Just starting out - Tough go

Pharic

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Hey guys,

I've been reading everything I possibly can on here from you experienced veterans of the hobby. I want to thank you all, lots of good knowledge and advice.

Well I decided to start this past weekend into the hobby myself, obviously still very green... Making obvious rookie mistakes.

First girl: http://winnipeg.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/time-to-get-out-the-house-and-see-me/2769982

Contacted, wanted money up front for the outcall (I am just outside the city), I think that was fair, she does take e-transfer. At first she's on her way, half way she texts me back saying another client wants service and more time than I. Wants more money to fulfill or she would refund. I said okay to more time and money, but I would pay when she arrived. She insisted on being paid up front, I politely asked for the refund.... that never came... Lesson learned!

So fail #1, find another...

Second girl: http://winnipeg.backpage.ca/FemaleE...on-yop-notch-gal-pretty-face-hot-body/3156937 Looks like her ad is gone, it was only yesterday. Phone # 306-261-9223

Contacted, agreed to terms, she does take e-transfer also, perfect. Not looking for anything up-front, a bonus (from my previous lesson yesterday). Is showering and will text me when she is twenty minutes away. Don't hear from her for an hour and a half, text back, she messages back another hour later asking if I still want service, she had an emergency. It's still not to late so I say sure. She says she's coming. Asked when I could expect her.... Nothing after that....

So a tough go yesterday, but I'm learning....

Have a good evening gents!
 

JoeyD_01

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Googling the second ad's phone number, is this who you saw in the ad?
306 is a Saskatchewan area code. Did the ad say Winnipeg? She was in Saskatoon up to 6 days ago, and probably was still there.
 

Pharic

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Again a rookie mistake.... Never saw her, no show obviously if she was in the flat lands... LOL But googling it now, shows she was in the 'peg... First one though still shows in Alberta and a whole different girl... Lesson learned, google phone number! Thanks Joey!
 

jgg

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Pharic, you have learned a hard lesson. You only lost some money. There is much to learn yet, but never, never have an outcall to your home.
 

Pharic

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jgg know that one for sure! Have arrangements for a private spot not near my home. You guys do give great advise! Learning as I go here now.....
 

westwoody

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Pharic you haven't read diddly squat.

How many times have people said DO NOT TRANSFER MONEY?

Never mind, it is a rhetorical question. I have written it a few times myself. Others write it fairly often. But somehow you will be fine with it?

I just don't understand why you would go against the well accepted best practice. Not once, mind you. You lost once, and did it again. Twice.

Wow.
 

mister-j

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The first one there http://peace.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/time-to-come-out-and-see-me-guys/10975553 seems to be posting in multiple provinces, ripping guys off. I'm out a few $$ but it's a lesson learned to dig further in to potential SP's in the future. Live and learn....
Worthwhile to post archive of ad before it gets pulled. Look for thread on posting to archive.is

<a href="http://archive.is/c1dXa">
<img style="width:300px;height:200px;background-color:white" src="https://archive.is/c1dXa/93d8c5922ed454f177f6b4d3e676474d4c2ab561/scr.png"><br>
Time to come out and see me guys :) - Peace River Country escorts - b…<br>
archived 18 Apr 2017 03:12:25 UTC
</a>
 

Jackleon

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my advise to u ----
1) google everything before decide to book an appt, the phone number, the photo, the name even the wording ...
2) Never e trasfer and never make advance payment
3) Out-call only usually is a redflag ... Never ask a service provider come to ur home.
 

Pharic

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Guys I appreciate everything! Westwoody I sooo appreciate the wisdom of a hobby that is to supposed to be fun. I made my mistakes, totally green, and I have read. I thought the SP's were decent and the communication at first was really positive... My bad... Jackeleon amazing 1 to 3 about service!!!! I've learnt the hard way about getting into the hobby, lost a couple of $$$, no biggie. Lesson learnt, and will move forward.
 

wpgboy2015

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Never send money through interac. Period. With the transfer they also get your real name and you wouldn't want to give that to possible crooks who are trying to scam you anyways.
 

giaebonyprincess

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My recommendation for you would be to start out with the sure things, the Kgirl agencies are safe with pretty good consistency. If Asians aren't your thing go to the girls who are active on the forum, Gia comes to mind. At least go to someone who's well reviewed. I took that advise when I was starting out and have been pretty lucky. Got screwed once and it was my fault. Totally. Tried to go to someone that was offering a lot for a little and got screwed.

Awwwwwwww..thanks Blue0012 for recommending me. I wont bite Pharic unless you want me too.

 

Pharic

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Very nice of you to offer Gia! Not into the biting, but I really do appreciate the offer. I will have to take you up on it :)
 

usernametaken

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Pharic you haven't read diddly squat.

How many times have people said DO NOT TRANSFER MONEY?

Never mind, it is a rhetorical question. I have written it a few times myself. Others write it fairly often. But somehow you will be fine with it?

I just don't understand why you would go against the well accepted best practice. Not once, mind you. You lost once, and did it again. Twice.

Wow.
PHARIC
Your asking for advice but not using it.
Start with a local Felina or Riley or Gia etc
 

anonman

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Support the quality locals (a bit hypocritical of me to say as I still haven't seen quite a few of them myself) and just plain cross most of BP off as being total scamjobs. Obviously we know good providers advertise there but they make up about 5% of the ads and you're taking a huge risk with everything else.

And the best advice I can give is to be as polite and friendly as you can when trying to arrange an appointment with someone. There's actually two reasons for this: one is that it's basic human decency but the other is that it really helps you identify the genuine professionals who will treat you well in return during a session. Friendly communication prompts a similar reply from good providers and when someone is communicating with you in a warm, intelligent fashion before you even meet you can be assured they'll treat you the same later. This has always been the case for me and has resulted in my favorite sessions by far.
 

ZoeZee

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I accept etransfers often and have never had an issue but I wouldnt recommend it for random advertisers, only trusted SPs
 
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