ISO: SPs relatively new to biz

[totalnewbie]

Hi,

I am in search of SPs in the Vancouver area that are relatively new to the business, *petite build*, and *MUST* look under 25.

I am relatively new to the hobby, and thought an SP that is as new as me would probably make a good match. Since we are probably both still nervous, I will take the lead and be a total gentleman (and gentle man) thereby resulting in a mutually positive experience.

Thanks,

Totalnewbie

 

[Storm]

Just a thought.

You're better off booking with a SP who has some experience in the biz. She has more knowledge of how to make you feel comfortable and secure.

Unless you're looking for a g/f...

 

[totalnewbie]

been there...

Been there, done that. I found that being with an SP with too much experience was an intimidating experience, because normally I am the one with the experience and prefer to take the lead. I just want to try to approach this differently.

GFE maybe, but not g/f.

Suggestions are greatly appreciated.

 

[dinobot]

hey blowhard, are yolanda's guns enhanced?

 

[ihatemyskirt]

Hey Newbie guy make up your mind. Are you new or have you seen all sorts of experienced sp's?

 

[totalnewbie]

new to hobby, but had lots of girlfriends and one night encounters (freebies)

any more questions about me?

 

[totalnewbie]

unwarranted hostility.

Yes.

Are you for real??

This is one of the stupidest questions I've ever seen on PERB!! What are you looking for?? A "Blue Lagoon" innocent young love experience?? With a hooker??

IF you've had lots of experience, how could you be nervous with a hooker (you're getting if for sure and she's a cinch to pretend to love it!!).



Don't mean to be rude if you're serious, but I don't think that you are....

That was unwarranted.

At this juncture, I simply have a preference for SPs that are relative new to the "industry." Is that such a terrible preference to have?? You know what, it is exactly the pretentiousness exhibited by some of the overly experienced SPs that turns me off. I feel adequately secure about myself and do not need a SP to stroke my ego pretending she is REALLY enjoying it. Genuine response is far more arousing for me, and I think I am intelligent enough to distinquish between what's real and what's acting.

Already mentioned, GFE maybe, but this is not a girlfriend search. Please don't imply so.

And speaking of ego, calling my post stupid must give you an ego boost eh?

And yes, I am for real.

 

[Sunset]

Hey Total,

Don't let 'em get to ya.

They know what you mean, you're looking for a girl who is not jaded.

Truth is, she can be brand new to the business and be jaded as hell. Jaded, meaning a dispirited and callus attitude towards her clients and probably everyone else. For an example, a new girl could be jaded due to being hooked on drugs, she could be a stone cold lesbian who hates all men and in it for the money, she could be scorned due to a recent breakup, fresh from or still in a highly abusive relationship.

Believe me there are some girls that have been SP's for years who are some of the most kindest and loving people on this earth. As they are sincerely of that nature and spirit without pretense.

So, there you have it. New has nothing to do with being jaded or being some fair innocent babe in the woods.

 

[tickletrunk]

alot of pooners mistake a 'jaded' sp, for an sp, that is sees a guy that is getting attached or looking for a whole lot of emotion. any pooner looking for all that kind of romance from an appointment has got to be jaded in himself. jaded by regular dating and women and then looking for a good sucker. flame me, flame me, flame, flame me.

 

[totalnewbie]

...any pooner looking for all that kind of romance from an appointment has got to be jaded in himself...

Can't speak for others, but no risk of such with me.

Ask one simple question, and I get to sit in the hot seat. Jeez...

 

[girlguru]

Wouldn't be a stretch to assume that an sp could be jaded from a bad experience with a client also.