@MonaBardot: Yes, this is why I never try to talk the price down, to me, it's okay to be poor, but it's not okay to be rude, or be without pride. If I talk a girl's price down, I am both telling her that she's not worth that much, and telling myself that I am excused from rudeness just cause I'm poor. Either you can pay, or don't play, to me it's that simple- sad, but simple.
That being said, I often think that there should be a system in place for disabled people to get sex services cheaper/ or somehow be included in their benefit like massages used to be.
Taking example from this organization in Taiwan who's already tried something similar:
http://www.vice.com/read/hand-angel-hand-jobs-taiwan-748
To me, the thought of so many disabled people living out their lives without a relationship, without the joy of physical contact with anyone other than their nurses/caregivers, is extremely depressing.
And for those who don't know. In BC, currently the most a disabled person can get from the Government is $906 a month. That has to "somehow" last the month, pay for food, shelter, toilet paper, etc. That already seems impossible to most of us, there's no way in hell they can ever save enough to even get a $200 per hour visit.
I've seen a quote from a blind lady who volunteered her time for the Richmond Center for the Disabled... She said it took her 2 to 3 months of saving up coins to afford new soap and shampoo.
But I digress...just my sociology and socialwork background coming out lol- these social issues will probably never be solved/addressed by the government, nvm any of us on this "secret" society of a board.
@poonmiester: "In terms of respect ..... high price low price ..... there will always be assholes whom have no respect for others.... they can poor and can be rich....."
That is very true. I've dealt with enough rich but really rude people at work often enough to know that wealth does not always come with class.
@BC_BABE: I try my best, but I can't match guys who show up with a bottle of expensive liquor, or flowers, etc. To me, getting the two hours session is already pushing the limit of the budget, if I got to get a $80 bottle on top of that, there's no way to swing it. So here's the question. When you say "We only judge you based on how you treat us" would you treat a client who brings/can afford, flowers and expensive gifts better than those who can't?
Okay, actually that's not a fair question, didn't mean to get anyone cornered like that so no need to answer.
To answer my own question, if two of my students are equally good people, but one constantly bring me gifts or even pay me tips on top of the training fee, I guess it's naturally I would, knowingly or not knowingly, like that one a bit better. The assumption here is of course if both students are equally nice people and the one bringing gifts is not a douchebag- cause I do not put up with bad/rude behaviors gifts or no gifts, and I assume most ladies are like that.
