No This isn't BBJ's & Goat Meat Tacos part III
Good on ya Sidewinder..........very wise.
When I think back on my partially mis-spent youth..if only pooning had been an option for me when I was a teenager like this young fellow, I would have been soooo much happier.
Even though the good times may be "rented" the sense of psychological well-being and simple confidence make a world of difference for me now almost
3 X his age. Imagine what the resource could do for someone just beginning to sort out their own sense of identity and self confidence!
The need for sex, and almost more importantly, the need for uncritical acceptance and romantic exchange are visceral. Unsatisfied, or unhealthily channeled these natural impulses can lead to violent perversion, substance abuse and resentment of women.
Shit, here's a quick example taken out of my March trip to Mexico...
I met up with a nice fellow that I know from Victoria who with his wife purchased a condo near the beach area. He was kind enough to invite me over for a little BBQ that was put together by his condo neighbours, all folks from Canada and the US with business and professional backgrounds.
He introduced me as a Victoria businessman and mentioned that I was there vacationing on my own. Well, the lady next to me started playing "20 questions" with me, the gist of it being "how dare I go away on vacation all alone without my wife and family." (as if it's any of her business)
I just simply replied with a very straight face that neither my wife nor my girlfriend could come along.
"YOU'VE GOT A GIRLFRIEND TOO!!!!???" She nearly screamed.
I just turned to her and quietly told her that in Mexico it's actually more the case than the exception for a successful businessman to maintain a household and family AND a mistress or series of semi-casual or casual sexual relationships with other women. It's entirely respectable.
"And by the way, I was only joking."
But my words had their effect. She immediately stopped trying to browbeat me. In fact, she became downright silent, maybe even afraid of me .
I wasn't out to be "mean" to her, and she didn't deliberately "try to beat up on me," it's just part of her social conditioning or whatever to pigeon-hole men in "her peer group" psychologically and "sexually" so as to maintain control of the situation.
Because I poon regularly, responsibly (and even lovingly) and do not depend upon just one person for my life's every happiness , I have certain kind of self-confidence that is perhaps rare among many men my age and in this culture...
