The songs are only 3 min. or so long. Extras mean hj, cbj or fs. I have only done FS in a club once but I don't go looking for it. Strip clubs are not really my thing; I prefer escorts. If you pay by the song, they take their time, if you got a fixed rate, they hurry. Even for no-extra dancing, if the dancer agrees (usually on a slow night), you can negotiate a 30 min. fix rate for about $100. Personally, I only go to a strip club on a slow weekday night, better value as the girls are hungry for tips.
The first time I got extras, I paid a super hot blond from Europe for a cbj, by the time I was done in about 30min., I have paid more than what I would pay to an escort for an hour of FS. The ironic part is that at the end of the night, she offered to come home with me with her equally hot friend; I was too tired to take them up on the $600 for two overnight offer. If I had known the offer was coming, I would have waited...
Since then, based on my TO pooning buddies' advice, I have always negotiated a fixed rate before things get started. Having said that, unless the dancer is super hot and I am super horny, I just wait until I get home and call an escort - much more comfortable and economical.
The only thing that is quite neat to me is the fake cowgirl hj, certain girls have mastered it. They moan and groan as if they are cowgirling you, right down to the the grind and nibbling, the whole works; but Mr. Happy was firmly held by a lubricated hand the whole time.
Remember, not all clubs are "extra" clubs and not all girls in an "extra" clubs provide extras. If you look horny, the extra girls will whisper in your ears to entice you upstairs. If you need club names, PM me.