Let's hear it from the SP's. Why do you work?
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Oh my God this is the most brain crushing thing I have heard all year. This kind of statement makes birds fall out of the sky!Fudd said:
Let's hear it from the clients. Why do you poon? What keeps you going SP after SP, session after session?
I know the answer could be very obvious.... such as needing to get laid. But some clients give BFE, which means to me that they actually enjoy their session. But what is the enjoyment of? Enjoyment of sex (with basically anyone)? Enjoyment of sex with certain SPs? Enjoyment of the idea of having many anonymous partners? Enjoy different bodies, different woohas? Do you enjoy being a client? What is the pleasure, if any?
If you enjoy having sex with SPs, how would it interfere (in your heart/mind) with actually dating someone?
Is being a client an empowering thing? From the SP side, I remember in my early days, I felt a huge (albeit narcisistic) power easily taking in $3000-$4000 a week from a bunch of clients. Made all of them feel good and I felt good doing it. I would always give special treatment. Does it empower you to give money to someone, then send them off to the next client a short time later?
What about the future? Do you think much about it... say when you get to be 40 or 50? Do you still want to be doing it? If not, what is your plan? How would you transition out of it? Do you hope/plan to find a life-long love? Do you hope/plan to stop paying for sex?
How do you view yourself now? If you had an offer for regular sex for free, would you turn it down and still be a pooner? Would you be a pooner on the side and still take the free sex? Would you just take the free sex and never go back to being a client?......
Hmm, this thread is just as asinine from this side of the table...never mind.
I know the answer could be very obvious.... such as needing to get laid. But some clients give BFE, which means to me that they actually enjoy their session. But what is the enjoyment of? Enjoyment of sex (with basically anyone)? Enjoyment of sex with certain SPs? Enjoyment of the idea of having many anonymous partners? Enjoy different bodies, different woohas? Do you enjoy being a client? What is the pleasure, if any?
If you enjoy having sex with SPs, how would it interfere (in your heart/mind) with actually dating someone?
Is being a client an empowering thing? From the SP side, I remember in my early days, I felt a huge (albeit narcisistic) power easily taking in $3000-$4000 a week from a bunch of clients. Made all of them feel good and I felt good doing it. I would always give special treatment. Does it empower you to give money to someone, then send them off to the next client a short time later?
What about the future? Do you think much about it... say when you get to be 40 or 50? Do you still want to be doing it? If not, what is your plan? How would you transition out of it? Do you hope/plan to find a life-long love? Do you hope/plan to stop paying for sex?
How do you view yourself now? If you had an offer for regular sex for free, would you turn it down and still be a pooner? Would you be a pooner on the side and still take the free sex? Would you just take the free sex and never go back to being a client?......
Hmm, this thread is just as asinine from this side of the table...never mind.
