Losing virginity to an escort?

[Valoo]

Im looking for different views on this matter. Its something ive been thinking about for a long time, and as im sure you probably know, hormones can cloud judgement. Im wondering if this is something i might regret after its done. I havent had much experience with women in the past. 1 GF for a couple weeks which turned out to be nothing. I have female friends, but it seems like its never gonna happen for me until i gain some confidence.

Anyways, im looking for any pros and cons on this topic.

Ive also have interest in these SP's from CL.

http://vancouver.craigslist.org/ers/205310971.html
http://vancouver.craigslist.org/ers/205151027.html
http://vancouver.craigslist.org/ers/204880363.html

As well as the infamous Chanel. I wouldnt mind waiting as long as i had a good time.

I could use any recommendations or input on who to see. Please provide a link of some sort.

Thanks to everyone who contributes to this thread.

 

[dipitydoo]

Dude if I were to do it all again and have my way, I would probably splurge and hire a reputable GFE escort for 2 hours.

Something like a half-hour of socializing / drinks / dancing so you can polish your flirting skills, on a more "normal" setting that can help you gain confidence with a woman.

When you're done with the social time, then whatever time is left you go into an intimate scenario so she can pop your cherry, guide you and give you more than a few pointers and tips on how to pleasure a girl without blowing your load immediately.

I hear Tianna is always willing to try something like this and she looks to have the same body type as the girls from CL you are asking about.

 

[rescue911]

right direction

if i were you ...and could redo my introduction to the pleasures of the female form...i would follow my instincts and go with an escort who offer a gfe.

tell her everything up front and go for it....a fox from carmens would do nicely...jenna for sure.

 

[Valoo]

If i were to go with a fox, it would have to be Savannah fox. She looks amazing. But, the real reason i made this thread was to try and decide if this is what i wanted.

 

[athaire]

if i were you ...and could redo my introduction to the pleasures of the female form...i would follow my instincts and go with an escort who offer a gfe.

tell her everything up front and go for it....a fox from carmens would do nicely...jenna for sure.

I agree with the If I could redo statement.........though I would'nt go with craigslist right out of the gate. Trust the guys here and go with a known, reliable, and fun sp before exploring........ good luck.

 

[Valoo]

I think im gonna take everyones advice and go with someone reliable for my first time.

Has anyone here lost it to an SP?

Ive only heard it from 1 person, and they said they kinda regretted it.

 

[aznboi9]

I think im gonna take everyones advice and go with someone reliable for my first time.

Has anyone here lost it to an SP?

Ive only heard it from 1 person, and they said they kinda regretted it.

It's probably a situation of the grass being greener on the other side. If you lose it to an SP, you'll always wonder 'what if I waited' and may wish that you saved yourself for that special someone (or the first girl you can get drunk enough). For those of us who lost it to a non-SP and now poon, some can see how it could be better to see an SP first and get the awkwardness out of the way, or at least make it less of an issue. Myself, I can only say that I would have preferred to have lost it to an SP for the above reason.

Good luck.

 

[Valoo]

Thats a very good point. The awkwardness is really whats holding me back in the first place. If i cant get over that, i dont see it happening anytime soon.

 

[okboy]

First time

My first time was with some SW named Strawberry. A quick suck and a minute or two of banging away on the seat of my truck and it was done. I clearly remember looking out the window and seeing trash on the ground (we were in a undeveloped area). Do I regret it? Yeah kind of, but it doesn't affect me now and I never told anyone until this post. A first time with a GFE lady might be the way to go, but going with a SW just to get it over with definitely isn't.

 

[CEG]

I would visit someone like Julia, or Gina, Very Veronica, Szabina...these girls are good at what they do and have the caring and compassion to work you through and give you a great time!!!

In the end they will be gentle with you, unless you want different, they will be able to do that too.

 

[totravel]

I would add to that list Miranda Summers, Miss Laura Lea, BobbiVan, BobbiInVic, Mia (the last 2 make visits regularly to Vancouver).
I've seen them all, they are all are very friendly and would know how to put a newbie at ease.

 

[Pimmel]

I lost it to Amy Sweetpeach, i regretted it cuz she was very mechanical and didn't allow very much. my second time was with Susan of Pink Ladies, now that was a great experience.

I don't regret losing it to a SP, but i would have preferred someone like Susan first, go for the service. I was 23 when i did it.

 

[dipitydoo]

Valoo,

that's the point, go with a real GFE SP and you won't have the awkwardness you will have with an SP with restrictions, and if the SP is good, she will give you good pointers about what not to do and what to do generally speaking when having sex with a girl.

There have been some very valid posts here. And well I dunno how old you are and what your preferences are, but you might want to go with an older SP not the nubile 19 year old type who in my opinion, have mostly no clue about sex and sensuality.

