Message and question from terri jean bedford....

susi

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please everyone be respectful in responses. i know there was a thread about this here but given the concerns that were raised i felt that people should have the chance to respond to her ideas directly.

please send me responses to susan.1968@hotmail.com or post here and i will copy and paste into an email which i will send in response in a couple of days.

i want to say i think its a positive thing that she is seeking community input before taking action.

i personally am always in favor of taking the high road. i don't think we should lower ourselves to these kinds of tactics (outing people). its what the feminazis would do.

but on the other hand as she suggests, maybe just some clients who are directly involved in pushing this bill through...?

anyway...time to weigh in!!!

love susiexxxo

Susan Davis

British Columbia Coalition of Experimental Communities

Dear Susan,

I am writing to many of the groups and persons who have stood with Valerie, Amy, me and our legal team against the prostitution laws that were struck down. These groups and persons have voiced their support in so many ways and their messages were heard across the country again and again. I thank all of you for that support. I have done so in person when able.

The new law, Bill C-36 is of course an outrage. It will of course fail before the courts, fail in its implementation, and in the process its supporters will again be discredited. You and all the others have already been to helping to ensure that failure will happen.

Recently I testified before the Senate and in the question period after opening statements I was ejected. This got a lot of attention. One of the things I said, which also got much attention, was that I would expose some clients of sex workers. Everyone thought I meant politicians who supported C-36.

I have an advisory group working on the legalities and mechanics of that process. Part of that process, if in fact I do follow though, is determining what sex workers think about exposing some clients, and I am writing to ask you to tell me what you think. Please ask your colleagues to tell me as well by sending me an e-mail at the address below.

One reason for exposing some clients is to show how unfair the law is when sex workers can report clients to the police and only the client is charged. This means, it would seem, that blackmail and entrapment have largely been legalized. This would probably add fuel to constitutional challenges.

Professor Young also pointed out at the Senate that immunity from prosecution has until now only been given by prosecutors, not in legislation, as C-36 does. So exposing clients would show how irrational the law is, as well as illegal itself. exposing would probably also add this fuel as well to constitutional challenges.

Another obvious reason for exposing is to show the hypocrisy of those who want to impose their will on others while themselves engaging in the very behaviour they want to others to stop.

Yet another reason is to ensure the public remains aware of this issue and of the dangers and are unfair hardships the government's approach would create for those in the sex trade. Nothing attracts media attention as much as politics combined with scandals of this kind. I could mention other reasons, but enough for now.

However, concerns come to mind too. Does exposing set a bad precedent for the sex trade overall, even if the law is not implemented to any extent or frozen in the courts right away? What other negative repercussions there be for sex workers if I did release part or all of my list? What would the consequences be if I just released one or two or a few names? What should be the criteria for names chosen for release? Would you and your members and colleagues prefer me to back off exposing clients altogether, and if so why? I seek your help in answering these questions.

Please share this with all you wish to share it with. I will read all e-mails sent to me and take all advice very seriously when I decide what to do. I appreciate that feedback every bit as much as the support shown over these years which, I say yet again, I am sincerely grateful for.

Yours truly,

Terri-Jean Bedford
 
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hornygandalf

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I'm not a sex worker, but a client (or one of the million or so 'perverts' in Canada as Mackay so eloquently put it), and I would say that this would set a very dangerous precedent, but war is war. I think sex workers should take the high road if at all possible, if they want to continue to develop respect within the wider community. However, clearly this legislation will provide major hurdles to this (and I think it is very unlikely there will be substantive or even minor changes in the bill before it is passed), and it might take some time before the necessary legal challenges get to the point where they are being heard in a forum that will make a difference (and there could have been a change of government by then).
I would suggest thinking strategically and long-term, rather than tactically and short-term (as this Bill may really just be a short-term political maneuver). Maybe you will lose this battle, but focus on winning the war.

However, that isn't to say that an investigative journalist couldn't be quietly fed sufficient information for them to go digging and find some juicy hypocrisy for themselves, that could then be publicised. And this would hopefully be framed as being as a result of independent investigation.
 

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It is easy to say some people deserve it but what about their families or other innocent third parties?
Would you want your kid picked on at school because his dad was a john? If you out some civil servant you stand a good chance of ruining his marriage, his wife and kids will be known forever after as the former family of "that guy", and they will pay a terrible price.
Would any escorts here want their kid picked on and harrassed because their mommy is a hooker? I have seen it happen to women who have been outed and the children were messed up for years.
Also, if a guy gets outed he is going to be vindictive. He might turn around and out a whole bunch of escorts who are totally uninvolved. Now you really have a bunch of new victims, for what, because someone had a hissy fit?
My God is this what we have become?
You are lowering yourselves even lower than the Tories you criticise. At least they are not outing anyone.
This is NOT war. That is a stupid thing to say and shows you don't know what war is.
War is men women and children lying dead in ditches, bodyparts strewn all over a field. Bill c36 is an inconvenience, an interruption in our pursuit of casual sex, but not war. That comparison is an insult to people who have served in front line duty and seen and experiencex things you cannot imagine. If you cannot understand that you beyond hope.
 

