Hard to disagree with you hitrack but at the same time getting laid vs. a "permanent" relationship...Would you feel happy and fulfilled in your life. Retired's question is difficult to answer cuz I'm not sure if I'm allowed to assume I have character, integrity and personality, all much more important to me than looks or money. If you choose money, will you be butt ugly? If you chose looks, will you be dirt poor. There's also the choice of average looks / filthy rich and average money / Great looking. Might make a difference to some people. I'd probably choose looks over money as long as I wasn't dirt poor otherwise I'd choose money cuz you need it to live or at least live with dignity. I would not want to be with a woman who just wants me for my looks OR my money. What if you lose it all...Will she still be there. As far as look go, they change with age so again, will she still be there. Reverse it true too. A guy I knew was always dumping on his wife cuz she changesd after two kids. Meanwhile he couldn't see that he was now bald and his breath stunk like he ate shit. Also sed if he won a lotto, he'd find some honey "because any woman would fuck if the price was right." All I can say is, What a fuckin loser!