Love-What would you do?

[BillRands]

What would you do if you and a provider have come to the point of ‘Love’? Should you pursue it or walk away. The first meeting was a perfect set of circumstances and each visit was better that the first. You get together outside of the ‘Profession’ environment (Personal Level non sexual) and things just get better. You look forward to meetings, texts, emails, making plans. Both have commitments and of course input and pressure from friends or ‘acquaintances’. So my question is would you pursue it, walk away or continue and live with the circumstances/options.
Very curious as to what others think!

 

[maroonedsailor]

What would you do if you and a provider have come to the point of ‘Love’? Should you pursue it or walk away. The first meeting was a perfect set of circumstances and each visit was better that the first. You get together outside of the ‘Profession’ environment (Personal Level non sexual) and things just get better. You look forward to meetings, texts, emails, making plans. Both have commitments and of course input and pressure from friends or ‘acquaintances’. So my question is would you pursue it, walk away or continue and live with the circumstances/options.
Very curious as to what others think!

The only useful advice I have (having been where you're going) is never bring clients into the home you share. Other than that it's all about what you agree on as being workable for both of you. Be aware that your social circle will most likely change.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

pursue it, but with caution

no ultimatums

 

[hugedman]

What would you do if you and a provider have come to the point of ‘Love’? Should you pursue it or walk away. The first meeting was a perfect set of circumstances and each visit was better that the first. You get together outside of the ‘Profession’ environment (Personal Level non sexual) and things just get better. You look forward to meetings, texts, emails, making plans. Both have commitments and of course input and pressure from friends or ‘acquaintances’. So my question is would you pursue it, walk away or continue and live with the circumstances/options.
Very curious as to what others think!

Why the f$ck give a shit what your friends or acquaintances think of you dating the SP - if you need to worry about that, you really need to grow up - it's not their f%cken business. They should not be so judgemental, we all are not perfect, GET RID of your judgemental friends/acquaintances - they are not true friends.
If you can't pass your friends' judgement or how they look at you - then don't pursue, otherwise you are wasting your time, as well as wasting her time. The other point you need understand is that you will have to either accept what she was and is doing, would you accept her to continue this profession?

 

[Glen or Glenda?]

What would you do if you and a provider have come to the point of ‘Love’? Should you pursue it or walk away. The first meeting was a perfect set of circumstances and each visit was better that the first. You get together outside of the ‘Profession’ environment (Personal Level non sexual) and things just get better. You look forward to meetings, texts, emails, making plans. Both have commitments and of course input and pressure from friends or ‘acquaintances’. So my question is would you pursue it, walk away or continue and live with the circumstances/options.
Very curious as to what others think!

"Better to have loved and lost rather than never loved at all"

 

[chuckanut]

as hard as it is, move on. no good can come from it.

-chuck

 

[hugedman]

as hard as it is, move on. no good can come from it.

-chuck

This is a good advice, especially if you could not accept who she was/is, or could not tolerate her profession, and need your friends' and acquaintances' approval...move on - this will avoid the potential of hurting her emotionally.

 

[dieselman]

Not unless your comfortable her having other men because she may carry on working.


DM

 

[bakeshopboy]

Walk away, unless both of you can or willing to start all over at a new city far from Vancouver.

 

[BillRands]

Thanks and some valid points. As to what my (Family / Friends) think I don’t think that would be a problem as they already know that I hobby. I can accept her chosen that she was/is as she has accepted who I am/was. At this point this does not to be an issue. As for walking away I don’t feel this is an option to be honest but can be done if necessary (Life is full of disappointments). Moving is not a problem as my career does afford me that luxury but would have to be a mutual decision. Thanks to cuteangie as that helps a great deal (Well Worded).

Would any Providers care to comment as it would be nice to see what the other side’s point of view would be?

 

[hugedman]

Thanks and some valid points. As to what my (Family / Friends) think I don’t think that would be a problem as they already know that I hobby. I can accept her chosen that she was/is as she has accepted who I am/was. At this point this does not to be an issue. As for walking away I don’t feel this is an option to be honest but can be done if necessary (Life is full of disappointments). Moving is not a problem as my career does afford me that luxury but would have to be a mutual decision. Thanks to cuteangie as that helps a great deal (Well Worded).

Would any Providers care to comment as it would be nice to see what the other side’s point of view would be?

You are contradicting here, your original post mentioned that you are getting "pressure" from your acquaintances and friends...and now you are saying that they know you hobby...- but they do not know you are DATING a SP, right?

 

[BillRands]

You are correct; they know I am seeing a lady but do not know she is a SP and none have met her yet. I guess the word (Pressure) was incorrect. The difficulty for me would come if some family knew, not all. My work environment/situation would not be any problem. I was more in the thought of the provider’s side as I have not discussed this part in any great detail with her yet and I guess I did not make this clear.

 

[chuckanut]

watch this movie...

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1103982/

-chuck