just curious for those of you with a religious or spirtual bent how do you rationaliz

[sevenofnine]

just curious if your religious or spiritual how do you rationalize this hobby.

i have met several girls who are sort of spiritual or religious buddism etc, I have never met any one who says they like go to church every sunday.

there is a regular poster here i think he is buddist,

but just curious buddism is not about or and sort of spirtuality or religion is not really about self centered self seeking behaviour.
so how do you explain your religion or spirtual believes with this hobby,
and im not wanting to start a fight,

im just curious you claim your a christian or buddist or whatever how does it work with this hobby.


me im not anything,
i was born catholic but this minute i would say i believe in nothing.

i believe in something but i cannot define it,

i call sexual desire the beast, that at some point needs to be fed.
it is not something i can just shut off,

im not proud paying for a women, not happy about it,
but i am weak and it seems like valid option compared to destroying my marriage or going with out for the rest of my life.
at times i am racked with guilt, and have asked my sp many times to forgive me
maybe it has something to do with my catholic upbringing or the fact that my father was a jailed sex offender
dunno, really don't know.

but im not really comfortable paying for a women,
but like i said i am very very weak,

just curious anyone comments or thoughts on your on spirtuality or relgious beliefs or morality
and this hobby,

or just go ahead and bash me, don't give a shit.

and im seeing an sp this week, being with a women is one of the greatest pleasures in life,
just don't feel the best way is to pay some one,
but its better then nothing,
and like i said im very very week

 

[kalel]

you do realize that in a capitalist society the laws of economics rule over the moral or ethical rules of religion.

you have a penis that needs to be fed, you have money to buy what it needs, an sp has the right parts to satisfy your needs. business transaction that works for both parties.

you can always not see the sp if you feel guilty. if you're looking for moral justification to pay an sp i can't give you one. i can say that i don't feel the least bit guilty over it for the simple reason that whether you pay an sp for sex or date a woman and get some you still ended up paying something for it (dinner, coffee, movies, drinks, gifts, etc). and there are alot of gold diggin non-sp's out there. atleast with an sp you already know the outcome.

 

[lenny]

just curious if your religious or spiritual how do you rationalize this hobby.

From a Christian Bible based perspective some argue that prostitution is ok,
such as this PERB member:

Actually nothing biblically wrong with masterbation or "common" prosotitution if the women was single (not owned by a husband who could have as many wive, concubines and "common" prostititutes as he wished).

Christianity has twisted what the texts actually said as meant in the culture in which written into a sex negative view that simply isn't there. Not too unlike the Muslums that twist the Koran to justify suicide bombers etc.

The prostitution that was wrong and to which Paul was speaking about was the prostitutes in the Temples such as Corinith where they were worshoping the fertility gods and goddesses. It was idolitry that was the sin not prostitution itself. There are many cases where common (non goddess) prostitution mentioned in the bible with no negative inference.
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Dave in Phoenix

For indepth discussion on that subject:

http://www.sexwork.com/index.html

http://www.libchrist.com/bible/contents.html

i call sexual desire the beast, that at some point needs to be fed.
it is not something i can just shut off,

So why feel guilty? Many believe that freewill is a myth and the bible teaches universal salvation.

http://www.tentmaker.org/articles/unique_proof_for_universalism.html
http://www.tentmaker.org/tracts/Universalists.html
http://www.tentmaker.org/books/150reasons.html
http://www.tentmaker.org/tracts/DoYouBelieve.html

and im seeing an sp this week, being with a women is one of the greatest pleasures in life,
just don't feel the best way is to pay some one,
but its better then nothing,
and like i said im very very week

What are your thoughts on a fuck buddy or friends with benefits type of thing? It seems to me a guy like you should have little trouble hooking up.