AceVerb said:
I know I sound young and naive but that is the way I view it. When I get married, it will be goodbye girls on the side. Really!
I can certainly understand where you are coming from. Since I don't know you I shall presume that you are a mature adult under the age of 30, and probably an intelligent person too.
That being said, I have found myself more understanding of others actions. If one takes the approach of "understanding" you might be able to "explain" someone's action of lack of action. Obviously don't have to agree, that's my point, it's a different level of understanding.
I believe you should enter marriage with the dedication you have put forth. Being focused on your relationship will be a joy for all involved. All I ask that is you don't think less of us who have a reason or need to go outside the home for romance ... time changes some things ...