As I enter my golden years, I have realized a couple of hard truths about my performance. First, I cum way too quickly. Second, the climax is rarely a mind blowing experience. This means paying 200 - 300 for an hour of FS is really not worthwhile. If her goal is to get me off quickly, she will surely succeed, leaving me slightly embarrassed and not particularly satisfied. What I am hoping to find is an attractive younger SP (under 30) who provides GFE and genuinely enjoys receiving an hour of body worship, particularly DATY. Someone who appreciates a break from giving massage and "taking a pounding". Ethnicity not an issue, but I do prefer petite, with smaller breasts and nice legs. If this is not a unicorn, please feel free to respond or DM. Happy holidays.
It is better to give than to receive
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Thanks for this. Such an amazing post. I understand completely. I'm with you on everything you just said... Bump
Why don’t you just work on your stamina? It’s not something you’re born with and it stays like that - you can train it
Hmm, I am the opposite, I can't shoot fast at all, I get tired pretty fast. That's the reason most, if not all of my AMP or in call poon are 45 minutes or longer at least. I've not gone for 30 minutes in many times, unless it was for a quicky and HJ/BJ/CIM combo finish.
Premature ejaculation is an issue that can be fixed. Seeking sessions where a person "gives" won't really address the issue.
My suggestion would be to work with a skilled mature SP who knows what they are doing. They can bring you to the edge and back and eventually you will have that mind blowing finish. There are women who literally specialize in working with people and helping to improve sexual performance.
But the majority of women with that type of skill would be 35+ imo which I also believe to be the ideal age range for more mature men seeking genuine gfe. But to each his own.
My suggestion would be to work with a skilled mature SP who knows what they are doing. They can bring you to the edge and back and eventually you will have that mind blowing finish. There are women who literally specialize in working with people and helping to improve sexual performance.
But the majority of women with that type of skill would be 35+ imo which I also believe to be the ideal age range for more mature men seeking genuine gfe. But to each his own.
while I appreciate all the kind advice on dealing with ED problems, it's not really what I am looking for. Even in my more "virile" days, I preferred to spend the majority of a love making session teasing my partner and finding new ways to push her buttons, leaving my own finish...well, to the finish. There is no greater turn on than the sight, sound, smell and feel of a woman who is truly turned on. If I am willing to pay for that experience now, I should not have to settle for someone who wants to follow their script or who sees me as a job to be completed as quickly as possible. That said, definite bonus points to a provider with a talent for edging or a willingness to see if they can get an extra shot out of me (without the "ooh baby you tip more" BS.
I have the same problem. I can't call it ED tho. Sometimes I can keep it for 10 minutes, sometimes I come right after I put the JR in. I myself found out it mostly stress related. but I always want to find a solution for that and still have not found anything useful.
what also comes with age is that after you've banged enough chicks, it just gets boring after a while. Which is why you need a GFE or Sugar baby experience.
sounds a little more like advice for your situation than mine. I've never really understood the difference between FS and GFE. I mean, the same basic service is included with both, so why would I need someone to pretend they see my like a boyfriend? Actually, given the likely age difference, that seems to me a little perverse. I prefer that she not need to pretend anything, simply that she enjoys having her body worshipped and can be turned on by someone who knows what they are doing, even if he doesn't look like Ronaldo.
Christ on a rope! Enough of the frickin ED advice. Not what my original post was about. If you know of an SP that might fit my request, feel free to DM me. If not, maybe start a new thread for penis problems. Thanks.
Please don't use this as it will also NUMB OUR MOUTHS AND HOLES 😱 Even worse if someone has an allergy to any ingredients in such a product.
I had a great time like this with Freya Janssen and Joanna at Riza’s. Both were very receptive to me enjoying their body for majority of the time and leaving intercourse for that last few minutes. Neither are petite but both have great legs and asses.
I haven’t had the pleasure of going down on her yet but I had a good first visit with Anika Rose and she seems like a good fit for what you described as well.
I haven’t had the pleasure of going down on her yet but I had a good first visit with Anika Rose and she seems like a good fit for what you described as well.
thanks very much. Joanna looks pretty hot, though her reviews seem a bit mixed.
Nikki(1122) Blaire(1122) Annabelle(vixxxen) Emilia(tryst) recently seemed to enjoy daty a lot.
Side note - i had the same problem, but for some reason I take forever to cum now 😅
When I had this problem I did one or both of these things
1. Book 90 mins and do a first shot quickly and then take some time and do second. Second time lasted longer. And also had some time to talk and connect.
2. Give a massage to her, girls always enjoyed it. You can make it sensual and play with her body and tease her etc… But make sure you know how to massage. I have had girls torture me in the name of massage. 🤣
Side note - i had the same problem, but for some reason I take forever to cum now 😅
When I had this problem I did one or both of these things
1. Book 90 mins and do a first shot quickly and then take some time and do second. Second time lasted longer. And also had some time to talk and connect.
2. Give a massage to her, girls always enjoyed it. You can make it sensual and play with her body and tease her etc… But make sure you know how to massage. I have had girls torture me in the name of massage. 🤣
I freaking love this type of session. I’m 1000% more into giving than receiving!
I had a really good time with Bia at Coco Collective.
It did however take me some strong willpower though not to finish during her bbbj because it was quite good!
She also gave me a bbbj at the beginning too and that would’ve really ruined it for me had I finished within the first 5 min.
I let her do her thing for a bit then got her to lay down. I took my time caressing and teasing her with my hands and my tongue. Probably had my head between her legs for a good 20 min, bringing her to the edge of having an O then backing off. Plenty of “Oh my god!” And “Holy shit this feels good!” from her!
Needless to say I absolutely love sessions like this, since it also doesn’t take me much to cum myself!
Bia was really receptive to my “issue” and would slow down/stop during sex as well!
She told me after that she really enjoyed that type of sex too.
I’m not one to pound away for 30 min straight.
I had a really good time with Bia at Coco Collective.
It did however take me some strong willpower though not to finish during her bbbj because it was quite good!
She also gave me a bbbj at the beginning too and that would’ve really ruined it for me had I finished within the first 5 min.
I let her do her thing for a bit then got her to lay down. I took my time caressing and teasing her with my hands and my tongue. Probably had my head between her legs for a good 20 min, bringing her to the edge of having an O then backing off. Plenty of “Oh my god!” And “Holy shit this feels good!” from her!
Needless to say I absolutely love sessions like this, since it also doesn’t take me much to cum myself!
Bia was really receptive to my “issue” and would slow down/stop during sex as well!
She told me after that she really enjoyed that type of sex too.
I’m not one to pound away for 30 min straight.
thanks for that. Assuming the pics on Coco are accurate, she may be just what I am looking for. Is she open to digits (a rarity I know) and does she get into kissing?
