I’m not sure if this is the correct location…but more than once in a while I get the feeling that I may be spending too much on this hobby. I can justify it in all sorts of ways. I know we are all at different income levels here, but some insight on what others ( ballpark) may be spending might be helpful. I recently saw someone retire due to too much indulging. Thanks!
Monthly SP budget
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If you get the feeling that you may be spending too much, you're definitely spending too much.
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Here's another way to wrap your head around it that might help you out...
Add up all the dollars you spent on providers so far this year. Then look at your list of things you wanted, however the excuse you give yourself is you dont have the funds yet or can't afford it... now re evaluate what you could've bought had you not seen all these hot grills the past several months. If you feel the experience and memories created were not worth it, dial it down. If you still think those memories were worth it, then just find a way to earn more money like these grills are doing... and dont forget to share the wealth when you figure it out and help a fellow brother out lol
On that note, I usually make a list, check it twice, gotta find out who's naughty and nice
.... then check reviews and sleep on it. For me it's all about the experiences and memories not just the physical and with soo many hot grills out there, repeating wasnt something on my mind until I've gone through the entire town or so i figured ... However, my most recent provider somehow connected with me differently and even told me not to waste money so I've decided to only see her now as she satisfy both my physical and emotional needs so far... ( i had bought her a gift twice and all I keep hearing in my head now is "Dont waste money bb") I'd almost worry I'd have feelings but then i realize it's not something I need to worry and think about since life goes by quick, and I know the old golden rule, no money no honey....so I use it to drive me in a healthy way...Soooo... in conclusion, eventually you'll find a way to stop. I'm single since my LDR became messy and ended during the pandemic, so now that i'm free, i can venture loosely since the money would've been spent on a mad psycho anyways but now its just like dating all over again, but instead with a few different flavors every time (until recently)
Otherwise just set a % of your income towards this and keep to it...
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This hobby is like a coke habit but every provider is a different trip.
the more you do the more you want and pretty soon you stretch the budget to the limit and have to step back and tell yourself to slow down, and the cycle starts over. Started with going to an mp once every payday at $150. Then every weekend, then throw in a few sp’s, up to $500 week. Then someone gets into your head and you have to see her twice a week. $1000 a week for a month was my high. Dialed it back and it starts again. Luckily I can afford it. I tend to get hooked on a rare few and it gets out of control for a while
the more you do the more you want and pretty soon you stretch the budget to the limit and have to step back and tell yourself to slow down, and the cycle starts over. Started with going to an mp once every payday at $150. Then every weekend, then throw in a few sp’s, up to $500 week. Then someone gets into your head and you have to see her twice a week. $1000 a week for a month was my high. Dialed it back and it starts again. Luckily I can afford it. I tend to get hooked on a rare few and it gets out of control for a while
Because everyone is at different income levels the answer wouldn’t be in a certain amount but rather a certain percentage of the amount you earn.
I let my allotted percentage add up while dividing my visits into once per season ( usually whenI something triggers my craving) and save up enough for a few visits over the summer .
so I guess you should figure out what percentage you’re comfortable with.
For me thats about 3 to 5 %.
I let my allotted percentage add up while dividing my visits into once per season ( usually whenI something triggers my craving) and save up enough for a few visits over the summer .
so I guess you should figure out what percentage you’re comfortable with.
For me thats about 3 to 5 %.
Yeah its like having a good diet program, eating clean healthy for a few weeks, and then eventually you have one cheat meal, then its not enough and you want more. Luckily you can afford it / spikes in seeing the diff ladies, and are able to dial it back. I feel it's all a matter of control...
Likewise if anyone is throwing something as simple as $1k a month on a steady girl, I think it goes a long way, regardless if it's a SP or a potential Relationship. the SP needs the money too so sometimes I think being a bit more selective can also help with varying controls.
This is kind of what I do. Only reason why I been having a bit more wild fun this month was because of several months or abstaining / resisting all the previous ones I wanted to see due to scheduling or whatnot. In the end, some of the ones I really wanted to see, eventually lost it's appeal as well (and I had yet to still see them) but at least I know they were more of a light craving and the craving eventually satisfied itself... so no lost lol
I’ve saved a ton by the old rubbing one out method, but eventually its not enough. Thats usually when I find myself on Perb researching again, or thinking about seeing someone I have in the past. For myself the catalyst used to be having a meeting w one of a few women I know through business w whom I have had giant crushes on for years but can never cross that line as it would be business suicide. Luckily I only see them every so often. But find relief in taking out my lust w a provider.
More and more however it seems to be meeting or seeing a provider briefly at a mp and wanting to see her as a client afterwards
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