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Totally agree with you Angela!

Susi and Terry are opening a Pandora's box.
 

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hey now...what's this susi and terri....? i have never outed anyone in 28 years...except the guy who tried to kill me in west vancouver...yes i reported him.

let's be clear, i do not support outing people and said so at the beginning of my post.

this is not me doing anything, this is terri jean asking the community what she should do...

i share the same concerns being named here.

love susie
 

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I have said this in countless threads across the boards, but I think that it needs to be stated again. If sex workers argue that this is a real profession then it is essential that we act professionally. As such, our public representatives should demonstrate professionalism. If they are unwilling to be professional in the public sphere then they should step aside as they are causing far too much public relations damage.

.......and how many professions operate in the shadows....? Yes, there are those that do not share client information, but at least they acknowledge their existence.....
 

hornygandalf

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I agree, and there will be victims left behind in the ashes who are completely innocent and don't deserve the repercussions of such an act of indiscretion. Such indiscretion could completely ruin the lives of the families involved and create a downward, everlasting spiral of destruction.
Unfortunately, that will happen anyway when the Bill passes. So the question that has been raised is more of whether there should be a preemptive strike against those who are responsible for passing this legislation. I'm not condoning it, but I understand where the sentiment is coming from. But I would rather see the hypocrisy of a few politicians exposed than pooners with complicated personal situations, that may be made worse (or lives destroyed) as a result.
Hence, my suggestion that a possible way is for an investigative journalist pointed in the right direction and allow the revelation come from outside the industry rather than from an SP releasing the information. Anonymous would certainly be a good 'group' to enlist in this fight as it is against government hypocrisy and corruption.

This is NOT war. That is a stupid thing to say and shows you don't know what war is.
And maybe my use of the word 'war' was hyperbole. There was not intention to offend. I have been known to use hyperbole on occasion, and sometimes with considerable effect. However, it also depends on how you define and use the word 'war.' I agree that it isn't in the narrow usage of the word, but in the context of a wider and common usage, I think it is appropriate. The Conservatives are certainly taking a no-holds barred approach and aren't particularly interested to hearing wider views on this, so they are going to steamroll this through to satisfy their own agenda. They are fighting to win, and that is what the industry needs to do as well... otherwise it won't. But, I say this with very mixed feelings about the poor range of options.
 

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I think the idea of exposing clients is contradictory in maintaining trust from those who have valued and supported you for years! It's a case of shooting yourself in the foot, and I do not support exposing those who seek my companionship. I do think exposing questionable behaviour is valid though, people who are inquiring about bbfs are taking advantage of women (or men) who are potentially more vulnerable, in a way, and I think the request in unethical. Also aggressive behaviour is also questionable, therefore we have sections here on perb for that, but is that enough? Are these offences serious enough to make a call to law enforcement? I'm not convinced although I think there should be some sort of change, I think the changes being proposed are bringing us back to the stone age and creative a fear-based mentality. I'm simply going to go exclusive once these laws are in effect and remove my advertising except for a few photos with my number, no text or rates will be posted… It is not a war on our clients, it is the few at the top who are "holier than tho" mentality who are going to dictate how the rest of us lead our lives.
 

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"I personally am always in favor of taking the high road. i don't think we should lower ourselves to these kinds of tactics (outing people). its what the feminazis would do."

Totally agree with you susi


but on the other hand as she suggests, maybe just some clients who are directly involved in pushing this bill through...?

What good will that do... they will be replaced by others.
 

susi

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i agree loki and everyone else, it is one of our most important traditions. i think we need to honor ourselves and stick to our principles. we should not lower ourselves to these kinds of tactics.

love susie
 

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Having spent the last year educating the online community, protesting against 'Outings', and after witnessing many outings of SP’s, clients, and agency/board owners, etc. by industry members on industry forums, along with the resulting devastation – I cannot support the idea of deliberately outing innocent clients.

The only circumstance where outing might be appropriate is if Terri had the names of clients who have broken the law and committed serious crimes against SP’s. Bill Russell comes to mind. Is there a list of criminal (rape, assault, murder, etc.) clients and would there be any advantage in outing guys like that?

Are you able to post Terri's email or did she want all replies sent through you, and do you want this posted on the TO & QUE boards, or just here?

One more thought - outings still occur regularly on some industry forums, and this would set a dangerous precedent and encourage unscrupulous people to continue doing it, imo.
the body of my post is her email; sure people can post it on other forums however, she has reached out to the eastern communities as well. i prefer to stay out of their business out there and focus on the local stuff....

anyway, yes i agree and outing threats have long been a problem for our industry and a way in which clients are exploited. i understand why she wants to though and appreciate that she has asked the community for our opinion before proceeding. i genuinely believe she will honor the communities input.

susie
 

susi

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also, terri jean is pretty easy to find on-line if people prefer to not send their email through me. however, i have helped in this regard in the past and so will do so again this time. i will copy and paste comments from here into an email to share our perspective with her as she requested we do in her original message.
 

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we do use the boards alot.... AESHA, john's voice, sex safety and security, CAEC terms of reference, by-law revisions.....media opportunities...

anytime there's a question or an opportunity to take part we post it...at least out here on the west coast....

i try to be careful about back checking anything we post in order to protect people's confidentiality etc.

susie
 

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I am for holding those responsible who voted for this bill, amongst the conservatives. Not the other parties. It has been long established that you are responsible for what you do, not for what you were told to do, or not, and therefore, we should nail the hypocrypes in the Conservative party. They in fact probably won't stop dealing with prostitutes anyway, law or no law, and will be ciminials in the making after the law is approved, which looks pretty imminent.

Timing would be the issue, and I think right before the election. The SP's should just set up a sting, make a date with the Parliamentary member, film it, release it on U tube, and sit back and enjoy. After all, that is what the cops do pretty well, and so what is different. We all have the right to make a citizen's arrest don't we? this is just a bit indirect. And the guy is a criminal afterall, and the SP is just nitifying the public that he is one. Goes on all the time.
Or rather than filming it, maybe she should set up the date then call the Police. Let them deal with it, more effective.
She would be helping in keeping criminals out of parliament.

For get this mercy thing, the guy might walk into a police sting operation anyway.
 

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I agree and am on record on this in the other thread.

I am also on record as saying that if the decision is taken to release names, that it should be done strategically. By this I mean wait for the next federal election. Wait until the nominations are done and the campaign under way. Wait until the media is fully involved and the party leaders have stood behind their team. Wait until changing horses is very, very difficult. Then release names that will have the greatest political impact on the election. The other party may not be any help on this issue, but one can punish the one that brought in the legislation (and fire a warning shot across the bows of the other parties.
This, with a slight twist.

I would recommend presenting the media with numbers, but not names. Saying an unnamed X% of sitting MP's, senators, civil servants and lobbyists that support the bill have been verified as mongers, it would sow confusion and distrust not only from the public, but within the party as well. Leave anyone that voted against the bill off the the books. They aren't being hypocrites.

Also, as long as you have proof, you can make the claim without running into the grey area of slander or "naming names" (breaking a personal or industry code). Be absolutely accurate in the proof and numbers. If they challenge it, all you have to do is point out that you're happy to release the names if they demand them, but as they have the potential to ruin lives, you'd rather not.

Ergo, if they want to catch the Judas in their midst, if they want to appear strong to their morale supporters, they either have to give in and order you to release the names, or engage in an internal witch hunt... a very destructive act on any organization. It gets even better if not all of them are back benchers (but again, be careful of naming positions).

Keep the records, maintain the figures, and keep pumping out the numbers to the media. Just make damn sure that you have adequate proof if you are forced to produce it. Highlight any sessions that were degrading or even violent. If you want to be really pointed, you could also list acts that would be offensive to the far right Christian crowd, but that might be pushing the envelope. Make a big stink about it... don't let the world
 

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i don't erica, but once terri jean has received her feedback from everyone, i am sure she will share that sort of thing with everyone.

out here, sex worker's orgs have confidentiality as a foundation rule and for the bccec it is not something we could ever support. we have always supported dialogue over attacks. whether that attack is against people who attack us or those we feel are a threat, it has always been our way to "take the high road".

we have to be better than those who wish to harm us or "end our community". we have had alot of success that way, being the voice of reason. the abolitionists are always reactionary and attacking so we look like we're the ones who are reasonable. this is why sex worker org's here were part of the city task force for example and the feminazi's weren't.

i will compile the comments here into an email and send them to terri jean tomorrow.

thanks for everyone's comments!!
love susie
 

hornygandalf

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Well, this conversation has now made it to the mainstream. Stephen Maher wrote about it last night. This is the link: http://o.canada.com/news/national/f...whether-to-out-politicians-as-alleged-clients
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Did you note Bedfords' comments at the end of the article. Her liver is ravaged by hepatitis and she is trying to get expensive drug treatment, otherwise she might not live through the winter. It is tragic that she is in this situation over her health, but I can see her desire to make a difference while she is still alive will also colour her decision.
 

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Releasing names of clients is just plain wrong. The ends do not justify the means. Clients enter into a "transaction" expecting discretion. Breaking that trust is not acceptable but then perhaps Bedford is no longer interested in having clients in the future. However every other SP in the country may feel the effects of this breach of trust because once this line is crossed, would other SPs still be trusted? The act of releasing names may be more damaging to the industry than the Bill itself.
 

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With C-36 all but here...
Laws cannot be enforced retroactive to the date on which they come into effect.

Any actions you took prior to Bill C36 becoming law are irrelevant. You cannot be "fingered" for anything you done.

Everyone should be careful about who they deal with after C36 receives Royal Assent. I will not be dealing with anyone I do not already know and trust.
 
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