The Porn Dude

manuplative girl i met at metro-horrible experience

vette99

Banned
Dec 16, 2012
10
0
0
met a girl at metrotown. i approached her and went direct. said she was cute and then got her number. 3 days later i call her and we chatted for 40 minutes. at the end i suggest we meet up for coffee. i ask her were is good. i suggest infront of london drugs on granville and she says parking is hard there and she suggest denman and robson. i say ok.
her -- what we going do on the date.
me- i say walk in park and have coffee.
her- then says ah arent you gonna take me out to dinner
me-ahhh sure where you want to eat
her- japanese sushi and sashimi
at that point im kind of wonderin and thinking oh great this girl has expectations and sashmi is expensive. first date i was thinking just lets go for coffee and walk in park .
the day come on friday and i wait for her at 7 at denman and robson and shes late 40 minutes. she text me sayin traffic and 10 min and turned out 40 min late.

i called her asking where are you at 7 25 and she gives me all this drama crap . my personal trainer quit on me, 2 ppl at work drop out their shift and i forgot my wallet.
im thinking oh great. if we eat i gotta pay and this girl late too. i suggest we sit at starbucks and drink coffee or get a pizza but she still commands the japanese sashmi. lol

she gets there and suggest this japanese restaurant. she already said she didnt bring her wallet so i have to pay. at that point we sit and go inside the restaurant and i say i gotta go in 10 min and my friend at that time calls and i pick up the phone and start talking to him. she gets off and walks out. i let her go

what a manulipative girl . she aint getting no dime from this real pimp sarger lol
 

vancity_cowboy

hard riding member
Jan 27, 2008
5,491
8
38
on yer ignore list
you tobe, merry christmas bud!

how's everything going? still workin' on yer abs bud?
 

jesuschrist

New member
Aug 26, 2007
1,036
1
0
met a girl at metrotown. i approached her and went direct. said she was cute and then got her number. 3 days later i call her and we chatted for 40 minutes. at the end i suggest we meet up for coffee. i ask her were is good. i suggest infront of london drugs on granville and she says parking is hard there and she suggest denman and robson. i say ok.
her -- what we going do on the date.
me- i say walk in park and have coffee.
her- then says ah arent you gonna take me out to dinner
me-ahhh sure where you want to eat
her- japanese sushi and sashimi
at that point im kind of wonderin and thinking oh great this girl has expectations and sashmi is expensive. first date i was thinking just lets go for coffee and walk in park .
the day come on friday and i wait for her at 7 at denman and robson and shes late 40 minutes. she text me sayin traffic and 10 min and turned out 40 min late.

i called her asking where are you at 7 25 and she gives me all this drama crap . my personal trainer quit on me, 2 ppl at work drop out their shift and i forgot my wallet.
im thinking oh great. if we eat i gotta pay and this girl late too. i suggest we sit at starbucks and drink coffee or get a pizza but she still commands the japanese sashmi. lol

she gets there and suggest this japanese restaurant. she already said she didnt bring her wallet so i have to pay. at that point we sit and go inside the restaurant and i say i gotta go in 10 min and my friend at that time calls and i pick up the phone and start talking to him. she gets off and walks out. i let her go

what a manulipative girl . she aint getting no dime from this real pimp sarger lol
I wouldn't blame her for the lateness for a number of reasons:
1) this time of year, traffic is really horrible
2) if she's young (in her 20's), then all her peers are also always late especially if they're female
3) females have a much higher tendency for tardiness for social events than men

BUT - it's obvious to her that she expects a man who wants to date her to take her out for dinner on the first date, show her a good time. That kind of girl is sizing you up for your ability to provide, at an early stage, and to ensure that you meet a minimum level at the beginning. If you did end up paying, she'd be testing you to see how comfortable you are with her ordering drinks, footing the whole bill and the tip, etc., and wondering what you'll have in store for her for the next date - if there is going to be another.

I wouldn't call her manipulative. I'd say she has a huge sense of entitlement.
 

bcneil

I am from BC
Aug 24, 2007
2,095
0
36
Like I have said before....women can smell losers, like a dog smells fear.
 

