocados, garlic (just not on game day nuts, eggs, salmon, Brussels sprouts, steak, beans, broccoli, celery. Goji berries (bulk section at health food store) and figs are also great. Maca root too. Nutmeg is excellent, add it to your coffee in the morning. All these foods will help give junior a boost.

 

[Lurker 123]

Anxiety is also a big part! That what I discover about myself.

Some times when I saw a new sp, my little brother would have a hard time to get up. Then I re-visited the same sp, things started to improve. Usually around the 2nd or 3rd time , my little brother would return to the normal strength.

The problem was I wanted to show my strength in front of a new girl. That is not an easy task. One has to learn to conquer the fears. I highly recommend you to find a regular sp to work out a way for youself!

BTW oyster and other food loaded with zince do work!

 

[tadolder]

I have the same problem Wooodyp, and we are the same age. I was completely normal up till 3 yrs ago. I have always had issues with condoms but it was workable, now its hit and miss. I have high pb and have been on meds for about 10 yrs. I eat a lot of the foods listed above that are high in zinc, but nothing seems to help me. I am sadly resolved to the fact that A.G.E. disease is real thing. Hope for both our sanity we find a solution.

 

[chilli]

No need for Viagra

L Citrulline will make you feel like a young one again.

It's available as a supplement or just eat lots of watermelon.

 

[Willingham]

guys have it "hard" - we always have to perform and rise to the moment, thats a lot of pressure, especially if you arent relaxed and totally into it. Sex should never be forced, both partners need to be in the mood at the same time. The ladies can fake it, but the guys..well sometimes the mechanics of emotions and physicality cannot be faked.

Agree with most - seeks natural ways for assistance - meds and ED pills should be avoided. L - Arginine helps, along with Citrulline. Red pepper (cayenne) is a natural circulation booster and lowers blood pressure. Also, being 60, you should have your testosterone levels checked.

 

[grusse]

You know, I can see how performance anxiety can totally ruin things even if things were going to be fine otherwise. I can sympathize with you guys, i can see how that would be difficult.
However you guys can pee standing up and you don't have to deal with having a period! It's a trade off really.

I really wish I could pee standing up, maybe I need a she-wee.

you can pee standing up,Mel, just do it in the shower!

 

[twoblues]

you can pee standing up,Mel, just do it in the shower!

Pretty sure you can do it standing over some people as well...

I'm a young (ish) fit male and I've had it happen to me on occasion. Too much to drink is always the number one cause, but I've had it happen when I met a really attractive SP from this site years ago...I'm not sure if I was tired or hadn't eaten enough or whatever, but I had a seriously hard time getting...um...hard. That was definitely performance anxiety.

 

[anyho]

To quote Yogi Berra. Sex is 90 percent mental and the other half is physical.

 

[wooodyp]

Thanks everyone for the advice. Thai girl Jessica has been my regular for many years, she is very much a friend now. That's what I like about a regular, you can relax. She can give me a hand job that I cum so hard I just about pass out. I think women like to watch men cum don't you think (and I cum a lot)? I have Parkinson's (found out what it was 2010) that is totally suppose to make me unable to get erections. I have had the opposite. I was almost in a wheel chair as I could hardly walk, get out of a chair, or balance myself, but I could still get an erection. Then I went on Parkinson's medication and wow a new man. the difference is amazing. My blood pressure was normal every time I had it checked and no problem getting erections. Then my blood pressure becomes high and I have trouble getting erections. That is why I suspect BP to be the problem. I am careful with my diet (very little salt or much meat) am not over weight, and exercise as much as I can. I wish I could use my hand like I used to to get relief, but find I cannot do it anymore. Would save money but it just is no fun. I crave the touch of a woman. I find that sex and cumming to be a very big stress relief.

I never expected to get the number of replies as I did, so I really appreciate all your help. I think I will be back in the saddle soon, swinging from branch to branch, and scoring a touchdown. Thanks

Wooodyp

 

[wooodyp]

what a great picture! Isn't love grand.

 

[Man in Submission]

Forta is pretty good, it's non-drug, health-based. I get it at local sex store, 2 capsules for $16. Take it at least an hour before sex with a glad of warm water and you get pretty solid!

 

[Sonny]

If the ED is physically based (40% of men over 40), here are some medical choices if the herbal or supplement solutions don't work for you.

TRT - Testosterone Replace Therapy - Testosterone cream prescribed by doctor, but rather than buy brand name, get your compounding pharmacy to make it up for you... way cheaper
.... keeps your sex drive going, plus other benefits... not really for ED itself

Already mentioned are Viagra, Cialis, etc. .... the pills work for most gents... various pill dosages

Prostagladin - if the pills don't work, cheaper than the pills, prescribed by urologist, made up by compounding pharmacy... injectible, not for the faint hearted

Penile Implant - surgery..... wow.... is sex worth that much?.... apparently for a bunch of guys, else it would not be available.