Looking for a lady friend for so's fantasy

[tommy2rock]

So here's the thing! My so is wanting to live out her fantasy of making out with another lady...pretty awesome, I know! Kinda my fantasy as well!!! She doesn't know how far she would go...but a makeout session is definitely what she wants. I would only get to watch. Poor me!
So can anyone recommend an sp who does this kind of fantasy? Roleplay? Or is there a club where we can watch others? Any help is greatly appreciated?

 

[tommy2rock]

Forgot to mention that we will be in Winnipeg and thanks!

 

[bowtie44]

You should maybe tell us what type of Lady you are looking for age etc.

Felina would be a good choice I know she likes woman and is very passionate and fun to be with.

There is AQ that you can go watch....I have never been but there is info on that as well.

Good luck and let us know how it goes.

 

[twentydollars]

Take her to a gay bar, the girl will be hotter, and free

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Take her to a gay bar, the girl will be hotter, and free

No.

Gay bars do not cater to couples looking for fantasy fulfillment, and nutty civvies that don't leave one or the other or both of you alone may be the least of your worries. For a first threesome experience (and it IS a threesome even if you only watch!), call a well-respected professional SP who will cater to your fantasies instead of taking your chances with some random human with fantasies of his/her own to minimize the emotional impact & maximise the fun.

 

[twentydollars]

No.

Gay bars do not cater to couples looking for fantasy fulfillment, and nutty civvies that don't leave one or the other or both of you alone may be the least of your worries. For a first threesome experience (and it IS a threesome even if you only watch!), call a well-respected professional SP who will cater to your fantasies instead of taking your chances with some random human with fantasies of his/her own to minimize the emotional impact & maximise the fun.

Your opinion might be biased. Silly to pay a SP for a female, females can go get it easy.

 

[OldBuck]

Ask Felina. She will have an opinion.

 

[tommy2rock]

The type of lady would have to be over 25, and clean/safe, fun, race not important, milf-type, good body. Someone who would be fun and would take charge of the situation...as I don't know how far the so would go! All I really know is that the so...really wants to play with boobs!!!

 

[plumbcrawl]

For the love of God don't make this a birthday surprise. Talk about it and pick a lady together. Give her the option to back out at any point and make sure that she knows that you guys are doing this as her fantasy not yours, so she gets the say on how it proceeds. If none of that sounds like what you have planned then don't do it or feel free to do it and post about the carnage after

 

[shedevil]

So here's the thing! My so is wanting to live out her fantasy of making out with another lady...pretty awesome, I know! Kinda my fantasy as well!!! She doesn't know how far she would go...but a makeout session is definitely what she wants. I would only get to watch. Poor me!
So can anyone recommend an sp who does this kind of fantasy? Roleplay? Or is there a club where we can watch others? Any help is greatly appreciated?

For the love of God don't make this a birthday surprise. Talk about it and pick a lady together. Give her the option to back out at any point and make sure that she knows that you guys are doing this as her fantasy not yours, so she gets the say on how it proceeds. If none of that sounds like what you have planned then don't do it or feel free to do it and post about the carnage after

^^^^What he said^^^^

Don't just hire an SP and surprise her with it. Approach the subject with an even sort of pro and con sort of discussion where you can lead her into the idea of hiring of an SP. The main reason being the SP isn't going to be emotionally invested ie) jealousy issues. Let her pick the lady and make sure you both discuss boundaries that you are both comfortable with and share them with the SP you choose beforehand so that everyone is informed and you have the best time possible. Who knows, you might end up having more of an experience than you think if things go well and the SP seduces your SO just right.

Gay bars or gays in general aren't much into the idea of placating someone's bi curious fantasies. Not all but most. I came across this a few months back with a GF friend of mine. She wanted the experience and I don't exist to fulfill someone's experiences that are one sided outside of my profession. My GF was talking about HER and HERSELF and had little inclusion of me other than having me be the one doing it. I very much enjoy being with women but mixing friends with this sort of thing never goes well.

Good luck.

 

[tommy2rock]

Hi she devil! Can you clear some inbox space? Thanks

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Your opinion might be biased. Silly to pay a SP for a female, females can go get it easy.

lly

Sounds like you are an expert on the Winnipeg gay bar scene.

Well...I started hanging out in gay bars in Vancouver in the VERY early 1980s. In the 90s, it was mostly in Victoria, BC, and in the 2000s, it was in Nanaimo's only gay bar. (Is it even still there...?) I admit, I've never been to a gay bar in Winnipeg.

I'm also unabashedly bisexual. My SO knew that when we met, almost 2 decades ago. One of the reasons he has no problems with what I do is because we have never been conventionlly monogamous. We've had thirds. Women, and a younger man or two. They have all been civvies save one; they have all ended disastrously because of the juggling act of trying to keep three people on the same emotional/physical plane. One disaster involved a younger girlfriend that moved in with us for about 5 months. It was a month or so of bliss, then a rapid descent into borderline personality hell...That was 15 years ago. Then there was the crazy bar pickup, the crazy 'duo partner' I tried to help navigate through a minefield of personal chaos. My bias has very little to do with my being an SP, really, since I've only been escorting for a little over 2 years, but I have 18 years experience of playing with my partner.

It's REALLY easy for me to pick up a woman in a bar to take home to play with Me & He. Having said that, my recommendation is, for first time fantasy fulfillment, is to find a woman like Felina (who I do not know personally) who you can trust to provide you with a fulfilling time, listen to what SHE wants, what YOU want, and not entangle you after the fact with drunken late night phone calls, drop-arounds, or (God forbid) two out of the three of you renting a U-Haul and shacking up together! :nod: