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Most Number of Times with the Same Provider

BoaChoi

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To you seeing the same girl 100 times might seem like a lot of money, but there are a lot of people in this city where money isn't an issue and they'd rather just stick with somebody they feel safe with.
To me, the more money I have, the les I have. to pay for sex and it comes for free.
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I am not a handsome man, but i have a mansion , a pool, a fast car.
 

Harmony-bc

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To me, the more money I have, the les I have. to pay for sex and it comes for free.
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I am not a handsome man, but i have a mansion , a pool, a fast car.
Transactional sex is hassle and commitment and drama free. Should be anyways. It's just a naked good time between two adults that don't have any ulterior motives to be there. I love a good fun transactional relationship lol

If I'm not living in the mansion, driving the fast car, or waking up every day to swim in the pool, then it's irrelevant to my life lol. I would never have sex with someone for free based on what they own

But i imagine getting laid is easier for a rich man than a poor man.
 

white Ninja

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I don't know. I think providers are more likely to be wary of "incel" types and read that as a red flag if they get those vibes off someone.

As far as why someone would see someone so many times, if the sex is still exciting and fun it may beat the risk of meeting up with someone new who doesn't quite hit the same sweet spot.
The eternal dilemma. Its a fine balance , I go w a bit of both now a days . Roughly 75 % repeats , 25% new territory.
 
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white Ninja

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As well, there are women who are simply interesting. Something about them just incites a desire to explore who they are.

Intelligence is dead sexy too.

Creativity can rock as well -- whether it's artistic or musical or some other format.

Or find a women with a sense of humour. One of my fave SPs (years ago) had a mouth on her that would make a longshoreman blush. But she was funny in what she said and how she said it. We'd be laughing so hard we could barely move. Best foreplay ever. Saw her as often as I could.
Above average emotional intelligence does it for me , but hey at least you know what does it for you . Makes things a lot easier
 
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westwoody

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Jun 10, 2004
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Why do you feel the need to be condescending and arrogant towards lonely men?
Well Harmony it’s like this- some guys are just losers and the only way they can feel good about themselves is by shitting on others.
Some guys have miserable lives and are jealous and resentful of someone who has something they don’t, be it hot car, time with a beautiful sexy lady, whatever.
The miracle of the internet lets them pretend to be a billionaire living in a penthouse that can look down on us peasants. They can have multiple handles for stroking their own ego.
They fool themselves but nobody else.
 

West End Guy

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Transactional sex is hassle and commitment and drama free. Should be anyways. It's just a naked good time between two adults that don't have any ulterior motives to be there. I love a good fun transactional relationship lol

If I'm not living in the mansion, driving the fast car, or waking up every day to swim in the pool, then it's irrelevant to my life lol. I would never have sex with someone for free based on what they own

But i imagine getting laid is easier for a rich man than a poor man.
I would definitely see my favourite a whole lot more if I could afford it. I have a visit coming up in early August with her. It will be our 14th rendezvous since we first met in April of 2021. Not nearly enough visits over that time, but everyone has been special.
 

BobbyMcgee

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I may have missed this recently and do not want to open up an older thread, i’ve had my warnings more than once. so, is this thread only to toss out a repeat number, or which provider have you seen the most? just list one…
 

BobbyMcgee

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Thanks Harmony. I saw Tulip at the Fox Den years ago easily 30+ times over a few years. Like visiting an old girlfriend with benefits over and over.
 

casey@bat

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I started see my ATF SP in June of 2008. For the next 10 years just before COVID, I was seeing her about 5-6 times per year. During COVID, I saw her only 2-3 times but we message each other quite a bit. After COVID for next couple of years 5 times a year. The last couple of years I dropped off to about 2-3 times a year after reading so many posting of Tokyo and SL SP.
So I would say between 70-80 times with my ATF SP.
 

angry anderson

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Nov 8, 2014
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Does this all count as loyalty or obsession?
On one occasion obsession. That ended badly.
The two regulars I have been seeing for over a decade kind of proved monogamy is sort of possible. However. Two complaints. One is great up to a point, falls short, but close enough. The other who was an ATF just quit doing what she used to do. Which has become a problem for me. Wish she would return to those thrilling days of yester year. Seems like I've kind of hit a dead end with her. Can't cajole or persuade her. So regretfully I am trailing off. I have been seeing them for so long, happily, that seeing a new one kind of weirds me out. Seems phony and transactional some how. Go figure. lol
 

Mr. J

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My most times with the same providers pales in comparison. I'd ballpark around a dozen times each with two different ladies. One is a travelling lady, and the other is local.
 
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