men and women

[Muffdiver69]

amusing observation about women and men.

first let me preface that i am all for womens lib and equality. Equal pay for equal work and all that ...
Just something i come across alot in having conversations with various women, be it a store clerk or co-worker
or a service person that comes to your business or home. I make small talk just as i would if they were a man. Farthest from
my thots are getting into their pants or asking them out.....no really .. sure there are times when i am thinking that but in these instances i am not
i treat them as an equal. You are a fellow human person and i am enjoying talking to you...thats it.....Somewhere along in the conversation i get the "my husband and i ...blah blah blah... or my boyfriend and i ..blah blah blah... line
lol..do all women think all men are trying to pick them up because they are just talking to them and being friendly?

very amusing

 

[Lady Companion]

I personally think it is polite to mention something like that upfront. The lady isn't sure of what your intentions are, and she is just putting out there that she is not available (in case you were hoping she was).

Clearing something like that up in the beginning just lets you both know and understand that the relaionship isn't going beyond plutonic. I think it would be worse for a gentleman to invest a great deal of time into a 'friendship' or even just an extended conversation if he was seeking something more, and she didn't realize that.

Communication and clarity are never a bad thing!

 

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Maybe they are trying to get into your pants, so they have to try to reign in the desire by reminding themselves that they have a husband/boyfriend Or it's that their lives are boring and uneventful, and they need something/someone else to talk about.

Or you could counter with something like you and my girlfriend #3 seem to have quite a bit in common and would enjoy each other's company.

What subjects do your conversations with these women revolve around? Under what setting(s)? In spite of all that, I think I know what you mean. It's like some women wear a ring but are neither engaged nor married but single.

 

[Rammstein69]

Just because they tell you up front about their SO, doesn't necessarily mean they're in a healthy, happy relationship.

I've had women 'friends' openly divuldge being married or otherwise committed very early in our friendship, only to progressively cut their partner to shreds to me, and drop hints (some subtle and not so subtle) about looking for greener pastures. It's just amazing how many married women seem to be in bad relationships.

Personally, I think it's a bit unnatural for men and women to be 'just good friends' without one or both parties eventually developing romantic feelings.

Long story short, if she mentions a hubby or boyfriend, doesn't necessarily indicate a red light, although one should assume as such until proven otherwise.

 

[kalel]

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Clearing something like that up in the beginning just lets you both know and understand that the relationship isn't going beyond plutonic. I think it would be worse for a gentleman to invest a great deal of time into a 'friendship' or even just an extended conversation if he was seeking something more, and she didn't realize that.

Communication and clarity are never a bad thing!

at that point you should just give her the envelope with the donation in it so you can get down to business.....

 

[kalel]

Just because they tell you up front about their SO, doesn't necessarily mean they're in a healthy, happy relationship.

I've had women 'friends' openly divuldge being married or otherwise committed very early in our friendship, only to progressively cut their partner to shreds to me, and drop hints (some subtle and not so subtle) about looking for greener pastures. It's just amazing how many married women seem to be in bad relationships.

Personally, I think it's a bit unnatural for men and women to be 'just good friends' without one or both parties eventually developing romantic feelings.

Long story short, if she mentions a hubby or boyfriend, doesn't necessarily indicate a red light, although one should assume as such until proven otherwise.

i also think that if she's in a relationship leave her the fuck alone. karma's a bitch. and of course i'm posting this on an escort review board

 

[kalel]

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I disagree. She's an adult who can make her own decisions about her relationship and who she does or doesn't fuck. Just like married men can in concerns to this hobby.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

what's a gander?

and i'm not surprised that you'd disagree. it's what makes this hobby more lucrative for many.

 

[magicmystery]

I think it just means that guy (you in this case) wasn't interesting enough (to her) at that time to warrant withholding information about her boyfriend/husband. She may or may not have assumed you were trying to pick her up. But she definitely decided you weren't interesting enough (until this point).