Just a quite observation ...

[Bruddha]

Perhaps I be overly sensitive, but I 'ave been trying to tolerate the unique differences between people as best as I can ... I respect that I am about as different as dey come in dis city mon. With my sista's sexy young friend Loxy on the plane back to Jamaica dis morning, I stopped for coffee and a cookie at one of my favorite cafes. Now bros ... I am in my late 30's and have an attraction to (and from) a wide age range of women, but I have been trying my best to stay ire humble and open to meeting a nice woman close to my age.

The problem mons, is my lack of tolerance for what seems to be an abundance of middle aged women who 'ang out in pairs and talk so loud it makes my rasta ears burn. What ever 'appened to all de soft spoken women mon. In two separate incidents dis day, there were good looking women in my age group that I found attractive, but as soon as they opened their mouths ... I was quickly looking for a quiet seat as far away as possible. It seems that either dey live with a dog ... or dey be unbearably loud and aggressive ... especially when dey kakkle.

I am trying to be a tolerant rastamon ... kind and generous and respectful ... but it seems dis Bruddha be destined to be alone. Ladies ... if you see a good looking sexy single rastamon checking yo out in a Vancouver cafe ... please smile and be gentle with me ... so we can 'ave a nice soft spoken conversation ... and then maybe even fall in love and 'ave beautiful babies together.

Any of my middle aged bros 'ave dis same problem mon? I am trying my best ... but maybe the problem is my lack of tolerance.

Yo Bruddha

 

[Cock Throppled]

Do what the rest of us do and Don't Listen. That's why God made sports.

 

[Dulcinea]

It seems that either dey live with a dog ... or dey be unbearably loud and aggressive ... especially when dey kakkle.



what is wrong with dogs? Assuming you mean of the canine variety.

 

[Bruddha]

DeMarco ... no mon, the loud talking was in a conversation with me ... or in another case, right beside me in an attempt to include me. It was just too loud ... and it would have been nice to be included in a less aggressive way. I tink I not denying myself anyting with deez ones bro ... I wait for a more sensitive woman.

CT ... ya mon, but I would like to find the right woman fo dis Bruddha.

Dulcinea ... dogs are OK bro, but not in my bed. I dated a woman once ... until I found out she would sleep with her dog ... dats just gross. I also don't like to get in a dog car ... it stinks in there mon. If I had a dog ... I would drive a pick-up with a canopy in da back fo the dog.

Yo Bruddha

 

[American Male]

I have to say that I am sympathetic to what the Bruddha man is talking about here. I have also experienced this phenomena of girlfriends being overly loud and carrying on inappropriate conversations in public. In coffeehouses, in the bus, on the skytrain, standing in line at the theatre, etc.

There is such a thing (or at least, there used to be) as an appropriate level of loudness with which anyone (not just women) should speak at when in a public place. There is also inappropriate subject matter. I don't care to be in a coffeehouse with a friend, talking about the latest book we've just read and then be forced to listen to two "ladies" talking so loudly that I am forced to listen to their conversation.

While both men and women can be guilty of this, I do think Bruddha has a point. We don't expect middle aged women to be offenders of this sort of thing. Young high school and college aged boys and girls, yes. Older women should know better and have a sense of decorum about themselves in public.

I don't think Bruddha and I are being prudes or sexists. I guess we just think that a lady should act like a lady and not like a drunken sailor.

 

[Sweetiepie]

CT ... ya mon, but I would like to find the right woman fo dis Bruddha.
Yo Bruddha

This would make for a good reality tv show. "Who wants to marry our Bruddha?" We need five perbs on the panel. Vancouver Man and Ashley Fame are two who need to be on it. Who else?

 

[Sweetiepie]

Wait! I just put Hatrick on the panel, too. So, the rest of you need elect two more.

 

[Bruddha]

Dis Bruddha choose Ghostie and Squirrel. Now 'ows dis going 'appen?

 

[Sweetiepie]

Vancouverman will organize it. He's really good at that kind of thing.

 

[Ray]

Another rudeness I experienced today at lunch.

