Ladies: would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?

[big_bear]

I know, GFE is what most guys want
and it's the best service you can get

but for me, I rarely participate in any gfe activities (kissing, FK, daty and BBBJ)
rarely that I can find someone that I can do GFE comfortablly
anyone feels the same?

for girls:
would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?
or just simply avoid them?

 

[island-guy]

I know, GFE is what most guys want
and it's the best service you can get

but for me, I rarely participate in any gfe activities
rarely that I can find someone that I can do GFE comfortablly
anyone feels the same?

for girls:
would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?
or just simply avoid them?

Nobody can even agree on what GFE means anyway so how exactly would you 'decline' something that doesn't mean anything?

Were you referring to anything specific? Like refusing to kiss her or ?

 

[namssa]

I am pretty sure the SP would not have an issue with that at all.

Seems to me that would pretty much be a FS session, rather than a GFE session.

 

[Sinful Sophia]

I know, GFE is what most guys want
and it's the best service you can get

but for me, I rarely participate in any gfe activities (kissing, FK, daty and BBBJ)
rarely that I can find someone that I can do GFE comfortablly
anyone feels the same?

for girls:
would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?
or just simply avoid them?

I think most SP's would not be insulted. Everyone has their own comfort level.
I couldn't see an SP avoiding a client just because they are not interested in the SP's full menu. SP's have restrictions so i don't see why clients can't too.

TIP: Perhaps you should mention to the SP before the call that you are not comfortable with GFE so as to avoid an awkward situation or you could avoid booking with girls who offer GFE.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Gfe is not for everyone. As long as you are honest about what you expect, there should be no problems. Its the same for anything, if you want gfe make sure the sp provides it, if you don't want gfe, make sure she knows ahead of time, lol

A nice straight fucking session can be just as much fun as any other type session. Some girls may even prefer non gfe, and only offer gfe, because that's what almost everyone is looking for these days.

If a girls feelings are that easily hurt, chances are shes in the wrong profession.

 

[melissa.in.abby]

There is the occasional guy I encounter who doesn't seem to like kissing, and I always ask before I sit on someones face. If you want a condom on before I suck your cock, I need warning though.... I can get down there pretty fast! ;-)

 

[HB40]

There is the occasional guy I encounter who doesn't seem to like kissing, and I always ask before I sit on someones face. If you want a condom on before I suck your cock, I need warning though.... I can get down there pretty fast! ;-)

LMAO
I sure do like you.

I often wondered about this question too.

Only once I can remember getting a BBBJ, I did ask for a CBJ but she said she hated the taste so I obliged. I liked her service alot but I have never repeated. I've seen other girls who do it also but lately I've been meeting them here prior with PM's and e-mails which has been helpful, when it came time they either asked first or simply used a condom.

Kissing is a little trickier. I love to do it but I'm kinda shy and self conscious about it. I normally have a good idea whether a girl offers it or not before hand so I never ask if I can. I admit I almost always try to steal just one little closed mouth peck, it's cute when I get an "oh you're so bad" but once in a while she will initiate more. Either way I'm happy.

DATY is something I hate to go without.
This is where the question comes in. My wife doesn't like it so I rarely get to do that with her, it's just a hang up she has. No matter how much I reassure or praise her she just isn't comfortable with it. I do take it a bit like an insult, I think I'm ok at it and it would help solve another problem, but thats another story. Really it's just her preference so I respect that, I shouldn't be offended.

So don't be insulted ladies....even though I'll let you kiss me, lick your bum and tickle your thighs, I'm still going to want a condom, I'm just funny that way.

 

[athaire]

I would assume that if you are still paying the same regardless of declining service then there would be no problems at all.

 

[FortunateOne]

I know, GFE is what most guys want
and it's the best service you can get

but for me, I rarely participate in any gfe activities (kissing, FK, daty and BBBJ)
rarely that I can find someone that I can do GFE comfortablly
anyone feels the same?

for girls:
would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?
or just simply avoid them?

Would this be something that you would do with a certain comfort level? The only way to really get to that level is thru repetition. so if you find someone you like: right place, availability, rate, etc, and visit her a few times, there might be a time where you expand your personal menu. I think some guys just want to know that she is someone who is consistently conscious of safety and health.

Although some sps are already non-gfe, you should also be asking if she has a non-gfe rate. I think sperminator is correct in that someone who opts not to do certain things would be a welcome change for a busy sp. You may also find someone who offers non-fs sessions; she is more likely to come up with a lower non-gfe rate as well. This isn't assuming you are going for a lower rate, but if the rates are including gfe, there isn't any reason not to find out if there is anything else offered.

 

[Very Veronica]

werd

The women would feel relieved, not insulted.

As crazy as it may SEEM i get, i'm also a safety ninja. This biz would not exist if guys didn't think with their cocks but it never ceases to amaze me how even the smartest cookies have such disregard & ignorance of sexual health issues.

A reminder for everyone to get tested regularily & educate yourselves on the risks. We are lucky in BC to have such a great facility:

http://www.stdresource.com/clinics/index.php

 

[wess]

There's nothing like soft sensual kissing that builds into a passionate frenzy. And nothing can get me going faster!

But if a gentleman prefers not to, then I understand. We are all different and have different preferences. No problemo. And as Harmony said, sometimes just a fuck will do, thank you very much!

Please do let me know ahead of time, though that it's just the way you like to do things. I might take it personally otherwise as I can be such a sensitive soul!

does this view very from client to client ?
Age to age ?

Some of these posts reek of a sales job. Im not accusing you or anything. Im just asking. ????

 

[Shybutniceguy]

There's nothing like soft sensual kissing that builds into a passionate frenzy. And nothing can get me going faster!

But if a gentleman prefers not to, then I understand. We are all different and have different preferences. No problemo. And as Harmony said, sometimes just a fuck will do, thank you very much!

Please do let me know ahead of time, though that it's just the way you like to do things. I might take it personally otherwise as I can be such a sensitive soul!

I'd have to totally agree with that comment. Women need a bit more then just seeing a naked cock to get them going unlike we men who just need to see a clothed sexy woman to get us going.lol
But I can't see why they'd be insulted or anything if that wasn't a guy's thing.

 

[Jerika]

for girls:
would you take it as an insult if your client DEClINES GFE?
or just simply avoid them?

No. I provide a service, and the service is either/or.

Women need a bit more then just seeing a naked cock to get them going

Women might need a bit more. But professionals are different. Your naked cock will do.

 

[HB40]

Women might need a bit more. But professionals are different. Your naked cock will do.

Whew, that's pretty much all I got so good news, thanks.

 

[island-guy]

Women need a bit more then just seeing a naked cock to get them going

Uh.. Hello?

The bit more that they need in this case is an open wallet or an envelope full of $20s.

Not your tongue in their mouth.

 

[susi]

some guys seem so uncomfortable about ANY contact at all...

it maybe that they don't feel like they are cheating if they don't have full contact, like some guys just want a toy show and don't engage me physically at all.

in the end we all have our own physical boundaries- sp's and consumers- and we as providers must respect the boundaries of the client.

i have been in the industry for 23 years and believe me it takes all kinds.

as to your question, no i am never insulted. it's not a reflection of me as dirty, its a matter of personal preference for the client.

just like if a guy comes to the door, i am not what he expected or am not his type, it doesn't mean i'm not pretty, i'm just not his type.

in the end when you work in this industry you have to develop an outside view of yourself and see it from the customers perspective, it's alot of money and they should get what they are looking for.

i always remind myself that you can't please all the people all the time...

i do my best to please those who would dare however!