Lavalife
- Thread starter Poondogger
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Lavalife can work.
As in all games, there are ups and downs. There are some pros working there and some genuine hotties that just want a discretionary fling.
However, be aware that there are some serious scammers on there.
SP's are often safer to deal with especially if a bunch of other people have TOFTT. An SP like that is strictly in it for the long haul (ain't good for business to shaft clients who talk).
A lavalife scammer though is fairly anonymous and if you let your little head think instead of the big head, you could get stuck in a predators net.
Let me just say that once, I had a predator try to extort money out of me through that system. The opportunity for the predator to act simply came about because I was thinking with the little head and not the big head. Some quick actions and getting the police involved made the problem cease but not go away, the person is still out there.
My recommendation is be cautious!
Keep everything anonymous and low key, never divulge any private information, force a meeting in a public place and if your spider senses still haven't tingled yet then cautiously go for the goal ('cause you either lucked out and she is genuine or you're just predator prey through and through).
good luck...
As in all games, there are ups and downs. There are some pros working there and some genuine hotties that just want a discretionary fling.
However, be aware that there are some serious scammers on there.
SP's are often safer to deal with especially if a bunch of other people have TOFTT. An SP like that is strictly in it for the long haul (ain't good for business to shaft clients who talk).
A lavalife scammer though is fairly anonymous and if you let your little head think instead of the big head, you could get stuck in a predators net.
Let me just say that once, I had a predator try to extort money out of me through that system. The opportunity for the predator to act simply came about because I was thinking with the little head and not the big head. Some quick actions and getting the police involved made the problem cease but not go away, the person is still out there.
My recommendation is be cautious!
Keep everything anonymous and low key, never divulge any private information, force a meeting in a public place and if your spider senses still haven't tingled yet then cautiously go for the goal ('cause you either lucked out and she is genuine or you're just predator prey through and through).
good luck...
