~*~ looks, service or attitude? ~*~

[Cami Parker]

Hey, hey!
So I was wondering (as always) from a client perspective, or even from a mans perspective in real women in the real world, how do the three of these rate in order of importance? I've always thought that, if I was a man, I would order them service, then attitude, then looks. just because I would much rather be with someone who was a 6 in looks and a 10 in service than vice versa. And as far as attitude goes I probably couldn't enjoy myself with someone who wasn't very friendly. But then I thought that I guess the importance you place on each factor really depends on the type of experience you're looking for, or rather what you're hoping to gain from your experience with and SP. That probably someone who's main social life revolved around time with SP's, or maybe someone who enjoys extended dates with his SP's, or regular visits with the sane lady may order them differently than a guy who simply enjoys sleeping with a large variety of women, and likes something new all the time, or someone who just really gets a kick out of sleeping with women half his age. Not that there's anything wrong with either, of course, just that a different approach may factor things in differently as far as the level of importance goes? Then I thought that instead of thinking myself to death and running my brain around in circles trying to come up with the answer of what and how men think.... It would be a lot easier to just ask you.
So that's my question. When it comes to looks, attitude and service where do they REALLY rank in order of importance? Or maybe it doesn't vary from man to man... Maybe it varries from mood to mood?.... Or maybe it varries from experience to experience?....maybe....maybe...maybe...???

 

[1nitestan]

You can't have good/quality service without attitude. A lady can be well reviewed but when she's having an 'off' day, her service won't live up to the reputation. Looks...well that's subjective- one man's 7 might be another man's 10.

 

[Cami Parker]

It's true... always best to reschedule if you aren't feeling it whenever possible. You think you can hide a funky mood, but you can't. It always shows through...

You can't have good/quality service without attitude. A lady can be well reviewed but when she's having an 'off' day, her service won't live up to the reputation. Looks...well that's subjective- one man's 7 might be another man's 10.

 

[newatit]

I would say all three are important. Good lucks but crummy service and attitude won't get repeats. In fact any one of those being right off is bad. And looks are so personal who can say everyone well like looks.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

i think for escorts its like an equal triangle of importance with looks, attitude and service. i agree with newatit its all personal preference though

 

[Cami Parker]

I love that you have a chart for this! You Sir, are awesome :thumb:

i think for escorts its like an equal triangle of importance with looks, attitude and service. i agree with newatit its all personal preference though

 

[Sonny]

A friendly welcome with a broad smile is always a sure game-starter for me.
A welcoming attitude with a sense of anticipation heralds a good-time-by-all experience.
Attitude is the usual ground for service... connective attitude assures good-to-great service.

Service over looks every time, although I always find the girl to be good looking when she's enjoying the play.

Appearance? I have been with many that others would walk from (to their loss) and with many who are standout lookers.
Average looks or more, doesn't matter if attitude and service are solidly there.

Luv the ladies!

 

[Lady Companion]

I would say from my suitors perspective, attitude is definitely the most important aspect - and what keeps them coming back. A genuine connection, positive spirit, love of my craft and undivided attention that I bestow is what really creates the experience.

However, that is what keeps them coming back. I suppose looks is what gets them to click on the website or make the call to begin with.

I also believe that there is an overall difference in what gentlemen desire which is related to price. As a very general rule of thumb, it seems that the lower the price point, the more likely the man is to be looking for a list of alphabet soup and a greater overall variety in whom they visit.

At a higher price point, the suitors tend to be more refined in all areas of their life, and have a deep appreciation for the subtleties of our craft. They are looking for an unforgettable experience, wrought with depth and resplendence ~ and not simply a service or checklist of acronyms or physical attributes.

In the end, each person is unique, and there really is no accurate way to reduce human beings into a tidy little box. Be yourself. Be the best version of yourself when you are entertaining, and market yourself as that. If you are open and honest about who you are and what you provide, you will always attract the best demographic for you. Don't change who you are to attract more suitors. Be true to yourself, and let your inner beauty shine out, attracting those who appreciate it.

 

[westwoody]

As Angel says, looks get me in the door but they won't make me come back unless there is a good attitude as well.

Hot ladies are a dime a dozen. Really nice ladies are quite rare.

