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[LongLasting]

Thanks to the Mods for bringing this back...

Kudos to the Mods for the way in which they handled this affair. I would like to personally thank you for your service which is often thankless and only noticed when things like this arise.

I originally posted this in YMMV II...

Congratulations Lauren on the 101 posts. At least one hundred have been insitefull, respectful and informative. They have all been written with class and distinction. You do yourself, your studio and all of perb a great service with your kindness and the honest SP's views into the hobby. Thanks for posting so candidly! And thank you again for the great sessions we have enjoyed in the past Keep up the great work!!

 

[xraygogs]

I have not commented until now ...

I didn't even know it had existed, and what a surprise ( not shock because as Lauren says, everyone is human ) to learn who the mystery SP was in this thread.

Pussy, you mentioned you were wondering why some of those in Lauren's fan club have not come forward. Speaking for myself, this thread is in genital discussion and not the Review section, which is where I hang most of the time. I usually go to the Lauren thread first in Review, then check out a few others. If the forum looks boring for that evening, then I go and check out a few of the other boards. In this case, I saw the sticky from the AM Mod, and sought out this thread thereafter.

Secondly, it is not apparent from the title of this thread who the SP in question is.

Thirdly, I don't go looking for trouble as a general rule, but if I see something that I don't agree with, or interests me, then I'll comment as I have here. In this case, I was surprised to find a less than stellar review on Lauren, and I have to tip my hat to Bigeye for having the courage to post it. ( although I am a little confused about his visit and his expectations ... which I'll expand on shortly )

Finally, as we have seen here quite clearly, Lauren is extremely well spoken and clear thinking and proved here quite handily that she doesn't need anyone to come in and champion her cause.

I mean can you believe she was ( in Bigeyes words "more man than he" to come forward the way she did ) She's a big girl ( in heart as well as spirit ) and she doesn't expect or need anyone to come to her rescue. Lauren can hold her head high because she came forward, told the truth, explained her position and in the eyes of those who enjoy and accept her, her reputation and respect from those who admire her is actually elevated by this thread, not tarnished by it.

Bigeye, speaking as someone who has done his share and perhaps more of scribing details about my fondness for Lauren, I would like to offer a small observation and suggestion which simply sums up what has been said so explicitly and eloquently by greater Perb members than I such as Wolfie and others. This may not be how Lauren feels, but it is what I would feel in her position, and hence there exists the possibility that other human beings would feel the same way too.

Lauren sees a huge number of clients whenever she is on shift. Her fame, popularity and reputation precede her as this board has blessed her as well as cursed her. The blessing is that she has enjoyed a great elevation in business. The curse is that there are those who walk in thinking they will have the most incredible mind blowing sexual experience of a lifetime and their views on every mortal bound perspective will be forever changed after an appointment with Lauren. If she provided exactly that kind of experience for every person every time she would be a machine ... a robot ... dare I say a mechanical piece of meat ... and not the girl many of us have come to treasure. I have said it again and again, but it is her sincerity, her genuine and true nature which is so intoxicatingly attractive about her.

Now don't get me wrong, I don't think this was your case specifically Bigeye, but somewhere between two extremes the truth ... or I guess more appropriately in this case the " reality " is revealed. I am not going to quote the old YMMV thing with you. I don't hold any ill feelings toward you for your comments either. I meant what I said about tipping my hat to you for posting this thread. While much of the nastiness may have been edited out of this thread ( which I did not see nor care to see ) I see and feel from your comments that you had some expectations and those expectations weren't realized.

Not everyone loves everyone. One mans solitude is another mans wild party. I would suggest, just suggest ... that you write this off to shit happens and enjoy life because even this makes more sense than trying to analyze, justify and attach meaning to the social chemistry and psycology of your interactions. You brought forward ... as you said a great debate subject.

I have two questions for you if you feel like answering:

1. Are you satisfied with the situation now after all that has transpired on this thread?

2. How do you feel about Lauren now after her responses and all of this?

Respectfully,
XG

 

[wolverine]

I think those high expectations are based on other SPs that Bigeye has seen.

 

[xraygogs]

Yep, I think that is fair to say.

 

[BigEye]

to answer the last two comments: yes and yes.

xray:
the response in this thread exceeded any expectations of 'coming to life'. too bad Perb's some people were hurt by the personal attacks that were generated (also in YMMV II). never my intent & I tank MOD again for removing the offending posts, rather than the entire thread. ALWAYS my intent...and the folder I chose start this in was under General Discussion.
sigh, too bad some people read into this as a negative Lauren review.

as about Lauren, what class to come forward. I NEVER would have revealed her name, I would have quit Perb first. Many PM's asking, 2PM flames & some accurate guesses also. Lauren & I have shared some pm's after I started this thread & I believe she is genuinely sorry for the way it has turned out. we continue to be in respect of one another & have put this behind us.

 

[Pussyman]

Re: I have not commented until now ...

. While much of the nastiness may have been edited out of this thread ( which I did not see nor care to see )

2. How do you feel about Lauren now after her responses and all of this?

Respectfully,
XG

xraygogs, the nastiness you speak of was not directed towards Lauren or had anything to do with this thread. It was justifiably edited out by AM. I would like to congratulate everyone on this thread, as well as the other, on behaving like adults and expressing their views. To Bigeye, never be afraid to make a post or comment as you did. Free speech is what this board is all about.

And xraygogs, to answer your second question: I love her more now than ever before.