Just friendly advice....

[VanessaofBC]

Congrats!

You have booked an appointment with your dream girl and have followed the Ladies directions to get to her area so you can call for the address. Now, BEFORE you make this call, make sure you have already gone to the bank machine. You can leave your wallet in the car, just make sure to take the money with you!

You call the lady and inform her you are parked. She may ask a "security question" then gives you the address.

Now, how long does it take you to get to her building to buzz her?

#1. Once you have the address you are expected to arrive within 5 minutes, UNLESS you inform the Lady you will be longer.
#2. Do not decide to change your parking spot because you think it might cut down on "walking time". If (for whatever reason) you decide to
park somewhere else, PLEASE, call and let the lady know.
#3. Do not take the last few minutes in your car to to dose yourself in cologne. Expensive or otherwise. It stinks up everything....the sheets, my lingerie and the bedroom.
Most professional ladies will offer her bathroom facilities to you and keep them clean and well stocked. USE THE SUPPLIES OFFERED. They are there for YOU. Also, some ladles are sensitive to scents.

The point I am trying to make is that professional ladies have security steps and directions for parking that make things easier for YOU and safer for us. That time in between giving you our address and then waiting for you to arrive can feel like a long time prompting ladies to call back and ask if you are lost.

The reason I care about where you park is because I do not want you worried the entire session that your car will be ticketed, towed or vandalized.

end rant.

 

[*emmanuelle]

Just a note: you might want to put this rant on your own website or in your own ad (instead of in the lounge) since it definitely does NOT apply to all escorts. Escorts have many different security/address/callback systems.

I think clients have a hard time navigating the murky waters of escorts' rules and expectations. Posts like the one above, inferring that these particular rules are universal, make it even more confusing.

 

[*emmanuelle]

That time in between giving you our address and then waiting for you to arrive can feel like a long time prompting ladies to call back and ask if you are lost.

I would never EVER do this. Please make sure you specify that you're speaking for yourself - and not for "ladies" in general!

 

[Ratbert_2008]

Congrats!

You have now obliterated any slight interest I might have had to visit you.

Your apparent micromanagement of all aspects of visiting you would drain the lifeforce out of me long before you opened the door.

 

[VanessaofBC]

As Emmy kindly pointed out I do NOT speak for all ladies.

This is my personal experience over the years working on and off with both agencies and other independent ladies. I have also belonged to several Ladies Lounges here and these same complaints come up over and over here in Vancouver.

It was NOT meant to be offensive.

If you cannot follow a ladies directions, then CONGRATS. I do not want to see YOU! I will tell you that on the phone too, if you do not like my security procedures than I cancel immideialty.

In light of recent events in New West I am trying to share security tips with you guys (so you do no think you are being singled out).

Should I have drencehed my OP with more and so you know I am trying to come from a friendly place. I wsas hoping this may lead to others sharing useful tips, but in traditional PERB fashion it seemed to go sour.

 

[VanessaofBC]

I would never EVER do this. Please make sure you specify that you're speaking for yourself - and not for "ladies" in general!

I am confused. Why would you not call the client back to see if they were lost? It happens. They transpose numbers are not thinking straight.

I guess things are a bit different when you work part time in Victoria as opposed to FT in Vancouver, but that is okay. I realize things are different in different places.

Again, my experience working on and off through out the years as an Indy, with agencies, in various role in different cities and provinces is what made me think this would be a useful post.

 

[*emmanuelle]

I am confused. Why would you not call the client back to see if they were lost? It happens. They transpose numbers are not thinking straight.

Because I don't think it is discreet. Unless he has explicitly given me permission to call his phone, I won't call it. Any number of things could have happened other than him getting lost. He could have run into a friend, family member, or colleague right outside my building, just for example.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Uhoh, I hope all ladies do not adopt this policy. I'm not from the big city.....I get lost almost every time, sometimes even on repeats.

So no GPS and no map? I always wonder about guys who choose to go to neighborhoods they do not know, OR have at least GOOGLED before they go. Can't find the street number?

[sarc] I know it is hard to count when you are thinking with your little head.[/sarc] I just figure if I have trouble giving you the directions to park, then how will we communicate when you arrive?

 

[VanessaofBC]

Because I don't think it is discreet. Unless he has explicitly given me permission to call his phone, I won't call it. Any number of things could have happened other than him getting lost. He could have run into a friend, family member, or colleague right outside my building, just for example.

I used to think that, but after I have given someone my address and they have stated that they parked around the corner, if more than 5 minutes goes by i DEFINITELY call them. All they have to do is answer and say WRONG NUMBER.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Gee Golly, you city folk and yer fancy new fangled gadgets and your city smarts....

Seriously though.....I walk so no parking. Yes, I do have a phone with GPS. My problems are usually finding the building number, the correct entrance and then how to use the buzzer properly.

I hope most ladies have found that I am an able communicator once I have arrived.

Cheers

HA, you come across as a very intelligent contributor RRC, many of my intelligent (for lack of a better word) clients have the hardest time finding the building number. That is when I know they are really, really, ummmmm........amourous..... lol

 

[BORKO]

Congrats!

You have booked an appointment with your dream girl and have followed the Ladies directions to get to her area so you can call for the address. Now, BEFORE you make this call, make sure you have already gone to the bank machine. You can leave your wallet in the car, just make sure to take the money with you!

You call the lady and inform her you are parked. She may ask a "security question" then gives you the address.

Now, how long does it take you to get to her building to buzz her?

#1. Once you have the address you are expected to arrive within 5 minutes, UNLESS you inform the Lady you will be longer.
#2. Do not decide to change your parking spot because you think it might cut down on "walking time". If (for whatever reason) you decide to
park somewhere else, PLEASE, call and let the lady know.
#3. Do not take the last few minutes in your car to to dose yourself in cologne. Expensive or otherwise. It stinks up everything....the sheets, my lingerie and the bedroom.
Most professional ladies will offer her bathroom facilities to you and keep them clean and well stocked. USE THE SUPPLIES OFFERED. They are there for YOU. Also, some ladles are sensitive to scents.

The point I am trying to make is that professional ladies have security steps and directions for parking that make things easier for YOU and safer for us. That time in between giving you our address and then waiting for you to arrive can feel like a long time prompting ladies to call back and ask if you are lost.

The reason I care about where you park is because I do not want you worried the entire session that your car will be ticketed, towed or vandalized.

end rant.

I don't think I have ever been asked a "security question" can you elaborate as to what that might be?

I am also assuming that all these suggestions are for first time clients right?

And as a pet peeve, I never really liked it when I have to go to a general area and then text for an address. I can understand with holding a buzzer/apartment number until everything is confirmed but it makes it easier to find a place and get there on time if you have the street address well in advance to plan your route rather than being told head to "Yaletown" or "Stadium/Chinatown area".

 

[VanessaofBC]

Emmy and Vanesssa are obviously dealing with a different type of clientele I am. I guess it would be like comparing apples with oranges. Too bad you ladies do not like to contribute your safety tips.

Most of my appointment are booked the day of and come from ERSlist, as they are my main advertiser.

edit: If I am not mistaken Emmy and Vanesssa do not even have their phone numbers on their website.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Thank you Ms. Sarah.

I am surprised that this thread turned into client pet peeves and dislikes about SPs who use safety procedures.

It's not just about MY safety, its about YOUR comfort too, Guys,

Think about it (and enjoy)

Stay Safe
~V~

xox