Maybe I'm a freak, but ...

[eurhythmia]

Well, this new year is truly off to a crappy start. Haven't been pooning much as I've been seeing this lil Japanese woman on the side for the past couple of months.

And now it is happening again. After awhile I find myself first losing interest and then, slowly but surely, finding my boy-toy somewhat repulsive for really no explicable reason, to the point that I even try avoid kissing them on the lips. Usually they end up as just a disposal unit for me.

Perhaps I have gotten to know them too well; maybe I'm just plain immature and afraid of any kind of commitment. (And yes, I'm sure I need therapy - just too busy for it. Plus every therapist I have ever met is much more fucked up than me.)

The question here is: Is this a common thing or am I an emotional freak?

 

[PeterLongwood]

After awhile I find myself first losing interest and then, slowly but surely, finding my boy-toy somewhat repulsive for really no explicable reason, to the point that I even try avoid kissing them on the lips.

I would find a "boy-toy" repulsive right from the start. Now a "girl-toy".....that's another matter!

 

[eurhythmia]

Now I'm really confused. Is it 'boy toy' or 'girl toy'?

 

[PeterLongwood]

Now I'm really confused. Is it 'boy toy' or 'girl toy'?

A "boy-toy" is a cougar's younger, and penis-equipped, plaything.

 

[westwoody]

Maybe it is the thrill of the chase and the novelty of the girl that attracts you, not the girl herself. Once you have actually done her a couple of times there is no more attraction. It is not her fault, just the way it is. A lot of guys I know are like that. That is why some guys never see the same girl more than once.

 

[anonanon]

Your not gay, are you?

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Assmuing that you meant your little girlie fuck puppet I can completely relate. I guess partially because once you start viewing them as a sex object you quickly get bored of them. Not much unlike when we were children and loved a new toy then quickly got sick of it and started to share it with friends and even gave it away.

 

[georgebushmoron]

Now I'm really confused. Is it 'boy toy' or 'girl toy'?

Your post is confusing me as to whether you're a guy or girl. I also can't tell if you're gay or straight. Also, your name "eurhythmia" is so fucking gender-neutral, it adds more to the confusion and frankly it probably symbolizes that you're likely genderless in real life.

So get clear and post something with clarity if you want help. Otherwise, we waste our time trying to figure you out.

 

[chilli]

Well as part of your sig you do have moral corrupt.

If thats the kind of thing you take pride in and have a need to let others know about you, well I guess you have your answer.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

What part of the following is confusing you as to the specific gender of who he is referring to?

...I've been seeing this lil Japanese woman on the side for the past couple of months.

...The question here is: Is this a common thing or am I an emotional freak?

The answer here is: The only person that could possibly answer this question about you is someone who has known you for some time. There could be a million fuckin' reasons why she doesn't do it for you. You weren't breast fed as a baby. She's ugly. She's really a guy. You sobered up. Who the hell knows?

I would find a "boy-toy" repulsive right from the start. Now a "girl-toy".....that's another matter!

A boy-toy is by definition a guy that does your granny. I think eurythmia is confused because of Madonna and that trucker belt buckle she wore.

 

[Mr.O]

Maybe it is you

A boy-toy is by definition a guy that does your granny. I think eurythmia is confused because of Madonna and that trucker belt buckle she wore.

Well your a lot like a lot of guys out there.
It`s the chase & the conquering that U like. I will venture to guess that U have never dated a truly beautiful woman.
You go out & get what u can get & it satisfies you for the short term.
If you ever find a really good woman I hope you can have the sense to hold on to her.

I have dated mostly pretty women my entire life & I am a very average looking guy. but the thing that I caught on to in my late twenties is why I only dated the hotties.
I was concerned with MY image, I had to have the hottest GF out of all my friends. It was a status symbol. Sad thing is these "hotties" were boring & high maintenance. (a few exceptions though)
If yer going fer a GF, I suggest SUBSTANCE over SYMBOLISM !
Get a woman that has a head on her shoulders a personality of her own, not sumthin` she picked up from the latest "In crowd" TV show.
Of course yer going to get bored if she has no depth to her, shallow waters are too easy to explore & usually come with close borders.
To keep your interest U need a woman that is more like a Sea than a pond.

My SP`s & the ones I`ve seen in the past were not chosen for their looks, I find the ones who enjoy SEX! . That is the reason I see SP`s in the first place. They are supposed to be professional courtesans, enchantresses for your pleasure. Good looks does not mean Good sex, trust me I KNOW!!

From the tone of yer comments I take it you don`t have the greatest of respect for women, so based on that I will say forget the looks & get to know one who becomes a really good friend. You will be surprised that they can be pretty cool... even if all you really want to do is get laid.

On a side note - I, like Madonna trying to take Boy-Toy & change the definition, have embarked on a quest to help take it back, Porch Monkey that is.
Show your support by clicking here.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=61615
!!!
or you can clik my monkey!

 

[Sonny]

From other posts he has made in other threads, it seems clear that eurhythmia is male.

"boy-toy" turns up in a few ways, for example.

Young Ashton is cougar Demi's boy-toy.

Madonna in her early years was referred to as a boy-toy in the sense that she was a toy for the boys.

I think that 'fuck puppet' (from HeMadeMeDoIt's post) is what this girl is to you and replaces your use of 'boy-toy'.

"Usually they end up as just a disposal unit for me" seems to be how you habitually look at women, so a real emotional relationship isn't going to be easy for you.