Losing my virginity

[kroby]

Hey everone, after i saw the thread by A.U.D.R.E.Y about virginity. i need some advices from all experts and SP. i am a 20 years old virgin and lately i have been thinking to lose my virginity to a sp . i have few concerns here, so hopefully i can get some help from here.
first of all, if i do that i feel a little guilty for my girl friend in future, if she happened to be a virgin. will she mind? even if she is not a virgin. Should i do it with a SP just because to have some experience and maybe have a good memory of my first time. and i don't know if i should take the risk of getting infected when i do this. i know we all take risk, but....i need some help. i will be glad to hear different voices because i am still the one to make the decision.

thank everyone for any advice.

 

[DaMix]

personally from my experience I held out my virginity for a newbie out of towner who was just settling into her new city (Vancouver) I was thinking of seeing an SP to break me in before I met this girl, but I decided to hold out to get the full virgin experience. Good choice since , When the day finally came the girl knew what she was getting herself into, nonetheless it was the best sex I've ever had. Just thinking about it was so hot. If I were you I'd wait out and not get an SP to break you in. Wait for a right girl that your comfortable with in either a non boyfriend/girlfriend relationship you have or with a girl your gonna start calling your girlfriend. Just dont do it with an SP you'll have such a more enjoyable time with a non sp to break you in and you wont forget it. Especially if you tell the person that you are one since she'll know what to expect.

My wisdom for ya...

 

[LadyKiller]

Kroby, I would suggest not getting with an SP ever. My first bj was from an SW. I think if I had not received that BJ all those years ago, I would have never really got into pooning. To tell you the truth, I wish I could go back and undo that experience because pooning is now my habit. However, that's not to say that I haven't had great experiences with some SPs. Although, I have had even better experiences with actual girlfriends (maybe it's luck, hindsight, experience, and foresight that aided all this -- who knows?).

My message coincides with DaMix's comment: I think your first time would be much better with someone that genuinely cares about you. Companionship is always better when a donation is not explicitly in order. I know many men feel, myself included sometimes, that the amount of money you spend on a date (in order to get laid) equals the amount you could spend on an SP. However, you have to think about how many men she's seen (you already commented on your fear of contracting something), how little she cares about you as a person in the long run (you are paying her for her short-term companionship), and what you really want in the future (a wife or partner that cares about you, or an SP that awaits your weekly visit).

I know for some of us, the embrace of a regular SP is much warmer than that of our wives/partners. However, my point is that it isn't genuine.

I am not trying to advise you on what to do, Kroby (although it would seem otherwise). You will ultimately make that decision on your own. I just wanted to give you my proverbial two cents.

If you do decide to see an SP for your first time, I hope it's not as awkward as Matthew Broderick's experience in Biloxi Blues. However, don't expect an experience like Eric Stoltz-Julie Deply in Killing Zoe.

Good luck to you.

 

[newinvancity]

ladykiller is right!

I'd have to agree with Ladykiller, hindsight is 20/20, looking back I wish I hadn't made that original plunge.

Even though, as LK mentioned, the cost may be similar to a regular date, the experience is anything but. No matter how good they might treat you, it is still an act. They are only nice/friendly to you because your paying them, and even then, sometimes they aren't as nice as they should be.

 

[snowmonger]

I dunno guys, if someone wants to see an SP to dip the stick for the first time, could be a good way to get rid of the sexual anxieties of youth.

Yes, pooning can be habit forming. And expensive. Beware.

Don't let emotions enter into it. If you don't it could be an educational experience. I sure coulda used some practice on SPs first, ah but maybe that's just me. Luckily my 3rd sexual experience was a girl who showed me the ropes.

 

[DaMix]

the only way I could see me enjoying myself as much as I had with an SP rather then a girl friend at the time to break my V would be to experience something like the Mobster (Burt Reynolds) kid did in the limousine last moments of the movie Grilled.

