Married SPs (SPs please chime in)

[geek]

Now here is the question(s):

1. Guys do you think it is hotter to be with a married SP? Would it make a difference to you?
2. Ladies, many of you (at least those I have talked to) don't have a husband or boyfriend and say they couldn't have one while they were SPing. Do you agree? Would you give up SPing for the right guy?
3. Guys, honestly, do you want to marry an SP? Wouldn't it kill you knowing your wife was doing it with a number of guys? Some of which have to be better than you (law of averages)?

1. No it's irrelevant to me if an sp I am seeing is in a relationship, she has her life and I have mine.

2. I would not ask an sp I am in a relationship with to give up being an sp that would be her decision to make and I would support what ever she decided


3. Yes I would marry an SP and no it wouldn't kill to know that she was "doing it" with different guys. There is a fundamental difference between having sex with somone and loving them and I would only marry for love.

Thanks to all the great sp's out there the sex part is easy but finding the love part is much harder.

 

[wess]

My first CIM was requested by the SP.

I have never requested this myself, but have had this done as part of the regular service, in a number of Canadian cities.

G.A.

Can we get an SPs reaction to this, i think its nonsense. How many SPs have requested that thair client CIM???? Included in the full service rate???

 

[melissa.in.abby]

Can we get an SPs reaction to this, i think its nonsense. How many SPs have requested that thair client CIM???? Included in the full service rate???

It is included in all my rates, plus msog... does that make me whore??

 

[geek]

It is included in all my rates, plus msog... does that make me whore??

Hell no that makes you a slut.

From the urban dictionary

whore

A woman that sleeps with everyone but YOU!!!!!
SEE: SLUT - A woman that sleeps with everyone.

 

[melissa.in.abby]

Hell no that makes you a slut.

From the urban dictionary

oh, I already knew that I am slut that is old news, lol

 

[wess]

It is included in all my rates, plus msog... does that make me whore??

CIM as in unload all over you? for a 100 bucks?

 

[Hoe_watch]

it's no concern of mine who an SP is seeing or not. what I wanna know is what SP's oppinions are on guys who are attatched or married, and just wanna do something they might not be able to get at home normally. is that bad?

 

[Extreme April]

Can we get an SPs reaction to this, i think its nonsense. How many SPs have requested that thair client CIM???? Included in the full service rate???

Not me.....sorry guys but I dont like this. COF or anywhere else on my body but not CIM. I dont even like to do it with the husband. I have but I dont like to do it.
There is something about it tasting like baking soda that turns my stomach.
I have tried many times but always seem to want to gag. Which is kinda weird cause I love everything else. Maybe someday I will require a taste for it.
I have to admit though...depending on what a guy eats, the pre cum is sweet.
And I know that if the guy drinks pineapple juice or you can purchase pills on line that can make the taste different. But I havent tried this out yet.
Anyone try this? My husband asks me every once in awhile to see if I will do this. I would like to see if this stuff really works. Maybe someday I will shock my husband by allowing CIM. Hmmm our anniversary is coming up in a couple of days lol.

love and laughs
April

 

[JFF009]

And CIM is not a part of full service. Im sure some girls do it but it costs extra i would think.

For some girls I'm sure it is part of regular service and doesn't cost any extra. I know of a few for sure...

 

[Purrr VertIcal]

I am an SP and I am very happily married. I decided to try doing this for a living when my husband and I watched a Maury Povich show. One of the guests on his show was a married couple. They had three children and her husband was a computer programmer analyst. My husband happens to do the same thing. The interesting thing was the wife was one of the top earners at The Kit Kat Ranch, in Reno. He would drive her to work everyday. Get the kids off to school and then he would go to his job.

I thought...I could do this. My husband knowing I have a high sex drive. We both agreed.....lets try this.
I love my job. I am so fortunate to have such an understanding husband. I am so lucky to not have the worries that other SP in this business have. They either cant tell their SO what they do, or their SO has a problem with what they do and constantly throwing it back in the SP faces.

My husband and I have been together for 19 years and have five kids. He knows I am not going to run off with anyone. God, why would I want to start over again with jealousy issues, trustworthiness, and not knowing what is my partners head.

His only requests is that he never runs into the clients. Which I can understand. And of course he is not comfortable if he happens to hear me in the room. But he gets totally turned on by hearing all about my sessions when he comes and picks me up at night.
And because most clients dont make it past the bj....well I am just hot and horny by the time the end of the night rolls around. He reaps the rewards, cause I cant keep my hands off of him on the drive home.

The other girls are right....I have a wonderful guy, who drops everything to make sure that my needs are met. I am so fortunate.

love and laughs
April

WowoW -
Remember that classic rock tune by Three Dog Night,
"I've Got Pieces of April"?

I guess it has deeper meaning than I realized!

 

[Violet]

I think what is causing the disbelief for some people is that the poster said an SP asked him to cum in her mouth. It may be that there are some girls who will do it for an extra charge, or even a few who will do it with no extra charge if the client asks her & she likes him, but it is very rare for the SP to ask the client if he will CIM. It does happen ocassionally though, but I doubt it's because the girl just really loves CIM, it is more likely that when a girl asks if the client wants to do this & doesn't charge more it is because she is hoping to get repeat business from the client. So there is still a monetary reason behind it. But if the question to SPs is would you personally ask a client to CIM, my answer is "hell no", but I don't offer CIM at all.


