Just wondering guys...?

[Jethro Bodine]

How hard would work or how patient would you be in your attempts to see a particular SP?
There is a local SP who I have wanted to see for the past year. I think she is beautiful and the reviews from those who have seen her are all very positive. Unfortuanately I need an incall and her incall availability is limited. As well, she rarely seems to return my emails or text messages. I have read from others that this is not totally unusual.
It's not that its alot of time or effort to email or text her but at what point would you move on?
How patient are you?

Cheers

 

[steverino]

Like any other business where there is lots of alternative solutions, I move on very quickly.

 

[pjrd]

two or three times with no response and I'll stop waisting my time. it's hard enough for me to see all the gals at the top of my list. if she doesn't want our business, why bother.

 

[sevenofnine]

if you have not seen this lady before i would say
give her a chance but keep your options open,

these ladies all have personal lives and stuff, and even in this business sometimes they just take a break or slow down, or don't consider themself high volume providers.

so yeah keep trying once in awhile but like i said check out other options as well. don't wait around for her forever,
it may not ever happen

funny i got stood up by a lady three times in a roll
she just had alot of personal stuff going on, out of her control

each time she made every effort to contact me and tell me it wasn't going to happen, she didn't leave me just standing at her door, though once there was a note pinned to her front door,
it happens right, stuff happens life happens. no use getting pissy about it,

we eventually did get together and she became one of my atf, supper girl,
so yeah sometimes it can be worth the wait,

if you have seen her before i think any big delays are more inexcusable
certainly the lady could be out of town on vacation or whatever

but any lady will tell you, its alot of stress, meeting a new client,
so if your a repeat i think she should be more on the ball and timely answering your emails and equireies.
and if your a long time repeat,
most ladies will tell you there taking a vacation, before hand,

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i've been told by ladies that they wake up to anywhere from 50 to 300 emails, mostly from TWOT's, every single day. it becomes a real chore to keep up with them and unfortunately they start to get in the habit of deleting emails that aren't from regulars

i've been in a similar situation where i've really wanted to see a lady, but she was really hard to contact. i worked on my message header - really think it out, it has to stand apart from the rest of the message headers, and work on the message as well, because if she does click on that header, you've only got that one shot at her attention, so it had better be good. also vary up the header. same thing with voicemails, think about your voicemail message, maybe even do a dry run or two in front of a mirror make it sound the way a chick wants to hear it

just think of yourself as being in a bar with 50 to 300 other guys, and only one chick. your game has to be pretty good to bring her home

all the above is only if she's HIGHLY recommended, if not, move on...

 

[luvsdaty]

Keep at her dude if you really want to see her,don't leave any rude messages asking why she hasn't replied( They do have personnel lives,Some girls book up fast when there the flavour of the month).I've tried hooking up with sp's for a month, some good results, some we're i wondered why i bothered.Good luck to you dude.

 

[Pillowtalk]

I think it is very bad business practise to make a policy of not returning calls if someone leaves a message. Doesn't really matter "if" someone else "might" answer, I think it can be assumed that if someone takes the time to actually leave a message, they are expecting a call back. If the time calling back is unreasonably long, like over an hour or two, then sure don't call back. But it is just rude to not return a call when someone is obviously expecting it, plus imo unprofessional. Unless, it is clearly stated in ads, website and the voice message that no calls will be returned, then its on him to actually read it lol.

For the OP, if you've made a reasonable attempt to reach her, based on the contact info that she gives (i.e. you aren't emailing when she wants phone calls, or vice versa), if she isn't responding at all, chances are she doesn't want to see you at all. She is not likely to say so directly, since this is a business where if she offends a potential client he is likely to go apeshit and start either harrassing her or trashing her, so its a fine balance to be found. A lot of times the sp's "balance" is to ignore it.