 

[bmwdriver]

Looks, service, and attitude are all important.
Looks are what attract me to a girl. If she provides GFE (a vague term if there ever was one) then I will see them based on looks alone. Whether I repeat depends largely on attitude and service. Usually once a year I will see someone based on looks alone, even though I know that their service will be lacking (eg. cbj). I've always enjoyed these sessions, but have never felt the need to repeat.
When I refer to service I mean both the actual service provided and the quality of the service. Attitude can make up for a lack of quality, but not a lack of the service itself. For example, if there is no kissing, the chances of me repeating are very low.
A few years ago looks were more important, and I repeated with a few girls who did not provide dfk. Now, I won't repeat.
Only once have I found attitude to be lacking, in the sense that I left halfway through the session (after finishing the first time). This was someone that I had seen once before, and found very attractive, and was hoping that the attitude would be better the second time, but no such luck.
By attitude I mean that the girl is enthusiastic and seems to be interested in me. Usually I can find some area of common interest with a person enabling us to have decent conversations. I am considered a nice guy by most people and am always respectful and courteous. I always book for at least an hour, which gives me time to relax and converse with the girl.
Sometimes I will see someone for a particular service (usually cof or cim), provided that I find them attractive.
I don't factor the cost into my expectations. I have the same expectation, regardless of the cost. The cost just affects how often I can see someone. I do not see doing this as buying a service from an accountant, or buying an item, where I expect more if I pay more. This is an interaction between two people.
Early on, I saw a girl, who was using blatantly false pictures. That is the only time I walked out, however, even then I paid the agreed amount in full before leaving. Subsequently this person became quite highly reviewed, but I never went back to see her. If this were to happen to me now I would go through with the session, because I did find her attractive. However, I have never regretted paying her, even though I left.
There are two girls that I have seen who stand above the rest. I found both very attractive, but it was their attitude that made them special. With both of them I used to love lying on the bed and just chatting with them. Also, as I spent more time with them, the service improved as well. For example, the kissing became better, and in both cases it was pretty good to begin with. This goes to a, I believe, genuine connection which results from the attitude of the girl.

 

[Cami Parker]

Truth! So well said. You always have such fantastic contributions. Thank you Beautiful!

I would say from my suitors perspective, attitude is definitely the most important aspect - and what keeps them coming back. A genuine connection, positive spirit, love of my craft and undivided attention that I bestow is what really creates the experience.

However, that is what keeps them coming back. I suppose looks is what gets them to click on the website or make the call to begin with.

I also believe that there is an overall difference in what gentlemen desire which is related to price. As a very general rule of thumb, it seems that the lower the price point, the more likely the man is to be looking for a list of alphabet soup and a greater overall variety in whom they visit.

At a higher price point, the suitors tend to be more refined in all areas of their life, and have a deep appreciation for the subtleties of our craft. They are looking for an unforgettable experience, wrought with depth and resplendence ~ and not simply a service or checklist of acronyms or physical attributes.

In the end, each person is unique, and there really is no accurate way to reduce human beings into a tidy little box. Be yourself. Be the best version of yourself when you are entertaining, and market yourself as that. If you are open and honest about who you are and what you provide, you will always attract the best demographic for you. Don't change who you are to attract more suitors. Be true to yourself, and let your inner beauty shine out, attracting those who appreciate it.

 

[Cami Parker]

So well said! Thanks for your thoughts on this. I can most definitely vouch for the fact that you are always sweet and fun to be with, and most definitely kind, courteous and polite. I think that in a lot of cases you will find that you will receive great service, because you are such a pleasure to be around and you definitely make a lady feel good. That, in turn,makes us strive even harder than usual to make you feel good. Not that we don't always try our best but... little quid pro quo I guess. You can't fake chemistry and it's easy to develop a chemistry with a guy like you.

Looks, service, and attitude are all important.
Looks are what attract me to a girl. If she provides GFE (a vague term if there ever was one) then I will see them based on looks alone. Whether I repeat depends largely on attitude and service. Usually once a year I will see someone based on looks alone, even though I know that their service will be lacking (eg. cbj). I've always enjoyed these sessions, but have never felt the need to repeat.
When I refer to service I mean both the actual service provided and the quality of the service. Attitude can make up for a lack of quality, but not a lack of the service itself. For example, if there is no kissing, the chances of me repeating are very low.
A few years ago looks were more important, and I repeated with a few girls who did not provide dfk. Now, I won't repeat.
Only once have I found attitude to be lacking, in the sense that I left halfway through the session (after finishing the first time). This was someone that I had seen once before, and found very attractive, and was hoping that the attitude would be better the second time, but no such luck.
By attitude I mean that the girl is enthusiastic and seems to be interested in me. Usually I can find some area of common interest with a person enabling us to have decent conversations. I am considered a nice guy by most people and am always respectful and courteous. I always book for at least an hour, which gives me time to relax and converse with the girl.
Sometimes I will see someone for a particular service (usually cof or cim), provided that I find them attractive.
I don't factor the cost into my expectations. I have the same expectation, regardless of the cost. The cost just affects how often I can see someone. I do not see doing this as buying a service from an accountant, or buying an item, where I expect more if I pay more. This is an interaction between two people.
Early on, I saw a girl, who was using blatantly false pictures. That is the only time I walked out, however, even then I paid the agreed amount in full before leaving. Subsequently this person became quite highly reviewed, but I never went back to see her. If this were to happen to me now I would go through with the session, because I did find her attractive. However, I have never regretted paying her, even though I left.
There are two girls that I have seen who stand above the rest. I found both very attractive, but it was their attitude that made them special. With both of them I used to love lying on the bed and just chatting with them. Also, as I spent more time with them, the service improved as well. For example, the kissing became better, and in both cases it was pretty good to begin with. This goes to a, I believe, genuine connection which results from the attitude of the girl.

