Lonely - What to do when that feeling hits. Your thoughts?
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Trust him he has experience with this and has found peace in his gayness.You need to find an SP and cuddle for hours while watching tv...laugh and be gay together...ound:
Yea I have found a few SPs that fit that model and I enjoy that more than a night of wild sex. But those SPs are far and few between. I will keep looking.You need to find an SP and cuddle for hours while watching tv...laugh and be gay together...
So Aerts is it true that have loved and lost is better than to have never been loved at all?
WOW Ms Blake, I am amazed for a young lady you have an amazing outlook on life. I can not agree with you more. I think I try to live my life as you point out I just feel as I get these moments more often it makes me think. Not sure I am bored as I am lonely not havng someone special to share this wonderful world. I have so much and I do enjoy the moments I am in but like I said the lonelyness creeps in more often as I get older. I am impressed with some of the comments that I got here very interesting perspective.We've kind of been sold a lie our whole lives that to be a success and to be happy is to have a wife/husband, kids, and the white picket fence. So even those who are not interested in that lifestyle can sometimes feel those moments of loneliness. It's totally normal, and even though you feel like it you're far from alone. Just keep in mind that it's really all a matter of perspective, and wanting something you can't have. Many people in relationships, even happy and healthy ones, who they have no intention of leaving, will often feel those moments where they just want to drop everything, leave, and be alone for a while.
Being happy or being a success is whatever that means to you. You and you only. Learn to enjoy other things in life, because there's a lot of the world to see and a lot in the world to do. So if you try hard, you'll never be alone and you'll never be bored. And you're not dead Dickson! lol. You may still meet that special someone. Never give up hope but don't make that your main focus either. Enjoy life in all of its crazy ways in the meantime. Hope you feel better soon
Not sure about the idea of finding that one unique special person. However I think it is the hunt that is more important than the kill. I know the SP route is better for me at this point in my life as I do not have time nor the ability to waste on the long drawn out relationship development. I often think my life is like a movie. I only have a few hours or maybe a day to live out what takes other people months or years to develop. Some days I wish I had the time to go slow and really experience it. But my reality is totally different. Last week Spain, this week Turkey, next week Westcoast North America, following week Northern Europe. No place to raise a relationships. So SPs of the world lets enjoy the moment. Lets enjoy Life as our friend Ms Blake.
i guess i never really felt lonely
my father was a raging alcholic amoung other things, i went to school grew up in a rough neighboorhood with fights and bulleying.
you don't really want to hear what i think of people in general
i like to be alone. but rarely am.
if you want a wife kids family its hard to do that and be alone.
i think first you should enjoy yourself like yourself
maybe its stupid but the number one thing in life i believe is to like who you are and enjoy your own company laugh at your self your mistakes your problems.
we all have them
i think everything flows from there.
maybe again, this is stupid i i will get some flak for saying this
but if your a nice person, and enjoy your own company and just enjoy life your self and all of your issues
you will never be alone.
i met a stripper yesterday, i was sitting in the back not really paying attention just killing time because i had an appointmet with an sp.
a dancer gets off the stage goes to the dj, the walks up and looks around we make eye contact
she comes and sits with me and keeps me company until i have to go, we had a nice conversation fun.she told me when she will be back, to come and see her.
don't know what im trying to say but if your ok with you,
you will never be alone.
had a nice session with my sp, supper out, then we went for a stroll through a park,
then back to her place, relaxing enjoyable. did a postition i never did with her before.
and she kept filling my glass, i never had to leave, except we both had places we needed to be,
not that some clock told us the session was over,
don't know what im trying to say and i suppose im gong to get some flak
but i think life is what you make it
and it starts with the guy in the mirror
my father was a raging alcholic amoung other things, i went to school grew up in a rough neighboorhood with fights and bulleying.
you don't really want to hear what i think of people in general
i like to be alone. but rarely am.
if you want a wife kids family its hard to do that and be alone.
i think first you should enjoy yourself like yourself
maybe its stupid but the number one thing in life i believe is to like who you are and enjoy your own company laugh at your self your mistakes your problems.
we all have them
i think everything flows from there.
maybe again, this is stupid i i will get some flak for saying this
but if your a nice person, and enjoy your own company and just enjoy life your self and all of your issues
you will never be alone.
i met a stripper yesterday, i was sitting in the back not really paying attention just killing time because i had an appointmet with an sp.
a dancer gets off the stage goes to the dj, the walks up and looks around we make eye contact
she comes and sits with me and keeps me company until i have to go, we had a nice conversation fun.she told me when she will be back, to come and see her.
don't know what im trying to say but if your ok with you,
you will never be alone.
had a nice session with my sp, supper out, then we went for a stroll through a park,
then back to her place, relaxing enjoyable. did a postition i never did with her before.
and she kept filling my glass, i never had to leave, except we both had places we needed to be,
not that some clock told us the session was over,
don't know what im trying to say and i suppose im gong to get some flak
but i think life is what you make it
and it starts with the guy in the mirror
I have to say 7of9 that your advice is well taken. I value your comments, your experience, your knowledge, your insights. I agree about being good with oneself but over time, although I am good by myself and value my alone time, there are moments where I just get this feeling of being all alone in the world.
I love your comments about your relationship with your SP. You are lucky to find that. So many are just counting the money while you speak to them. It is nice when you find that special SP and have that interesting relationship with. I miss that.
Yea kso-wiz did that when I was younger. I got tired of being used and abused by my Bro's. I paid and they played. I realized I was not into that stuff ie golfing, car racing, saling, I paid for the SPs and spent my time watching other take advantage of me. Not the best of feelings. If I am going to pay I want to play. So that is how I got into the role play with SPs. I got to live out my dreams and that is enjoyable.
That lie is almost as bad as:
1. Your government really cares about you
2. God bless the soldiers overseas for providing us with our freedoms
3. Work hard, Invest, and your retirement will be the golden years of life!
