Just wonderring guys...?

[Jethro Bodine]

How hard would work or how patient would you be in your attempts to see a particular SP?
There is a local SP who I have wanted to see for the past year. I think she is beautiful and the reviews from those who have seen her are all very positive. Unfortuanately I need an incall and her incall availability is limited. As well, she rarely seems to return my emails or text messages. I have read from others that this is not totally unusual.
It's not that its alot of time or effort to email or text her but at what point would you move on?
How patient are you?

Cheers

 

[MRGREEN]

Once maybe twice then I'm done. This is a service industry after all and to me it's a signal that the service may end up lacking. In my view it just poor manners not to contact back and we hear all the time complaints about hobbyists being rude, crude, impolite, not respectful or being no shows etc. I view it as a mutually advantageous transaction and if I'm polite and respectful up front I expect the same in return.

There is never an excuse for not getting back even its just to tell me to f--k off

Peace
MG

 

[Jethro Bodine]

You know, you are absolutely correct in 99.99% of the cases but in this case her reviews are quite good (reliable pooners as well) and IMHO she is a godess so I've been willing to try a bit harder. That said, I agree, even if you don't want to see me, common courtesy dictates you at least tell me you got my message.

 

[Bare]

I totally agree with MRGREEN and Jethro. With me, I might try three attempts at comtacting a lady, then 3 stricks and she's OUT. I move on. There's plenty on ladies in Winnipeg, EC has something in excess of 30, plus we get 2 to 3 visiting ladies almost every month. Time to move on.

Best,

Bare

 

[kenchorney]

I totally agree with MRGREEN and Jethro. With me, I might try three attempts at comtacting a lady, then 3 stricks and she's OUT. I move on. There's plenty on ladies in Winnipeg, EC has something in excess of 30, plus we get 2 to 3 visiting ladies almost every month. Time to move on.

Best,

Bare

I would say three as well, but there are always exceptions. I had four or five false starts with Elizabeth, between not returning emails to missed and canceled appointments. When I did finally meet her I had a great time and saw her a few times after without a single problem. On the opposite end of the spectrum is Angelie, I sent her 15-18 emails over the course of 6 months and never got a single reply. Even if she starts getting good reviews and guys say she has started returning emails I'll never try and contact her again.

 

[Deepstrokes]

Three for me and that' it. Does matter who it is, or what her reviews are like. It only takes 10 seconds to email back and say your to busy this week or not looking for new customers.

 

[MRGREEN]

Believe me I don't think this is an easy gig by any stretch of the imagination and not everyone is cut out for it sp's and some hobbyist's as well. So I'm not being a "hater" here. It is a classic supply and demand business and where some would think that we (hobbyists) create the demand and sp's provide the supply to that demand, I've come to think about it differently and suggest that we (hobbyist's) are in fact the supply. If we aren't around and willing to pay $200 plus per hour of after tax dollars to see someone...then what would happen? For some who may be partimers it wouldn't be a huge deal, but those who rely on the gig for their livelihoods would struggle to say the least.

In the end it's not good for anyone if the "supply" starts to dwindle. So we're in this together and eveyone should strive to be kind and repsectful all the way around.

For me if it's someone new...one contact and done and move on because I know I'm willing to supply what someone else will want...

Peace
MG

 

[rexxx]

If I was feeling inspired I might try 3 times but generally 2 strikes and yer out. There are too many top quality ladies out there to waste time on the prima donnas.

 

[Coach_Wpg]

Over the years (except lately) I have been luck and have received responses to my inquires, but I would agree with most that 3 strikes you are out. I find that if my inquires are written respsectfully, I receive a response. Lately, I have made numerous inquires with a SP to set a meeting but she has not answered my question on donation. She answers every question except donation amount. After 3 attempts I have given up and moved on.

 

[Pillowtalk]

Over the years (except lately) I have been luck and have received responses to my inquires, but I would agree with most that 3 strikes you are out. I find that if my inquires are written respsectfully, I receive a response. Lately, I have made numerous inquires with a SP to set a meeting but she has not answered my question on donation. She answers every question except donation amount. After 3 attempts I have given up and moved on.

Has she suggested that she will provide rate info some other way, but you are continuing to try to get it in writing? Just curious, some will only provide details in a phone call (100% legal) and not put something down in an email or in an ad to prevent potential problems.

For emails, also I wonder if the sp receives them all. I always assume technological glitches, and that emails disappear and don't arrive. It sounds like one of the sps never answers emails, but is that another case of her stating somewhere she isn't going to, or that all contact needs to be done another way? No sense in continuing a method that obviously does not work, if there is an alternative offered, imo.

 

[bowser11]

Jetro may i respectfullly somehow highjack your post and provide potential reasons why some men do not received responses?
I highly doubt it is your case as you seem "normal"..May i?

Cherie, I would love to hear what you have to say on the topic.

 

[zodiak]

Respect begets Respect, and if for some reason in the past in either text or email you were not respectful chances are your emails and texts maybe blocked at the other end. Should I be a SP, I would not waste one second of my time with any disrespectful gentlemen (and I use that term lightly), I would be blocking your future queries.

 

[stanley manley]

Respect begets Respect, and if for some reason in the past in either text or email you were not respectful chances are your emails and texts maybe blocked at the other end. Should I be a SP, I would not waste one second of my time with any disrespectful gentlemen (and I use that term lightly), I would be blocking your future queries.

Okay, but what if you are respectful and she never responds? Jethro seems like a decent chap, well spoken, polite. He doesn't come across like a jackass, as many guys do. He at least deserves a response. That's only common courtesy.

 

[Georgieboy69]

Kind of reading b/w the lines here Jethro and taking a stab in the dark lol if it is who I think she prefers texting over any other form of contact, she is well worth the wait!!! I also agree with Mr Green and a few others three strikes out and if new 1 chance then it is cya later.

 

[zodiak]

Very wll put VJ

 

[rubintugger]

When you have a limited availability, and your intended has a limited schedule, finding a time that works for both can be difficult. How many times would I try? If its an SP I'm just interested in taking a flyer on, who has mixed reviews and isn't quite my type, then maybe once or twice. If its a top reveiwed SP that is my exact type, well, I guess I'd work with her until we met, and then made sure I arranged my schedule for future visits at times where she would be available.

If its just the incall thats a problem, and she is that high on my "to do" list, I'd book an outcall, and gladly pay for the hotel room. Its only money, and if I'm that anxious to see the lady at my selected time, its a no brainer.

Now, if a time is set, and she "breaks the date", that's a different story. Again, if she has a busy schedule in her non-SP life, you have to take that into account. But once a date is set, there should be little or no reason to cancel / reschedule. That would be rude, especially if you've rented a room. IN that case, I'd only give a couple chances, only one if I had rented a room and she cancelled and didn't agree to knock the room fee off the next visit, or extend the time of the visit to compensate for the room cost.

There are some ladies that are definitely worth the effort, its up to you to make it happen. Don't expect breakfast at McDonalds at 11:30. There are some things that timing just can't be overcome. Make the effort to get there at 10:00...

 

[MRGREEN]

Bottom line is professionals tend and care for their business and non-professionals don't......

Peace
MG

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Jetro may i respectfullly somehow highjack your post and provide potential reasons why some men do not received responses?
I highly doubt it is your case as you seem "normal"..May i?

You may do what ever you like to me.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

Thanks for all the feedback.
I've had a few PM's as well and it sounds like I'm not the only one who has had a hard time rendevousing with this particular lady.
I've decided that I'll keep trying but I'm not going to limit my other options. If it happens then great, if not, then maybe it wasn't meant to be.

Cheers