Just a question

[chizuperna]

Hey yall,
Kinda strange asking a whole bunch of random dudes advice, but that’s the nature of it isn’t it?
I like the reviews and find them helpful.
So the question is and sort of advice. What would you recommend? How to get the most from a gfe experience. Is it ok to pay alittle extra for the girl to take the lead?
What is the best etiquette? I mean I want a good vibe. Any recommendations? I’ve been to the foxden 3 or 4 times times and everything is covered (and it seems like they are cool with you not doing anything if you are shy ((just my experience))), but what is it like when you venture out?
How do you make sure that you are protected and at the same time take the most advantage of your time and money spent?
I read some reviews and it seems you guys are confident in many positions and know what you want -any advice for a guy who is lacking assertiveness, the shy and timid folk?
Pretty much a 30year old virgin here,
Thanks,
Chizuperna

 

[sdw]

Hey yall,
Kinda strange asking a whole bunch of random dudes advice, but that’s the nature of it isn’t it?
I like the reviews and find them helpful.
So the question is and sort of advice. What would you recommend? How to get the most from a gfe experience. Is it ok to pay alittle extra for the girl to take the lead?
What is the best etiquette? I mean I want a good vibe. Any recommendations? I’ve been to the foxden 3 or 4 times times and everything is covered (and it seems like they are cool with you not doing anything if you are shy ((just my experience))), but what is it like when you venture out?
How do you make sure that you are protected and at the same time take the most advantage of your time and money spent?
I read some reviews and it seems you guys are confident in many positions and know what you want -any advice for a guy who is lacking assertiveness, the shy and timid folk?
Pretty much a 30year old virgin here,
Thanks,
Chizuperna

Mostly, the reviews tell you 3 things:
1. Who not to see. If the reviewer was ripped off, the SP was super flaky or the SP doesn't like sex and made sure that you also didn't have a good time.
2. The SP is not a Cop. In the post C36 world, there is no possibility of me seeing a lady that hasn't been reviewed.
3. The SP "fits" you. You know if you can come no matter what - or - you can only come if the mood is right and the SP is making you feel like her boyfriend. It's pointless to read the reviews and then think that the SP is going to be different just for you. Same thing with reading her ad and thinking her restrictions will be waived just for you.

When reading the reviews, a certain amount of care has to be taken. ie:

The review is "too girly" - mentions the boutique that made the underwear, mentions that the top of the door doesn't have dust on it, etc.. You know, all of the stuff that isn't about naked hot chick having sex with you. "Too Girly" usually means that the SP wrote the review herself, guys that notice all of the "too girly" stuff - - aren't interested in sex with girls.

 

[hornygandalf]

I think there are many ladies out there, that if they know the situation ahead of time, will gently take the lead and guide you through the process in a way you are comfortable with. At least, the good ones will. Find someone who is well-reviewed for being sweet and providing a real GFE. It is about the whole experience, not just the act of sex.
You might want to take a look at Christy Little Miss Sunshine or her sister Janis, Ms Catherine James, maybe Ms Erica Phoenix.
They are all older than you, so that might be a negative for you, but they have wisdom and experience that would guide you.
Younger ones closer to your age, maybe Lady-Via or Lavinia or Claire Monet. And even younger MILF types, try Serina Treat or Sweet Adelaide Jones.
And there are many others as well. BTW, I haven't yet had a playtime with most of these ladies. My comments are based on reading lots of reviews over a period of time.

 

[chizuperna]

Thanks for the feedback. I am thinking about Christy Little Miss Sunshine -from the pics she looks absolutely lushes.

 

[hornygandalf]

Thanks for the feedback. I am thinking about Christy Little Miss Sunshine -from the pics she looks absolutely lushes.

All the best and let us know how it worked out for you. Your feedback could help someone in a similar position.

 

[Claire Monet]

I think there are many ladies out there, that if they know the situation ahead of time, will gently take the lead and guide you through the process in a way you are comfortable with. At least, the good ones will. Find someone who is well-reviewed for being sweet and providing a real GFE. It is about the whole experience, not just the act of sex.
You might want to take a look at Christy Little Miss Sunshine or her sister Janis, Ms Catherine James, maybe Ms Erica Phoenix.
They are all older than you, so that might be a negative for you, but they have wisdom and experience that would guide you.
Younger ones closer to your age, maybe Lady-Via or Lavinia or Claire Monet. And even younger MILF types, try Serina Treat or Sweet Adelaide Jones.
And there are many others as well. BTW, I haven't yet had a playtime with most of these ladies. My comments are based on reading lots of reviews over a period of time.

Thanks for the mention, hornygandalf! I have no problem taking the lead with the more green gents who visit me.

Chizuperna, I think you'll find communicating with independent sp's vastly different than speaking with an agency's receptionist/phone person. You would be, in most cases unless the independent has a handler (which doesn't really make then independent in my opinion but I know others have different views on that... lol different thread!!), speaking directly with the lady so you could both get a feel for one another, discuss expectations and boundaries, and set the overall tone to your date. Your case is not rare so no need to be nervous! I'm sure most ladies would agree that us service providers see a vast group of people from those who have been around a while to those who are shy and curious-- it's really a mixed bag!! The biggest tool to success is communication: let your lady of choice know your situation and specifics like if you want covered bj, a slow approach, mood music etc. We are here to make it memorable for you and of course not make you do anything that's uncomfortable (unless you want that lol but, ahem, again a different thread)!

As for paying extra for her to take the lead... I don't feel like that should be necessary with any reputable provider unless it is a specific domme type service you're seeking some ladies may have different rates...

I have met a few of the ladies hornygandalf mentioned (Ms Erica Pheonix, Lavinia, Lady Via) and can confidently say they are beautiful women who would be sure to take your requests to heart.

All the best!!

 

[little sunshine]

Thanks for the feedback. I am thinking about Christy Little Miss Sunshine -from the pics she looks absolutely lushes.

Thanks chizuperna for the compliment, looking forward to meeting