Best of luck and don't forget to write a review!

 

[aznboi9]

Valoo,

that's the point, go with a real GFE SP and you won't have the awkwardness you will have with an SP with restrictions, and if the SP is good, she will give you good pointers about what not to do and what to do generally speaking when having sex with a girl.

There have been some very valid posts here. And well I dunno how old you are and what your preferences are, but you might want to go with an older SP not the nubile 19 year old type who in my opinion, have mostly no clue about sex and sensuality.

Best of luck and don't forget to write a review!

Took the words right out of my mouth.

If it's the awkwardness that's holding you back, then I would say go with an SP and choose one that's proven to provide a good GFE experience, as dipitydoo and others have already stated.

Good luck

 

[lickcat]

Valoo,

There's nothing wrong with going the SP route provided you do a little advance planning to avoid being disappointed. I'd recommend going to the Fox Den. You may want to short-list a number of the GFE foxes you like, but I think you should also call or email Carman's Foxes about your predicament. They may have some suggestions too. Hell a number of the Foxes even offer pics or a video of the session for extra $. You could have a record of that cherry being popped for posterity...LOL! Or you could do a duo.... hmmm... all sorts of possibilities. But overall, if you can afford it go for 2 hours to avoid any feeling of rushing, and for a chance to relax.

As far as particular foxes, Isabella, from what I've read, seems to be willing to direct the action in a very pleasent way, and she gets very good reviews. Talisa also has gotten good reviews. Stick to foxes that have gotten good reviews though, and who have been reviewed as active participants. And don't sweat the first time all that much either. Your best experiences are likely to happen after you've gained experience and confidence. But a good, patient and kind GFE SP is not a bad way to start.

And of course report back here after to let us all know how it went, and to do your very first review!

 

[HoneyHunter]

Foxes

I'd also suggest going with some reputable GFE sp's. Of course I'm going to throw my vote in for the Foxes. Isabella's taught me a lot and she's told me she has had the pleasure of popping a couple of cherries and playing "teacher" while working at CF but it doesn't sound like she has quite the build that you are looking for. I've heard terrific things about Jenna & Claudia, and I have heard that Savanah is wise beyond her years so she might be a safe bet afterall if you are quite taken with her pictures. Best bet, call whichever agency you are interested in and tell the girls on the phone that you are "very inexperienced and are looking for a guide/teacher." They have to be very careful when talking on the phone because they claim to only be selling time not sexual services but if they have an idea of what you are looking for they are most helpful in finding the right person for the job.

Good luck!

 

[BLT]

i can't help but wonder:

what happened since then???

 

[Mr Blonde]

dood, this is going to get me laughed off of the board, but it's what i think. and it might be something to take to heart

i think that basically where your head is at is that you wanna fuck. you've skimmed through skin magazines, downloaded a bit of porn and thought to yourself "oh man, i wanna do that"

and that's cool.

i "fucked" for the first time when i was 18. and it was with a SW on quebec street near science world (a looooong time ago)

i lost my virginity with a girl i was deeply in love with a year or so later when i was 20.

your virginity isn't something physical and tangible. its in your heart and mind dood. its spiritual. its all in the connection.

there's sex with fucking, and there's sex with love. i think there's a difference, but hey. it's just what i think.

remember though. if you choose to go the SP route you gotta remember that it's all physical. it's all about money for her. you might feel something, but she won't. don't fall in love with the girl, chances are she won't feel the same.

if you read that last paragraph and felt awkward, then wait. if you're cool with it then by all means go ahead. any of the fine ladies everyone else mentioned would be an excellent choice.

 

[charles]

remember though. if you choose to go the SP route you gotta remember that it's all physical. it's all about money for her. you might feel something, but she won't. don't fall in love with the girl, chances are she won't feel the same.

I think that's actually a great piece of advice... for both noob and senior pooners.

 

[visiting]

Dam, this thread looks like a bunch of fathers talking to their son...

I'll be your fake older bro-ther..... (oooo maybe not I saw that other thread)

Since were helping you so much, I think we should audition the girls, but we need to know what you like first. Is there such a thing as first timers discount? LOL What do you to do? that may also reduce options...

So, you want a red head, a blond, or a sexy Brunette.... Don't know of any bald girls....but maybe.... How much meat do you want on the bones?, Does it matter how tall she is? Do you want her to wear anything special? Big or small tits, real or fake? Lots of questions, but for your first time, you may not even have any clue what you really like yet....so go with very well reviewed ladies.... that's what you will learn to call "a sure thing!"

so have fun, and play safe, now give me back my 10 bucks you borrowed last week..... LOL

Heck my first time... it was fast, and I mean fast... I did not have time to say......"wham, bang, thank............. I was done!