Additionally: The only possibility I could see for this happening when the SP knows that it won't result in repeat business is if it is an SP that includes CIM in her reg price & is just "asking" him to do it because she thinks it will be hot & turn him on. Like when an SP asks "do you want me to suck your dick?" or says "I want you to fuck me", it's just dirty talk, it's not like you are getting something extra that wasn't already included in the appt, or that she is necessarily really turned on by the idea. Or she could've been asking "do you want to cum in my mouth [or would you prefer to cum on my tits or inside me]?"

 

[gigolojake]

Can't Resist Adding My Two Cents...

There have actually been a few threads on here that have dealt with this subject. You might be amused to know that I have the exact opposite experience of the female SP's.

As a male SP and in the business for almost 10 years, I would really like to date. Man it is impossible.

By the time I rule out those women that wouldn't touch me because of what I do, and then rule out those that just want a free one (and they are out there believe me) and then rule out those that I'm not interested in, I'm left with a mystery woman I certainly haven't met yet

People have suggested that I date a female SP...that's sounds easy huh? Try meeting them "socially"??? LOL!!!! If you can find one that will believe I'm a male SP and that I want to date, I'll buy you a drink!!!

...and...no matter how beautiful the client I am with, the sex is totally different when I'm with someone I care about.

OK...enough from me...back to girls ;-)

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

I'm a male escort for girls too. Sadly I make no money.

I will never get married or date anyone, SP or normal girl.

I have never felt anything whatsoever for a woman after ejaculating.

Isn't that what it's like for most of us guys here?

 

[JFF009]

There have actually been a few threads on here that have dealt with this subject.
As a male SP and in the business for almost 10 years

So then answer the question...do you ever ask your clients to cum in your mouth???

 

[HB40]

So then answer the question...do you ever ask your clients to cum in your mouth???

That seems like a stupid question, I think if he doesn't he's not much of a gigolo.

Gigolo Jake - Male Escort for Women

 

[deslicher]

Wow, some interesting comments, 1) I would never get really emotionally involved with an SP, so I wouldn't date her or marry her. 2) The person that I am right now couldn't marry an ex-sp either(I don't think anyway)

The complexity of this whole deal is mind boggling unless you simplify things1) I choose to see sps because i'm single and need/want female companionship but it's not all about sex. I actually believe 20%(might be lower) of the men are having 80% of the sex with women(of course)

I believe most men/women want to be monogamous if they're in a serious loving relationship, I don't think it's impossible, just improbable. Someone is always gonna want more or less.

 

[gigolojake]

LOL ... of course I have a day job...

....I'm sorry the other "male escort" doesn't make any money. I do...but I have a day job too.

I make enough money that I could live on it, but not enough to plan for a future etc. Frankly, if were a 'scrub' the women and couples that call me wouldn't want to touch me with 10 foot pole. It's because, in a strange way, I fit in, that I get regular clients.

Walk into a multi-million dollar home in West Van and talk like some goof off the street and you won't be there long...make sense?

Most guys don't make any money and that's why they don't hang around and do it for very long.

I have to say that there is a "trick" to getting clients for a male. Don't ask me what it is cause I'm not going to tell you

As for CIM or COF...I have two clients who have learned to squirt with me and I never know where I'll get hit!!!

Thanks whoever pointed out I'm here for females only

Cheers all,

Jake

 

[sinfulsydnee]

Also married...

Like April, I'm also married...also for 19 years...I had a career in the charitable sector prior to becoming an SP but I had a fantasy about being an SP since I was a teenager...my husband was the one who told me "it's now or never" and said he knew I'd be happy and successful with the career change...we also have an open relationship where we play with others both on our own and as a couple...

My husband has met several clients and some of them have become friends of his...it's pretty wild when I think of it really...he's a pretty enlightened guy...

I know I'm incredibly fortunate!

As for CIM...I'm guilty of requesting this sometimes I find it incredibly hot...

 

[DominaPandora]

I've been married over 2 years now and we met here, on PERB. As he was out of town, we spent a great deal of time talking by email. Neither of us expected more than a session and certainly not what transpired. There was a deep connection, so much so that when he tried to extend the first session, I said no and ran for the hills. But, he called again and after that second date... I asked him if he might be interested in seeing me and spending the money in other ways.

The rest is history. It was a whirlwind and I don't regret it. He knew who I was and he knows who I am, he's the most supportive and most wonderful man. He's my vanilla and I'm his wild spice.

We even have had the opportunity to share one of the most wonderful ladies on this board together. So, how did I pick him?

I didn't. It was just different and we both felt it and we went with it. It was a risk, but one worth taking, in this case.

 

[moi]

Wow i never knew there were male escorts on this board. And only for women nonetheless. Always had a fantasy about paying for sex lol. Maybe an allusion of power, perhaps.

Anyways, not a single guy I've dated knows what I do, my SD doesn't know either. We met by chance and have an unspoken relationship.

I have asked guys if they mind dating a stripper or an SP, some said yes, some said no. It's psychological. They still date me, they just don't know my night job. I'm "me" in my personal life.

PERSONALLY, I would never date a guy that is ok with what I'm doing, and even when I worked at an MP and had a few clients, I'd still go home horny as hell!!! Because there is always a lacking intimacy that I absolutely crave to feel 100% satisfied so my sex drive is not lowered in that aspect.

As for the CIM thing, I've never heard of that until this thread, only heard of SPs offering BBFS.