I used to poon because I used to love sex pure and simple. That got shallow after awhile. I kept doing it, finding new SPs cuz I was trying to find the ultimate lay and enjoying the variety in the meantime. But now my sessions have slowed down a lot. I don't feel the intensity of urges as I used to purely from biological function. The intensity of sexual urges now come from something deeper.Dakota Wood said:
In my early pooning days, when I enjoyed sex for just sex, I was anything but a BFE. I was just going for my Happy Meal, and if I didn't get it exactly how I liked it, I went elsewhere. I didn't care about how hard the SP had to work, who she was, what she did with her money, how happy/miserable she was, how stupid she was, etc. I used to enjoy having many anonymous partners, but I began to realise that it wasn't about having anonymous partners, it was about satisfying my ego urge to be some kind of conqueror and my urge to trigger lust by as many females as possible. Realising that, I thought that these ego urges were pretty silly because in the meantime I had attained a confidence about who I was. Now I don't really enjoy different SPs, their different bodies or woohas. Women are women, they are all delightful in their own way, but breasts and pussies by themselves are now just organs to me. Sure, some are nicer than others, but basically you can't have a personal connection with a boob or a beaver. I no longer enjoy being a client as much anymore either, one reason is because I don't enjoy giving over money for sex. Buying sex used to mean power to me, but now buying sex means I am powerless. I'd rather spend my money on investments because my priority is making myself wealthy, not an SP.Dakota Wood said:
When sex was purely just sex to me, it wouldn't have interfered. But now I want more meaningful sexual experiences, which would interfere with actually dating someone.Dakota Wood said:
That's a prime example of the disempowerment I was talking about: giving an SP money for sex, knowing full well she will do the same with someone else.Dakota Wood said:
I think the future will probably ease me out of paid sex altogether. At least I should hope so. I don't see any abrupt transition, but instead a refocussing of my priorities to what I truly need in life. I hope to find a life-long love, yes. And if so, I hope the urge to go for paid sex will stop along with it.Dakota Wood said:
There was a time when I had contempt for myself, but as I determined my true needs, I also gained confidence and lost my self-contempt. If I had regular sex for free, I would no longer poon, and I wouldn't want to be pooning on the side.Dakota Wood said:
It's too bad you think so. I put my heart into this reply yet you've presumed any answer would have no value. Well it had value to me to reply, so thanks for asking.Dakota Wood said:
And since you didn't get that my post was factitious....is it painful to be thick as a brick?georgebushmoron said:
Your post was fact? - you said factitious.Dakota Wood said:
Did you mean fiction, as in fictitious? If so, what part of your post would have indicated to anyone you were just kidding?
gosh... thanks! I get good help at the White House. I have speech writers, ya know. Sometimes I even borrow the best Hollywood comedy writers for some of my live public speeches even! Always throws the critics off!peety said:GBM... all kidding aside, you write some pretty witty shit, don't know how you keep up the ole George attitude...hmmm unless it's really you
And yet so many reply with poison at my words, incredible! When you're the Prez of the world's most powerful nation, people are bound to get jealous and hate you.
I work because I am a struggling student. Unfortunately my parents are not rich so I have to pay for post secondary out of my own pocket. Plus I am a bit isolated so escorting does provide me with some sort of friendship. I do not like being alone. As for seeing clients everyday, I do not do that. My schedule only permits me to work a few times a month.georgebushmoron said:
For me the enjoyment is being with someone. I like the company. I am also very horny too so I do like the sex. I do enjoy being an sp because it provides me with what I need at this point in my life, which is friendship and sex and money. Don't get me wrong, I have plenty of friends my age, but I like the company of people from a different age group.georgebushmoron said:
Currently I am not dating. I have not had a bf for a long time and do not wish for one in the future. Why? Because I am too transiant right now. I would like a bf who lived in the same city that I do. I am a student and plan on moving in a few years to another school. I want to be able to move about freely and not have to worry about someone else's needs in another city/town. Thus I do not see being an SP as interfering with my personal life.georgebushmoron said:
Yes and no. The money is just that...money. But the experience as a whole can be quite empowering.georgebushmoron said:
All the time. I am currently going to university and want to follow my dreams. I think I will still do this on the side like I do now.georgebushmoron said:
I feel wonderful. I would still take the job and do this on the side.georgebushmoron said:
I found a lot of the responses to this interesting but 'dated': the bottom line problem with this business is that we, particularly men, still moralize sex and sexuality.
some of the posters said this should be private, hush-hush, only asked in person, when in reality this should be on the nightly news until we stop moralizing it.
Every single person on this board, in this business, or hobby and on this planet is the by-product of SEX! now get over it! stop moralizing it.
there is nothing bad about sex and nothing bad about sex for money ... its the oldest profession for a specific reason! we all want it and they got it!
the underlying insinuation of asking an sp why she does this work is that she has no morals and therefore no value: it is about time that everyone grew up and stopped with that moralizing and accepted that sex is part of our lives and to stop being frightened by the fact that women have tons more sexual power than men.