 

[morementum]

At a higher price point, the suitors tend to be more refined in all areas of their life, and have a deep appreciation for the subtleties of our craft.

LOL. How much someone wishes to pay for sex has NO relationship to their level of refinement in life let alone "deep appreciation of the subtleties" of prostitution. Sorry to deflate the balloon but that was simply too much. It is more likely that there is an insecurity factor and they feel the more they pay, perhaps the more they will get out of the experience where in reality the opposite is most often the result. Just like driving a nice car versus just spending too much on one - the latter sure as sugar doesn't make you refined but sure makes the auto dealer happier.

 

[Vanman1979]

LOL. How much someone wishes to pay for sex has NO relationship to their level of refinement in life let alone "deep appreciation of the subtleties" of prostitution. Sorry to deflate the balloon but that was simply too much. It is more likely that there is an insecurity factor and they feel the more they pay, perhaps the more they will get out of the experience where in reality the opposite is most often the result. Just like driving a nice car versus just spending too much on one - the latter sure as sugar doesn't make you refined but sure makes the auto dealer happier.

Yeah, how would she know right? Her years experience working as a sex worker in different areas of the lower mainland are no doubt invalidated by your 'hunch'

 

[morementum]

Yeah, how would she know right? Her years experience working as a sex worker in different areas of the lower mainland are no doubt invalidated by your 'hunch'

Saw her years and years ago when she much lower priced and before a lot of "work" but that isn't the point. Just because some people pay waaaaay too much for something doesn't make them more sophisticated. It is often more the case they are idiots.

 

[Cami Parker]

Actually, you just proved her point. You said you would never pay what your budget deems to be "too much" and then mock what Angel refers to as the "subtleties of prostituion" clearly showing us that you don't appreciate these things, which is exactly what she said. I've niticed a trend on this board where people absolutely LOVE to take general statements and react with great hostility, as though the general statement was personally directed towards them. Typically this is impossible because in most cases the offended party was never even involved in the original conversation, they simply had a defence mechanism triggered by a statement that they feel is some type of reflection of them, on some level. Of course this is impossible. All the unnecessary negativity is so uncalled for. There's a respectful way to have a difference of opinion. She simply said she likes to price herself in a way that she meets suitors are more respectful to her. Then you said you'd never pay that price and proceeded to completely disrespect her. Basically proving the point you were trying to argue against. Something that didn't require any negative input to begin with, but you just decided to try to make a well established lady feel bad, as though she had intentionally offended you. Not only is that not gentleman-like in the least, but it was entirely unnecessary.

Saw her years and years ago when she much lower priced and before a lot of "work" but that isn't the point. Just because some people pay waaaaay too much for something doesn't make them more sophisticated. It is often more the case they are idiots.

 

[P_e_r_b]

Your real person comes out in your posts and it impresses me (I'm a tough critic too). :thumb: You are quite insightful and intelligent (just saying...)

 

[dickotoole]

I too don't think people can be put into tidy little boxes. My own experiences have been entirely mood dependent. Looks matter when looking for company for sure, if they didn't we wouldn't see so many fake photos. Does that mean it is more important? For first time yes because attitude and service are unknowns at that moment. For repeats looks fall off in favour of service and attitude with each holding more or less favour depending on my mood. If I want a good fuck then service matters, if that is the type of service offered. And attitude is important in all things in life. If great attitude is part of the package then wow, repeat repeat repeat. Repeat. Great attitude with shitty service won't get a repeat either.

Each of us has different needs and wants. I don't need or want a deep connection with a provider. It seems odd to me that a provider could offer than and then ask that if seen in public to not acknowledge each other. I truly like engaging conversations but also am a realist in that I am paying for company and all that is offered by that company. Nothing more expected or wanted. I have to say Dahlia Dawn was my absolute all time best experience. Her look is absolutely gorgeous to my eye, her service is beyond imagination, and her attitude was totally engaged. She didn't try to make me think I was special or anything other than be totally engaged in the activities of the moment. She was open and honest with who she is. We got lost in our play. That is really what counts I think - being able to get lost in the activities, if that happens looks, attitude, and service are in perfect amounts and repeats happen.

 

[blaze1]

Attitude, service then looks. A good attitude makes someone much more beautiful.

 

[Cami Parker]

Thank you very much!!

Your real person comes out in your posts and it impresses me (I'm a tough critic too). :thumb: You are quite insightful and intelligent (just saying...)