what did BigDee do?
You can always search for his name or the names "strokkerace" (yes, with two k`s) and "VRG" and read for yourselves.
There`s a thread in the Lounge about VRG being banned that ought to help
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=47880
Basically he`s a creep and a wannabe pimp, and with the questions he asks you have to wonder what game he is playing.
At one time I wondered if he was more than one person posting from one computer (downtown on 6th ave, if you know what i mean

), although that`s seems a little farfetched now.
As to privacy concerns, anytime you email someone, the i.p. address of your computer is included in the headers of your message. They aren`t shown by default in your email program or on Hotmail or Yahoo webmail, but if you change the settings to Show All Headers, they will be.
I believe STRONGLY that you should stay far away from anything with the odor of BigDee!