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August West

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When it comes to sex kids ARE stupid, just look at the numbers for teenage pregnancy.

About the pubic hair issue, the point is not that woman have no hair down there. The point is that porn is making the impression that shaving everything is the default mode and if a woman wants to be desired she has to shave it.
Yet not one single mention of condoms that are rarely used in porn on the site.

Women shave their legs because men desire smooth legs, but yet if a man desires a woman to have a shaved pussy it needs to be corrected :rolleyes:
 

Harmony-bc

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Women shave their legs because they want to, because looking good makes them feel good, not because they think it's expected of them. Some of you guys have bizarre notions.
Actually during world war 2, all of our resources were going to the war. Nylons were being sold on the black market at extremely high prices. Women started shaving thier legs and drawing a seam down the back to look like they were wearing nylons. It has been fashionable ever since.

Looking good does make us feel good, absolutely. In the summer, I shave every day or close to it, because I am wearing shorts and skirts. In the winter, I couldn't be bothered unless, I am working. So I would say we shave becuase it is fashionable :)
 

virginjohn

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Yet not one single mention of condoms that are rarely used in porn on the site.

Women shave their legs because men desire smooth legs, but yet if a man desires a woman to have a shaved pussy it needs to be corrected :rolleyes:
I agree with you on condoms.

But on body hair. Let me turn the tables have you noticed how a vast majority of male porn actors have no body hair as well? Correct me if I am wrong but hairy guys are not exactly considered sexy these days (I know it is not just porn but you get my point).
 

Madison Doll

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I am new here so I will keep my opinions on the lighter side...

Porn as one big wide category is misleading. There are all kinds of sub-categoires and cultures represented in porn and some are very female positive and focused. I agree that there is a certain "standard" for porn activities though and that they are typically male focused. However...sometimes those same activities (facials, anal, double penetration) are erotic and arousing to women as well.

I don't think that BBBJ is a gateway to BBFS as suggested. The problem is not with the services that a woman choses to provide to her clients rather that some men don't respect boundaries. Although certain men may feel like boundaries are less defined in women who offer BBBJ-it is still an issue of assumptions about the possibility of boundary pushing and moving. As a woman who does provide BBBJ-well researched and comfortably-I wouldn't consider BBFS. Have only been asked 1 times that I can recall in the heat of a session.

Overall I don't believe that porn is the problem in either of these situations. Porn is an exaggerated fantasy version of sexuality. The problem is that there is not a more real honest portrait of sexuality as a counter to porn. The repressed nature of our society keeps us from talking about sex and experimenting. If the only thing you have seen is a woman moaning asking to come on her face-a man may think that this is pleasure for a woman. Wanting to please while also gaining pleasure himself.

My 2 cents
 

August West

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But on body hair. Let me turn the tables have you noticed how a vast majority of male porn actors have no body hair as well? Correct me if I am wrong but hairy guys are not exactly considered sexy these days (I know it is not just porn but you get my point).
I am in no position to correct you, though I do hope girls like a hairy chest still and in about 10 years or so that they find hairy backs sexy :D
 

wet_suit_one

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Makelovenotporn is a pretty good website.

Thanks to the fucking moronic puritans, many women must suffer bad sex.

Good on the puritans.

Dumb assess!
 

sevenofnine

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for me sp's fall into three catagories

some seem so mechanical and boring, here it is just do it and fuck off allready

some to me are just performers actresses which can be nice really amazing actually and i suppose would fall into the porn catagory

but the sp's i love and spend the most time and money on.
are sp's i call real women.

to me there is nothing phoney no acting or performing,
it just seems so real and natural

one of the first things i do when i meet a new sp, is chuck out her menue

and we do only the thngs we are both comfortable with
and enjoy,
so even though things like facial or cim or bbbj are on her menue
we may never get to them its up to her,


one of my favorite ladies regular takes it in the mouth,
after the first session, we discussed it. and she confessed she doesn't really enjoy it.
so i pull out

i have had amazing sessions with her,
i don't at all feel shorted because she doesn't take my load in her mouth.

she has always tried to make our sessions full and fun

she is pse,
but i have never got there,
yet i have always cum three times for her in a two hour session more then i have for any other women
she is totally amazing just the way she is with out the pse, the best women i have seen in this

i see another women she is conservative gfe
again we threw out her menue, her conservative style turned many away
but i have found so much fun with her exploreing some foolish fetishes i have with her, etc,
its fun she enjoys it
and its harmless,
she has this classic sort of school teacher looks and style.
and thats enough for me that the simplest things with her i enjoy, and i get off screwing this classic school teacher sort of lady

im not against greek or facials or any of that. i would like to try them actually

if and when i meet some one who tells me they enjoy them

but you know that might never happen.

im done with this hobby for all practical purposes
i still see these two ladies but were all sort of in semi retirement i guess

im not looking for anyone else no interest

one lady is almost retired,
the other day she told me she is moving and slowing down asked me if i would mind coming with her to her new address all across town.
when these ladies are done im done or at the very least im going to take a long break
 
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