Lights off?

[Inbedwithted]

Haven't partaken in the hobby in a while but I've been thinking about my experiences thus far. Common thing for the sw to do is turn the lights low/off. SWers of perb why do you do this? While I know I have an ugly mug and my body isn't anything to write home about , I like to see your beautiful bodies and watch what we do!

 

[JimDandy]

Haven't partaken in the hobby in a while but I've been thinking about my experiences thus far. Common thing for the sw to do is turn the lights low/off. SWers of perb why do you do this? While I know I have an ugly mug and my body isn't anything to write home about , I like to see your beautiful bodies and watch what we do!

Not all escorts turn down the lights. In fact, it is my experience that most do not. When they do, I assume it is easier for them to imagine they are with their boy friend when the lights are lower

JD

 

[oldshark]

I think that like all of us, that escorts also can be sensitive about being continuously and critically appraised on their looks. In any case, it feels more intimate and friendly to turn down the lights. I think it leads to a more enjoyable experience without so much emphasis on looks.

 

[PuntMeister]

I think that like all of us, that escorts also can be sensitive about being continuously and critically appraised on their looks. In any case, it feels more intimate and friendly to turn down the lights. I think it leads to a more enjoyable experience without so much emphasis on looks.

Booyaaaa!

I even ask my dental hygienist to turn down the bright lights. I like to adorn the dental cubicle with soft glowing candles with fragragrance of frankenscents, before we get on with the deed.

 

[grusse]

Maybe the lights are low to make the client think the lady he is about to see is actually the "22 yr old" in the ad?

 

[Skyler Mack]

Haven't partaken in the hobby in a while but I've been thinking about my experiences thus far. Common thing for the sw to do is turn the lights low/off. SWers of perb why do you do this? While I know I have an ugly mug and my body isn't anything to write home about , I like to see your beautiful bodies and watch what we do!

I’m so picky when it comes to lighting. It really impacts the whole experience. I don’t fuck around when it comes to ambience. If you’ve been to my place, you know this. I don’t fuck in bad lighting.

PS—don’t worry though, you can still see me ? LOL

 

[Lady Vanessa]

2 words....MOOD LIGHTING. The right temperature of lighting to suit the time of day and scenario. Enough to see everything, yet add an ambience and tone. Something photographers do to capture the best images.

 

[Goldcoast2009]

My ATF SP looks 20 years younger when the lights are dim!

 

[oldshark]

In the dark, I can even pretend to be handsome!!

 

[steverino]

I like the idea of the escort venue being treated like a theatrical set. The lighting, props, music, scent, costume, hair and makeup all add to the experience. Of course this comes at a cost for the lady toprovide so she must have customers who appreciate the effort and value it enough to pay for the design of the experience.

 

[GeeBeeP]

The right lighting speaks volumes to me about the person I've chosen to be with. If she has taken the time to light some candles, check the drapes, maybe have a well placed mirror etc.. and create some ambiance, It tells me that she cares about the experience we are about to have. I'm a GFE kind of guy and I like longer sessions so perhaps that's why I feel this way, but even for a quick one it would tell me she's professional and takes care of the little things, not to mention the more obvious ones.

The ladies above are absolutely correct. I just wish I was on the west coast to sample their ideas of ambiance.

 

[cruefan]

My preference is always for a dimly lit room as it sets the mood and ambience.

I am not a fan of a room being brightly lit.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

1. I LOVE giving BJ/russian combos. If bright light is shining in my eyes I am just annoyed the whole time hoping it's over soon rather than being able to go awhile, while enjoying every minute and in return it's better for my guy.
2. It feels more sensual, sexy, and fun. Creating a sexy vibe is a fun part of what I do. The only time I like bright light when having sex is if I am outside in nature.

Yes please

 

[BobbyMcgee]

Booyaaaa!

I even ask my dental hygienist to turn down the bright lights. I like to adorn the dental cubicle with soft glowing candles with fragragrance of frankenscents, before we get on with the deed.

GIDDY UP...i need a new Hygienist

 

[Inbedwithted]

Interesting responses. I feel I'm the oddball that wants brightly lit poon time. Maybe I'll get a miners hat?! Unless it kills the mood. They'd probably call me "man of the deep". Hmm, there's a lot of mining sexual innuendos to be had here.

 

[zippy45]

They are just doing their part to save energy, electrical energy, I don't think the SP puts any less energy into the encounter no matter how bright the light are.

 

[204fun]

Everyone looks better with a little bit of mood lighting, however if your SP only wants to fuck you in the dark she might be trying to tell you something...