MMF threesomes with SPs: something to consider?

[tantalizeme]

I`ve had many requests for it but the safety issue scared me away from experimenting

Interesting comment, Ingrid.

What I know of you from your posts (though I`d rather enjoy your intimate acquaintance) makes me greatly respect your opinion. Perhaps you can enlighten me: from an SP`s perspective, in what respect is pleasing 2 men simultaneously less safe than pleasing different men successively?

I`m assuming, of course, that your main worry here isn`t that both men might somehow go berserk and rob you—as an Indy you can hardly afford to be so paranoid.

Here`s my thinking. Since the guys wear condoms, and it`s just your juices to worry about, isn`t MMF safer than MFF (where constant condom changes need to be ensured)?

Of course, if you allow DP—which probably is at the core of a MMF`s allure for many guys—condom changes are necessary whenever the guys switch orifices. I can see how that would require a modicum of prior trust and communication, just in case some guys are too dense (or porn-intoxicated) to be realistic here.

I`ve learnt there`re two other reasons for the apparent rarity of MMF threesomes with SPs.

1. Relatively few pooners seem to be sufficiently non-homophobic to team up with each other for MMF. Only 2 brothers contacted me as a result of this thread to suggest we do such a 3-some together. The 1st brother went through with it (review here: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?148917-Review-of-AVA-7899&p=1155124&highlight=#post1155124). The 2nd brother needs to clear space in his mailbox so I can get back to him.

2. Another reason is cost. I was surprised that, for the same length of time with an SP, an MMF would cost double, when I had initially hoped to save at least some cash by splitting the cost with the other pooner. Obviously, if the SP herself supplies the other male—as some are apparently willing to—that would add considerably to a pooner`s expense and would no doubt make quite a few of them back out.

All I can say is, in my book, MMF 3-somes are gourmet treats. I know 4 Chinese SPs (and at least 2 Western SPs) who offer this service. Any brothers who`re into this are welcome to get in touch.

 

[Pillowtalk]

I'm assuming, of course, that your main worry here isn't that both men might somehow go berserk and rob you—as an Indy you can hardly afford to be so paranoid.

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Why on earth would you consider this a "paranoid" concern? An indy, unlike those amps and micros, does not have on site backup. Of course a major concern would be two guys who know each other and not her are a potential danger to her, just as a single guy new to her is a potential danger.

Some of the things you come up with really reinforce my opinion of you as someone who lacks empathy for others.

@vanesssa, I believe 150/hr is probably what that sp's regular hourly rate would be. So, it stands to reason if an sp's rate is 300/hr, why not charge 300/hr each, which I assume tant considers reasonable enough when the rate/hr is lower lol.

 

[Unpossible]

2. Another reason is cost. I was surprised that, for the same length of time with an SP, an MMF would cost double, when I had initially hoped to save at least some cash by splitting the cost with the other pooner.

Why would you expect to save cash? I seriously don`t understand your reasoning.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

normally the keynsian rules of economics apply (sort of), but in this case the provider of the service is so rare compared to the number of potential consumers of the service that charging as much as the market will bear would be the case

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I want to try double penetration sometime

prolonged double penetration isn't as easy as it looks. both males must be quite rigid, and in reasonably good shape as the various 'angles of entry' so to speak can be challenging with some women. in those cases stamina is definitely required to maintain the level of exertion required

but fun??? oh yeah... as long as everybody is into it :nod: :thumb:

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Sounds like you know what your talking about!

i'm only remembering from a mis-spent youth! i have to leave the sexual acrobatics to you young folks now lol

 

[filthyfilthy]

If any guys are looking for a straight dude, who is more than ready to share a hot, SP who is turned on by this.... be sure to PM me. im down.

 

[twoblues]

If any guys are looking for a straight dude, who is more than ready to share a hot, SP who is turned on by this.... be sure to PM me. im down.

Well, you're just filthyfilthy!

 

[westcoast555]

Might be no contact or overt interest, but the added appeal is still for one guy to do it with another guy there. Read into it whatever, but that is the appeal, so if it's latent or whatever the guys want to do it with another guy watching them or them watching the other guy.

I agree... I have no problems with bisexuality or homosexuality - but guys that like 3 ways with another dude are clearly turned on by the idea of sharing the experience with another male. I never really understood guys that like to do girls with their buddies... I have no interest in involving my friends in my sex life. But to each his own... and I agree with your take on the situation.

 

[twoblues]

I agree... I have no problems with bisexuality or homosexuality - but guys that like 3 ways with another dude are clearly turned on by the idea of sharing the experience with another male. I never really understood guys that like to do girls with their buddies... I have no interest in involving my friends in my sex life. But to each his own... and I agree with your take on the situation.

I would probably have an easier time doing with someone I didn't know than with some life long friends.

There is something about "filling a girl up" and her loving it that turns me on. Have only done it with sex toys so far, but it's on my bucket list.