 

[jyackie]

Hey everone, after i saw the thread by A.U.D.R.E.Y about virginity. i need some advices from all experts and SP. i am a 20 years old virgin and lately i have been thinking to lose my virginity to a sp . i have few concerns here, so hopefully i can get some help from here.
first of all, if i do that i feel a little guilty for my girl friend in future, if she happened to be a virgin. will she mind? even if she is not a virgin..

Regardless if your future gf is a virgin or not, it's your guilt and you have to live with it. Perhaps a better question is will you mind? Will you be able to handle it?

Should i do it with a SP just because to have some experience....

"just because" is the stupidest reason to do something. If you're doing it just because you want to have some experience then I suggest you wait until you meet someone that will appreciate you.

...and maybe have a good memory of my first time...

A good time isn't guaranteed. What if you have happen to catch even the most reputable SP on a bad day and you have a less than ideal first time? Is it worth it and you still have to hand over the $$$.

To echo what pretty much everybody has already said best to wait.

Best of luck to you.

 

[lenharper]

I'm with the majority. Even if sex is rotten the first time you do it with someone you care about, it is something you will always own as your own honest experience. Sex with SP's can be fabulous and magic or empty and hollow and it takes a certain sexual maturity to be able to process what you are doing. Take it from someone who has experienced both -- you need to understand the hard work of real realationships before you can truly enjoy the pleasures of fantasy ones.

 

[ChineseDude]

Yes, pooning is an addiction. My experience tells me if you don't have money, you best not fuck with SPs. Every week I tell myself to stop going, just like gambling, just like drugs. I end up learning self-control, yet I am paper-chasing instead of knowledge acquiring. My dream of being a Journalist is ruined, by temptations like these. Money, Sex and Drugs.

 

[kroby]

Thank you all guys and ladies !!

thanks for all of your feedbacks

Here is my solution to this conflict of mine, and hope you guys can give me a final comment.

i will plan to meet an escort just an hour, but not having sex( no intercourse) just accompanied shower, HJ, LFK, CBJ. Then ask her different ways to please a woman and use on her as experiment.

This way, i still have my first time for my loved one. On the other hand, i learned something, hopefully useful down the road. Two things drive me to see a SP were sex and curiosity. i realized ,from most of the feedbacks, my first time best give to someone who appreciates me. Like lenharper said "you need to understand the hard work of real relationships." However, curiosity is still driving me crazy since i am all about knowing a different world of people, as least to see how they interact with other when doing their job.

So, this is my final thought on this. i know i sound innocent and miserable, but please give me some feedback.

And i found that people who gave me feedback seem to deal with addiction. so here is the lyric of addiction by kanye west. perhaps you can youtube the song if you feel the same. and thank you all for your time.



Why everything that’s s’posed to bad, make me feel so good?
Everything they told me not to, is exactly what I would.
Man I tried to stop, man I tried the best I could, but

What’s your addiction, is it money, is it girls, is it weed?
I’ve been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three.
She’s got the same thing, about me, but more, about us.
She’s coming over, so I guess, that means, I’m her drug. [You make me smile]
Just let me peek now, I mean damn, I’m so, curious.
She’s got a lover, so the lies, and the lust, is a rush.
Time’s of the essence, I need you, to be spon-taneous.

Roll up the doja, henny and c-c-c-cola. [You make me smile]
And I'm co-co-ming over, ‘cause it’s ne-never over. [ooh]



and bye now !!

 

[sgtpubs]

smart choice

You seem like a smart kid. Go with the HJ & CBJ. Your right it will satisfy your curiosity and let you concentrate on your studies/work. Anyway from what I've read BJs have the same importance as buying a candy bar for your generation ...just joking.

Save the intercourse for a young sweet thing that you will come across in the near future. Yep real relationships are hard work and the sex is not that great after a few years (women really do prefer shopping and home design). The last thing a young man needs is to be comparing his SO with a professional. It will just make you miserable. That's why I'm anti-porn. It screws with people's expectations.

PS: Sad that you kids have to listen to that Kanye West rubbish LOL

 

[BJhunter]

definitely go for the blowjob; u'll find that good cocksucking is one of life's treasures