Tugela

New member
Oct 26, 2010
1,913
1
0
There is a certain sense of irony about a self confessed "sarger" accusing a girl of being manipulative :pound:

Maybe she read you like an open book and played you at your own game?

Not very nice feeling is it.
 
Jun 8, 2012
134
0
16
Downtown, Vancouver
i gave her numnber out to 3 other guys who are desperate lol haha
Why would you do that? Thats a bit childish don't you think so? Bad date.... move on

If she is driving out to meet you and has gotten dressed up and looks good she is expecting you to take her for dinner-- thats just her expectation and she was very upfront to you that that's what she wanted out of the date ... if you really did not want to take her for dinner you should have been upfront instead of saying "sure" half heartedly... it does not hurt to just tell her you like keeping first dates light... etc ... and if she didn't like that or agree to that well she could have cancelled to you and both of you could have saved time ...

Yes keeping people waiting is rude and hopefully she apologized at least ....

I personally like paying the whole bill on first dates especially if I know I will not be seeing the guy again ... when I really really like the guy I'll offer to pay at least my share and if he disregards that .... oh well I like you and you are a gentleman too :p

but each to their own
 

87112

Banned
Dec 13, 2004
3,692
673
113
*&^%
Was she Asian, it custom for the guy to pay for pretty muc all meals, tickets, whatever. I am sick of that shit myself.
 

McDiver

Active member
Apr 18, 2007
1,632
22
38
You could also post a fake ad on Craigslist for cheap sex with her number.
It looks like he took the advice. I saw this on CL

125lbs Asian w DD breasts - full s. -VERY CHEAP $40 (Robson st)
Date: 2012-12-16, 7:27PM PST
8mcvv-3483441431@serv.craigslist.org[?]
Hi Im 5'4 125 lbs with a perfect pirky body
We Japanese girls know how to take care of men unlike our Canadian sisters of mercy
Please call
:xxx-xx68
Hurry please I need to make a lotta cake by midnight tonite
$40 phull service ( 20 min max)
 

SamGomez

Banned
Jul 23, 2012
164
0
0
You should tell the waiter seperate bills ...so you atleast get to eat. Tell her youre in a rush to see a escort in 30 mins and cant hangout with her
 

jesuschrist

New member
Aug 26, 2007
1,036
1
0
It looks like he took the advice. I saw this on CL

125lbs Asian w DD breasts - full s. -VERY CHEAP $40 (Robson st)
Date: 2012-12-16, 7:27PM PST
8mcvv-3483441431@serv.craigslist.org[?]
Hi Im 5'4 125 lbs with a perfect pirky body
We Japanese girls know how to take care of men unlike our Canadian sisters of mercy
Please call
:xxx-xx68
Hurry please I need to make a lotta cake by midnight tonite
$40 phull service ( 20 min max)
You can't be serious!
 

yazoo

New member
Dec 10, 2011
544
0
0
Equality of the sexes is great if the equality extends in all areas. And I'm all for traditional roles, if all aspects of those roles are covered.

But this modern condition where women get to cherry-pick the best of both worlds and leave men with the scraps is bull$hit. Equal pay for work of equal value is admirable. But equal pay, but the man foots all the bills is crap.
 

chilli

Member
Jul 25, 2005
993
12
18
Sounds like you got a good taste of your own medicine.

If you want to meet a nice, down to earth genuine girl - then maybe you should drop the "sarging bullshit" and try acting like a man.
 

Big Dog Striker

New member
Nov 17, 2007
1,537
1
0
Come to think of it, why splurge for average beauty? :confused: Not even worth a call to the florist. ;) However, if the hottie is a Liz Bell or Charles Stuart model then that's when you sweep her off her feet. :eyebrows:
 

Unpossible

A.C.A.B.
Dec 26, 2008
908
13
0
There is a certain sense of irony about a self confessed "sarger" accusing a girl of being manipulative :pound:
Yeah, telling a girl she's cute and asking for her number is sooo manipulative. :rolleyes:
 
Ashley Madison
Vancouver Escorts