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Okay guys, I know this is contradictory to a problem that the SP industry has already solved.

Let's assume you are in a sexless SO situation, and getting caught is not an issue for whatever reason.

Is there much of a chance of finding hook-ups on Tinder? I mean with being completely honest about being married. Or at least not lying about being single. Ideally with permission from SO.
 

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Okay guys, I know this is contradictory to a problem that the SP industry has already solved.

Let's assume you are in a sexless SO situation, and getting caught is not an issue for whatever reason.

Is there much of a chance of finding hook-ups on Tinder? I mean with being completely honest about being married. Or at least not lying about being single. Ideally with permission from SO.
Most of the apps should have Poly options now a days ( instead of single )

You should always be honest w someone about your situation when meeting on a dating site though .
 
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lukom

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I tried Grinder, cause that's where trans girls go and I was surprised that biological girls go there too. Some were ladies looking for money posting on hookup sites, instead of advertising as escorts on LL.
 
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Tinder isn’t what it used to be.
Many women are using it as a more traditional dating app now, and the “quick hookup” isn’t nearly as prominent.
Apps like Pure and Feeld seem to be the place for that now, but like anything the ratio of guys to women is likely off the chart.
But if you’re a good looking dude, and are open about your situation being ENM (ethical non monogamy, ie. your partner knows and is fine with it) those might be better places to try.
 
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LusciousLouis

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Tinder isn’t what it used to be.
Many women are using it as a more traditional dating app now, and the “quick hookup” isn’t nearly as prominent.
Apps like Pure and Feeld seem to be the place for that now, but like anything the ratio of guys to women is likely off the chart.
But if you’re a good looking dude, and are open about your situation being ENM (ethical non monogamy, ie. your partner knows and is fine with it) those might be better places to try.
I would be interested to hear if anyone here has had experience with either Pure of Feeld.
 

masterpoonhunter

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I haven't been on those for some time (2 years or so) but POF and Tinder both had results.
And definitely both changed from hookup to more traditional dating.
 

Once you go black

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I haven't been on those for some time (2 years or so) but POF and Tinder both had results.
And definitely both changed from hookup to more traditional dating.
Surprisingly Tinder is still the most used even after all these yrs ,

But ya all the apps are getting less traffic than even a few yrs ago .
 

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I tried Grinder, cause that's where trans girls go and I was surprised that biological girls go there too. Some were ladies looking for money posting on hookup sites, instead of advertising as escorts on LL.
How’s your experience been finding the trans girls on Grindr?
 
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