I'm flabbergasted by the nonsense explanations I read here as to how to recognize the real ladies/ads from the fake ones. Although this topic has been covered MANY times, in MANY threads, on MANY boards, there are still people who need to understand how to know if an ad or a lady is real? Seriously... So, once again, as I like to behave like a teacher who gives lessons - it excites me - here are some points posted in a previous post that I'd like to debunk, one by one. My comments are in red. Take notes students. Go:
Here are some of my red flags in no specific order (some have already been mentioned above):
- The most obvious one - they don't have reviews or positive reviews here on Perb.
Ah ah! Some ladies refuse to be reviewed and ask their clients not to post reviews. They also check on boards if reviews of them have been posted, and can ask Mods to remove these reviews. And to play this game fair, both the positive and negative reviews have to be removed. Also, there are clients who are not on boards so they don't post reviews, some who are on boards but don't want to post reviews. And another point: it's not because a lady has no review or a bad review that she's fake or bad. Sometimes, a bad review is related to something that happened during the encounter that might not be the lady's responsability. If a lady has several bad reviews, then yes, this is a red flag.
- They advertise "party friendly".
Although I'm not "party friendly" at all, some ladies are, and some clients are. To each their own. Pass on these ones.
- They do outcall only. It can be awkward to send them away if they don't look like their pics when they arrive. Suggest meeting at a public place near you first if you have any doubts.
Really? You jump to short conclusions so easily and give odd explanations that I wonder how your brain works... Anyway: some ladies like to do outcalls only because they don't have a place for an incall, they don't rent one, they don't share one, they don't want to host in their private place. Also, if they host from their home, there might be some repairs going on, some family or friends visiting, so offering outcall is the only possibility for them. And some do outcalls because this is only what they offer.
- They really promote their 2 hour or longer dates. If you do shell out for multiple hours, they will likely find a reason to eject you from their incall or leave early in the case of an outcall long before the multiple hours have expired. You will notice that none of the well reviewed ladies on this site do this. They will usually provide multiple hour service, but you have to ask for it, they don't try to push you on it, especially for the first date.
Ah la la la la Je me demande parfois... OK, back to English: some ladies promote and only offer longer appointments. Not everybody likes offering half-hours. Often, upscale ladies promote longer appointments - but don't make of this a general rule! - it's just a lady's choice, that's all. And again, don't link it to reviews. Gee...
- They say they are here only for a few days or only a few more days. I have come to recognize this to be a red flag in itself, but if you think about it, why risk seeing a girl that you may never be able to see again even if it does work out. If you toftt with a girl that is living in the lower mainland you can be rewarded by seeing her many more times if it does work out.
Uh... what about the touring ladies? What about the ladies who just offer their services a few days in a month, even if they are local? Think, please, think.
- Their pictures makse them look like an instagram model. Likely too good to be true unless they have local reviews to back up the pics.
So, because a woman is gorgeous, she looks suspicious? In this industry? Read yourself again before publishing, please. There are indeed absolutely drop-dead gorgeous ladies who are real. How do you know if they are real? Read my advice at the end.
- In some of their pics they reveal their face while in other they do not. Why reveal their face in some pics and not in others? This really makes no sense unless the face pic is fake or their face would look much less attractive if visible in the other pics.
Have you ever tried to take flattering pictures of yourself in lingerie? Hmm... I guess not. It's very difficult, it takes hours to have the right light, frame, outfit, posture, good setting etc... It takes hours and a lot of pictures to have a few great ones. I know it because I take my pictures myself, and had a professional photo shoot done once only. All ladies don't necessarily have the money nor the desire to pay for several photo shoots in a year, so they have to do it themselves, or to ask a friend. And sometimes, yes, the face is not that great, but it doesn't mean that she's ugly! And sometimes we feel like showing our face. For example, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, it depends on the level of nudity too. Do I want to show my face or not? Funny, when we post blurred pictures, some guys text us and ask us to send them pictures of our face. Go figure...
- I notice lately a lot of very good looking ladies advertising as being latino or part latino. So far all of the reviews of these ladies has been negative. I did a toftt of a latino lady known as Denisse/Denis/Latina etc who has been here in Van for perhaps almost a year now. Her digits currently end in 7697 . She has ad ad on LL even as I write this post. She had very nice pics and video and some of the pics were even verified. Maybe the pics were of her younger sister or whatever, but she did not look nearly as young or attractive in person. I will not take a chance on a latino lady again unless she is well reviewed by a respected member of this board.
Wow. Let's not target any specific group. I believe it's called racism.
You will likely see ads where some of the pics make the lady look attractive and in other pics less so. If you decide to to see the lady, expect her to look like her most unattractive pic and not the most attractive pic. From my experience it usually work out that way. Some of us guys are naturally optimistic, but in this hobby it is far better to be pessimistic and to be pleasantly surprised than the other way around.
You're definitely a pessimistic. But here it's not your pessimism that tells you wrong. My clients always tell me that I'm beautiful when they arrive, and better than my pictures. So, again, here is what each of you need to do before booking with a lady:
- Does she have profiles on boards (with reviews or not)
and/or
- Does she have a website?
and/or
- Does she have accounts on social media like Twitter? Then follow them and read her interaction with posters
Cross all the information you gather from these sources, and you should be fine. Then contact the lady, and if after the contact you feel comfortable, book. If something turns you off, then don't book.
Is that really hard to understand and to do? No.