Sitting in a restaurant, enjoying a meal. 2 couples walked in, all 4 of them in their 60's. (I'm guessing).
As they're looking at the menu board, one of the ladies comes over and announces to her companoins.. 'You folks look at the menu, I'll just see what these guys are eating and see if it looks good.'

So she comes over to our table to take a close up look at our plates of food.
I felt like screaming at her to f*** off!
You'd think someone that much older would have some sense of manners.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Just a tip...

You may want to consider acquainting yourself with a nice quiet Asian lady. While Asia has its share of loud, boisterous, and at times impossibly neurotic women, I have found some very quiet Vietnamese, Cambodian, Laotian or Thai ladies, even here in Vancouver. Part of the problem is a woman's level of comfort within her own milieu. Women among women can be just as obnoxious as men among men. And, depending on their status within this cruel pecking order, they will increase their staccato just to make themselves heard above the din. Strangely enough, few realize that when everybody's talking, nobody's listening.

A nice Asian girl, who is still struggling to acquaint herself with the English language, will usually think long and deep before she lets out a blast of hot air. Conversely, a quiet one can also mean a clamoring lover in bed...

 

[ghostie]

What ever 'appened to all de soft spoken women mon.

Yep... I agree with Maury... that was the first thing that popped into my head as well... you need an Asian lady. I was going to suggest someone from Mainland China or Taiwan... but that is just based on personal experience. I can imagine that there are a lot quiet ladies in the Southeast Asian countries/of Southeast Asian descent as well.

Plus you get the bonus that they will treat you like someone that knows something about something once in awhile, someone that is worth listening to for more than 30 seconds, and someone that isn't just there to support their shopping habits. Plus, a lot of them will do whatever you want in bed. The only mistake is asking if it is "o.k.". That kind of thing is just for North American-raised girls.

Flame me if you want, but I'm speaking from experience here. Sure everyone is an individual and you can't "know" people by ethnicity or nationality, but there are some very definite patterns out there... and, living in Vancouver, I've pretty much covered the bases in terms of dating women of different backgrounds from myself.

 

[smackyo]

yep i'm with ya dude, i hear them all the time. so fucking loud. especially on their cell phones. sweet jesus, yak, yak, yak,yak, yak, and about some of the stupidest shit too.

when i roomed with my cousin, his girlfriend moved in and she used to yak on the phone loud while typing on msn at the same time !!!!!! i mean like holy fuck!

 

[vancouverman]

He's really good at that kind of thing.

what things????
I think, it is ime to meet YOU Sweetiepie ... I shall organize it

 

[vancouverman]

CT ... ya mon, but I would like to find the right woman fo dis Bruddha.

yo.. bro ... Squirrel is already going with me for a hunt .... to good ol'Europe .. especially .. some western parts of it ... wanna join?

if not .... a reality show, eh ... sounds like a plan .... just wonder if he has to pay girls by the hour?

 

[ghostie]

if not .... a reality show, eh ... sounds like a plan .... just wonder if he has to pay girls by the hour?

We can do it as a webcast maybe:

Bruddha's Quiet Submissive Slut Hunt!

...contestant number 57... Ya Fired!

 

[vancouverman]

We can do it as a webcast maybe:

Bruddha's Quiet Submissive Slut Hunt!

...contestant number 57... Ya Fired!

webcast.. nah ... if he cannot touch and feel the skin .. smell the hair, he should not do it

 

[ghostie]

webcast.. nah ... if he cannot touch and feel the skin .. smell the hair, he should not do it

No, I'm thinking... Bruddha's "selection process" will be "in the flesh" just the results will be webcast for the rest of us gawkers!

 

[vancouverman]

No, I'm thinking... Bruddha's "selection process" will be "in the flesh" just the results will be webcast for the rest of us gawkers!

now you are talking .... and we can charge for it .... a small "donation fee for time"

 

[LonelyGhost]

Even though I was once again overlooked in the selection process, I am most happy to um ... test drive any ladies the panel selects so that, you know, if one turns out to be a real screamer during sex, the brudda won't be having his ears hurtin' ...

its the least i can do.