Ladies leaving the biz

[sexmaniac]

I am just wondering if any of the SP's out there could comment on what life might be like after leaving the biz. Is it more difficult to be in a normal, committed relationship? Is it possible to have a relationship while in the business? I know this would be unlikely but wondering if any SP's have tried it.

Also, what about the emotional connection? I would think it would be more difficult to establish this with a partner after being in this business and then forming a relationship.

I think from a client's point of view it is hard if you have been in the hobby for awhile. You get used to variety, and being able to have whoever you want as long as you can afford it. The lust is still there and perhaps it is hard to form a loving relationship, when sex is all you really want.

Any comments?

 

[hitrack]

This is like posting MAC vs. Windows in a comp forum.

My only advice SM is this is one place not to think outside the box (no pun intended) just pay your coin and leave when your times up. These chicks are not lost puppies that need rescuing or to be brought home with you. If your in search of a GF find one who's not in the biz.

 

[Lolita]

I agree. Too many questions that you probably don't want to know the answers to.

 

[Venn]

I actually thought it was a good question, and would be interested as well to hear any "retired" girls responses. That's what I thought message boards were for, to give us the freedom to discuss questions that otherwise might not get discussed.

I didn't get the impression that SM was implying that he was considering and ex-SP for a girlfriend, just that he was interested to know their viewpoint and experiences.

 

[sexmaniac]

I suggest you read my thread carefully before making assumptions about me. Hitrack, I am not sure where you get that I would be looking for a g/f in the biz? I definitely wouldn't consider it. Anyway, I think I have a valid question that was directed at SP's currently in the biz and those thinking about or who have retired. I appreciate your comments Venn as you clearly took the time to read my thread and understand it.

 

[hitrack]

SM sorry if you thought I was making assumptions off in all directions. Having a SP as a GF is not a bad thing, can even be fun in a way regular chicks could never be, but it is taxing on the emotions now snd then.

I'll leave it to SP's retired or not to comment further.

 

[keensence]

valid ques? a lot would like to know if girls would like to tell us

how about girls any takers were interested

love you all no matter what vent for us

keene

 

[Privan]

I think a lot of it probably depends on the particular personality and reasons for being a provider. For example, if a provider considers escorting as "just a job" then they shouldn't have any problems moving on. However, getting more and more mentionally attached to "escorting" as a concept, probably makes it more difficult to move on. (Just guessing here folks)

P.S.
Hatrick: They both suck because all you need is "One *nix to rule them all"! Muhahahaha!

 

[SwedishBrijitte]

Just cos a lady is in the business, doesnt mean she doesnt have emotional feelings. One has got nothing to do with the other. If anything, the ladies I have known over the years make excellent companions- Christ a lot of Senators in the U.S. have married there S.Ps! We know men very well, and understand their needs I think MORE than a regular girl. Pulizer married his masseuse as well-Smart Man!