anyone else struggle to get hard or cum with when lubed by an sp? it totally dulls the sensation and leaves me close to numb. i know for most its supposed to help but i think ill have to request no lube from now on....hopefully that will be accomodated
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Coconut oil works great, but can't be used with Latex.
Skyn condoms work with it though.
Better for the ladies too.
Skyn condoms work with it though.
Better for the ladies too.
Do you mean lube on "Mr. Happy" then condom on and lube some more or just condom on then lube on top?
Could it be the lube they used had something in there that you didnt know you were allergic to or just irritated "Mr Happy". Pre lubed condoms are good but depending on the lady and circumstances you may still need some lube.
Could it be the lube they used had something in there that you didnt know you were allergic to or just irritated "Mr Happy". Pre lubed condoms are good but depending on the lady and circumstances you may still need some lube.
Does not bother me,
I have actually been thinking of lube.
Most Ladys use lube, and it varies, to where when and none so I will be interested in your thoughts
First majority will lube you, 80 percent
The remainder use Saliva
Next is close to 50 percent will lube themselves
The remainder will use Saliva
Now I know the percentages don’t add up but I find there are a very few maybe less than 2 percent that don’t use lube, they are wet enough. Those are the ones I love.
Now here’s the kicker
Where the lady uses her saliva and it’s usually only on the outside of the vagina, so this indicates to me a women needs more lube or saliva on the outside, does this resonate?
Story
I used to see a women and she used coconut oil, the hard kind and she said she loved the feeling of it melting inside her.
I remember back in the day having sex with a significant other and using my pre cum to lube her Labia.
What have been your observations
I have actually been thinking of lube.
Most Ladys use lube, and it varies, to where when and none so I will be interested in your thoughts
First majority will lube you, 80 percent
The remainder use Saliva
Next is close to 50 percent will lube themselves
The remainder will use Saliva
Now I know the percentages don’t add up but I find there are a very few maybe less than 2 percent that don’t use lube, they are wet enough. Those are the ones I love.
Now here’s the kicker
Where the lady uses her saliva and it’s usually only on the outside of the vagina, so this indicates to me a women needs more lube or saliva on the outside, does this resonate?
Story
I used to see a women and she used coconut oil, the hard kind and she said she loved the feeling of it melting inside her.
I remember back in the day having sex with a significant other and using my pre cum to lube her Labia.
What have been your observations
Oil can't be used with polyisoprene condoms either, that's what Skyns are made of. There is a warning printed inside the box.
The only condoms oil is safe to use with are Trojan polyurethane condoms, or FC2 female condoms, they're made of nitrile.
Totally agree.
Typically the condom first than the lube. When it's done this way, the lube cannot affect the sensitivity.
My experience with lube is if you're not done within 5 minutes it becomes sticky and defeats the purpose of lubrication so you have to apply more then both of you are a sticky mess. I was with one lady who over did the lube while giving me a HJ. When it came time for the main event neither of us could get the condom wrapper open due to our greased hands. We joked, " no wonder so many teens end up pregnant." We finally got the wrapper off but by then I needed some more coaxing so out came more lube and off course our hands and my parts were too slippery to apply the condom. We had to wait until the lube got sticky enough so we could manipulate the condom then start all over again.
If there is a lube out there that doesn't get sticky after a while, let me know. I will buy stock in the company and promote it for free.
If there is a lube out there that doesn't get sticky after a while, let me know. I will buy stock in the company and promote it for free.
Some water based lubes can get sticky, after a while. Silicone based lubes do not, nor does coconut oil. I carry a couple of different lubes/massage oils and condoms to go with. As previously mentioned, one must be careful using certain lubes with latex.