As for me? I don't care why women do this job, I am just glad that they are willing to do me for cash ... because I sure as shit can't charm my way into anyone's pants!
I've always said that I have a lot of respect for any woman who can have sex with me!
some of the posters said this should be private, hush-hush, only asked in person, when in reality this should be on the nightly news until we stop moralizing it.
Every single person on this board, in this business, or hobby and on this planet is the by-product of SEX! now get over it! stop moralizing it.
there is nothing bad about sex and nothing bad about sex for money ... its the oldest profession for a specific reason! we all want it and they got it!
the underlying insinuation of asking an sp why she does this work is that she has no morals and therefore no value: it is about time that everyone grew up and stopped with that moralizing and accepted that sex is part of our lives and to stop being frightened by the fact that women have tons more sexual power than men.
As for me? I don't care why women do this job, I am just glad that they are willing to do me for cash ... because I sure as shit can't charm my way into anyone's pants!
I've always said that I have a lot of respect for any woman who can have sex with me!
Well done, Dakota Wood. I think the word you and the moron are trying to come up with is facetious - "not meant to be taken seriously." Of course, it is also IRONIC that georgebushmoron actually re-inforces the handle every time he posts.
I know I said factitious. Do you know what that means? Here is a hint, it does not mean factgeorgebushmoron said:
Thanks CT
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While facetious also works, I did indeed intend for my post to be fabricated. I sincerely don't care why men poon. I liked LG's reply to this thread (altho I really could have done without the vision of my parents hitting it popping into my headCock Throppled said:
)Not so my friend, it was never my any part of my intention nor how I think of SPs. That's quite the assumption you're making. I grew up with an older cousin who, a few years ago, admitted to me that she moved to Vancouver when she was 16 and worked as an SP. She and I were always close, and it was for a number of years that she was working that she became estranged. Later she moved back home and we resumed our close relationship, albeit she was somewhat changed. I never asked her about her life as an SP except for a few general questions. I knew down deep it was a painful experience for her to recollect. A half year ago I started a dating relationship with an SP, and it has become very serious now. She is still working, and I've broached the topic with her. While Sydney's posts were illuminating, it was not really similar to the experiences of the woman I am dating now. Nevertheless, I am fascinated with women and how they choose to live their lives. It is why I asked, and unfortunately there is a tendency for people on this board to devalue what people say and think and assume the worst easily.LonelyGhost said:
Why do you work?
I've had friends who were SP's more than once I've had one say to me ""Gee, I need a night off to get laid, or maybe I hope the boyfiend or girlfriend is in the mood" which to me says its just a job, . Remember GFE is just an experience not the real thing. Why do I poon ?, Because I can and if I couldn't the lovely working girls wouldn't either
I've had friends who were SP's more than once I've had one say to me ""Gee, I need a night off to get laid, or maybe I hope the boyfiend or girlfriend is in the mood" which to me says its just a job, . Remember GFE is just an experience not the real thing. Why do I poon ?, Because I can and if I couldn't the lovely working girls wouldn't either
What is the intent of these questions?hifisex said:And have you shared with her that you pay for sex?
You're in a "serious" relationship and you've only briefly discussed this?
HFS
Yes, I have told my cousin I pay for sex. We share a lot, even if it is painful or embarrassing, but I never asked her in the explicit detail that I did in this original post because I know how deep a nerve it hits. We are like brother and sister more than cousins. I grew up fostered by her family for part of my childhood.
My SP significant other and I have only really discussed her attitudes towards work and future, etc., recently, so it has been brief. The relationship did not turn serious until recently. I think you misread my post to mean I have been in a serious relationship with her for some time and have only briefly discussed these issues. Re-read it again and you'll see what I mean.
THANK YOU so much for your honesty. I wish you the very best and I hope you succeed in attaining your dreams. You sound like a good person!OrientalJenni said:
