MENTALLY UNSTABLE CLIENTS ? Sp's share your stories please

[JessicaPrabbit]

So ..."I have this friend" lol ...

Truth, NOT my client. A regular of one of the ladies at a studio I may have worked for at some time.
Tell me please, should we be concerned ? Should we worry ? Should we have to ?
Can anybody relate to this tale or does anyone wish to share another similar tale of, in what your opinion, would equate to a MENTALLY UNSTABLE CLIENT? (Hence Forth to be referred to as MUS!!)

Once a known client crosses the following boundaries, is there justification in labeling him as a MUS??:

a) Has the number to contact his fav sp 'for appointments only' but uses the number countless times each day to whine and complain and express that he is "jealous" of what she may be doing.

b) Has shown up at the studio when his favorite sp is NOT on shift, knowing she is NOT on shift to discuss His and Her "sad state of current shared emotion or lack thereof" with other sp's he knows to be ON shift? DISCUSS BEING THE KEY WORD ...no sessions, no tip, just a shoulder to cry on for 45+ minutes.

c) Fav Sp may have shared a small amount of information with the client not knowing fully he is a MUS resulting in him having knowledge of some outside activities to which his response is clear suggestions that he will appear on scene to disrupt her plans should she carry through, due to his jealous nature.

d) Goes out of his way to deliver HATE MAIL directly to random potential members by way of pm indicating that these gents NOT visit the lady(s) he obviously has personal issues with.

e) While visiting his favorite sp, and in the middle of things (DATY) can not even shut up long enough to enjoy the pleasure without raising his head and telling his favorite to not be brainwashed by anyone who may be trying to convince her that he is ...what he clearly knows he is, "A MENTALLY UNSTABLE CLIENT"

Please note, he is NOT trying to sabotage his favorite sp, his childish pathetic attacks are aimed at the ladies within the studio who are aware he is in a FACT a MUS and have made honest effort to bring some kind of balance to the situation regardless of the fact the guy is completely ready to tip over the deep end and is highly likely to do something irrational.
....just askin'...

BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit
www.jessicaprabbit.com
Authors Disclaimer:
The opinions expressed here are the authors personal views and do not reflect those of his employer, co-workers or those of his clients in any way.
Any similarity to any persons living or dead is merely coincidental.

 

[oppai]

Why would the SP still see this douche? Each number you describe is Unstable on it's own. All together is stalker psycho potential!!

 

[*emmanuelle]

As a safety precaution, I consider everyone "mentally unstable until proven otherwise"

 

[island-guy]

That is exactly the type of client that an SP should cut off all contact with and avoid like the plague.

RUN don't walk.

Get a restraining order if needed (which it likely will be at this point)

This will not end well.

 

[Gr33kFreak]

As a safety precaution, I consider everyone "mentally unstable until proven otherwise"

Ha!

But seriously I agree compleely with island guy. This will not end well but it needs to stop now before things get even worse. It's hard for any business to turn way customers but you have your own safety and the safety of your coworker hanging I'm the balance.

Good luck and please stay safe.

Regards,

GF

 

[JessicaPrabbit]

Gentlemen please share your thoughts as well ...

As you have suggested ...
We also fear this may escalate.
****** Please share your wisdom.
JessicaPRabbit

 

[namssa]

As a safety precaution, I consider everyone "mentally unstable until proven otherwise"

Emmanuelle, I have to say that I like your statement above, very true.

As well, I think that the picture in your signature is very sexy.



Have to agree with the general thinking of the thread, said person sounds like a whack job.

Personally, any 1 or 2 of those premises should be enough to get him labelled a "whacker" and banned from the establishment. Guy clearly has issues and should be seeking counselling.

 

[jim]

Sounds like this 'whack' job is not only a danger to the sp he's infatuated with but he's also attempted to harm the co-workers reputations.

 

[HB40]

DISCUSS BEING THE KEY WORD ...no sessions, no tip, just a shoulder to cry on for 45+ minutes.

Wait.....we can do that?!?

I'm mentally unstable like crazy.....but this guy is pathetic!

 

[jim]

Wait.....we can do that?!?

I'm mentally unstable like crazy.....but this guy is pathetic!

Don't be thinking you can go to the studios for your breakdowns HB. That's what MERL is for!

 

[Pillowtalk]

Don't be thinking you can go to the studios for your breakdowns HB. That's what MERL is for!

I thought that was what eddie was for?

 

[jim]

I thought that was what eddie was for?

After the cry eddie takes HB over to the 'bus' for his love therapy.

 

[Rotcod]

So ..."I have this friend" lol ...

Truth, NOT my client. A regular of one of the ladies at a studio I may have worked for at some time.
Tell me please, should we be concerned ? Should we worry ? Should we have to ?
Can anybody relate to this tale or does anyone wish to share another similar tale of, in what your opinion, would equate to a MENTALLY UNSTABLE CLIENT? (Hence Forth to be referred to as MUS!!)

Once a known client crosses the following boundaries, is there justification in labeling him as a MUS??:

a) Has the number to contact his fav sp 'for appointments only' but uses the number countless times each day to whine and complain and express that he is "jealous" of what she may be doing.

b) Has shown up at the studio when his favorite sp is NOT on shift, knowing she is NOT on shift to discuss His and Her "sad state of current shared emotion or lack thereof" with other sp's he knows to be ON shift? DISCUSS BEING THE KEY WORD ...no sessions, no tip, just a shoulder to cry on for 45+ minutes.

c) Fav Sp may have shared a small amount of information with the client not knowing fully he is a MUS resulting in him having knowledge of some outside activities to which his response is clear suggestions that he will appear on scene to disrupt her plans should she carry through, due to his jealous nature.

d) Goes out of his way to deliver HATE MAIL directly to random potential members by way of pm indicating that these gents NOT visit the lady(s) he obviously has personal issues with.

e) While visiting his favorite sp, and in the middle of things (DATY) can not even shut up long enough to enjoy the pleasure without raising his head and telling his favorite to not be brainwashed by anyone who may be trying to convince her that he is ...what he clearly knows he is, "A MENTALLY UNSTABLE CLIENT"

Please note, he is NOT trying to sabotage his favorite sp, his childish pathetic attacks are aimed at the ladies within the studio who are aware he is in a FACT a MUS and have made honest effort to bring some kind of balance to the situation regardless of the fact the guy is completely ready to tip over the deep end and is highly likely to do something irrational.
....just askin'...

BunnyHugs
JessicaPRabbit
www.jessicaprabbit.com
Authors Disclaimer:
The opinions expressed here are the authors personal views and do not reflect those of his employer, co-workers or those of his clients in any way.
Any similarity to any persons living or dead is merely coincidental.

.....And I thought I was screwed up in the head.

Seriously though any working ladies you know need to be warned about this guy. He sounds like he ate way too many Froot Loops

 

[johnperb]

I would move

 

[Thatotherguy]

As a safety precaution, I consider everyone "mentally unstable until proven otherwise"

It's sad, but this is actually really good advice. It's a lot safer and smarter to assume that everyone is mentally unstable.

Now having said that, I should really make another trip over to Victoria soon to continue to try to prove to you that I'm really not mentally unstable

 

[HB40]

Can anybody relate to this tale or does anyone wish to share another similar tale

I will share, and I can tell you I know who this client is. He was a problem already several months ago, I can't understand why you girls continue to enable and encourage this behaviour, with him or any client who starts getting too clingy and jealous.

I was seeing an SP once who I admit I got way too infatuated with. What happened was, through pm's I was led to believe false claims from another pooner and expressed my displeasure and jealousy to the girl without considering the facts. There was no discussion, no explanation, she had no reason to dignify herself, I was in the wrong. I got one single simple message from her, "I'm sorry, I am not the SP for you." I tried to apologize, explain and redeem myself, but her decision was final, deliberate and unwavering. She refused all contact and it was abundantly clear by her resolve that I must move on.

I would suggest you do the same with this guy, you must refuse to see him and ban him from the studio. It worked with me and eventually I learned my lesson and was granted admission again. It was what I needed to put me on the right track.

 

[wolverine]

I think there's quite a few pooners who are mentally unstable, hence why they have to pay for sex (i know i know, pot-kettle and all that).

Personally I endeavor to not get personally involved with the SPs I see, although there are some you want to take home to mama for tea and crumpets, so I understand the temptation to take the pooner/SP relationship a step further. I know well enough that even if I'm an SP's all-time favorite client, a client is all I am - I'd be deluding myself if I think I'm anything more than that. After all, would these ladies even give me the time of day under other circumstances? I think not.

 

[island-guy]

Not only would I suggest to the SP in question to take whatever steps necessary to never encounter this weirdo again.

Based on my own past experiences, when there is a pooner out there who is saying that he is jealous of an SP seeing clients, I wouldn't go anywhere near that SP myself. Who wants to be caught in the crossfire of the drama? Not worth it.

 

[Rotcod]

My opinion is that everyone is, at least to some degree, fucked in the head. Heck there have been a couple of occasions in which I have gotten somewhat attached to a girl and had to stop seeing sp in general til I was more stable. Sex is tricky that way, most of the time us guys, (and a lot of ladies), can separate the physical pleasure aspect of sex from the emotional attachment that accompanies it, but sometimes it still can slip by under our radar.

BTW, I love scones but I hate tea (except for green tea)

 

[island-guy]

My opinion is that everyone is, at least to some degree, fucked in the head. Heck there have been a couple of occasions in which I have gotten somewhat attached to a girl and had to stop seeing sp in general til I was more stable.

The difference is that there are those like yourself, who see the problem and take a break, and there are those whose reaction is then to start stalking the SP in question.

In your case, it isn't an example of being "fucked in the head" it is an example of the little head taking over.

In the case of the stalker types, they are truly fucked in the head.