isn't sex the easy part

[sevenofnine]

Isn't sex the easy part.


I mean this site is for the most part, about sex the buying or selling of, or how to get it.
But isn't sex so easy.
Like some one pointed out recently I'm a pathetic loser, or a couple of people what ever.
But my point is,
I have never found sex or women hard to get. Even the pathetic loser that I am. Maybe if I targeted a women yes, I would or find it hard to woo such or said women, I'm not that kind of guy. But in all honesty if your out and about, and live your life women come to you, people are lonely people need company companionship.
Sex to come by is actually very easy, its what do you do after that is hard. The relationship is the hard part.

Even in this, you pay an escort, you do what you have to do. But if you see her again, well you develop a relationship, how you treat her etc etc,
And even that can be hard. She takes your money but what does she really think of you.
Of course you write a review or send a note saying thanks, and she has the customary response thanks I had a great time.
But is it real and do you care.
I post a lot, rub some people the wrong way,
But honestly I'm just thinking, trying to promote a discussion and thought.

I don't know the answer, there is no right or wrong answer,
It all depends where you are at that moment in your life how you answer.

But we put so much effort into sex and thinking about it, and its so easy.
But do we actually wonder or give a dam about the sp, when we close the door behind us.

If you want to know some,
I mean really know some one, look at the people they leave behind, there wives there kids.

Some one made the comment about why to me and to other guys or to guys in general, why do you stay with your wife.
Its an easy answer, it’s a work in progress, I haven't given up and I believe, my family is better then if I walked,

Your sp, that you have seen, is she better or worse of for the encounter, is all she got from you is money and sex rough or other wise.

I believe we should leave people in a better state then we have found them, even your sp.
Perhaps especially your sp.
I have tried,
But I won't put words in my sps mouth.

But isn't again sex so easy,
And maybe we should worry about how we treat each other just a little bit more.
Starting with your sp.

 

[chilli]

Here is the simple truth about people and relationships.

People in general treat their customers better than their spouses / partners.

Why? Because you need your customers money.

Kind of sad really that people can't be nice/good to the people their going to spend the rest of their lives with -yet they will go to the ends of the earth to keep a client happy.

 

[ssd]

Here is the simple truth about people and relationships.

People in general treat their customers better than their spouses / partners.

Why? Because you need your customers money.

Kind of sad really that people can't be nice/good to the people their going to spend the rest of their lives with -yet they will go to the ends of the earth to keep a client happy.

That's rather simplistic and cynical. It hasn't happened to me, but to some here, there is a genuine connection between client and provider. There's a huge grey area that you're neglecting to consider.

 

[the old maxx50]

Strange thing is that for me sex is not the easy part ... Never was! i never looked at some one just as a sex object.and that is why i never had the confidence to even approach most women if that was what was drawing me . I did not want to use them just for what i wanted ..And that still causes me some hesitation when deciding to see an escort even ones that i have seen many times .

Seeking some one out to know them as a friend that is easy .. I can put my self forward in that respect , and present my self to any person a i meet .. .They can reject it . or not be interested and i can accept that . My offer will all ways be there if they ever find they need it . I am not saying it is easy just to chose random people to be friends with , i actually don;t do that . It is just some of the people that i meet along life's journey that I am attracted to and want to know better. Some times they wan to know me and then there is the possibility that we will get to know each other.

For me and women it seem that I meet them and just am more willing to be there to help out when they need it .. to say sex is not part of it would be a lie .On my part yes i am sexually attracted to may that ii know and others not so much ... In most cases i don't get sex even from those that know i would have sex with them .. I still am willing to be friends and help when i can .. Friendship is easier then sex.

On escort that i am friends with and help out and would defiantly have sex with , but she does not want to .. Why because she see;s me as a friend .. and puts it this way . "She knows that guys will have sex with a women even if it means ruining the friendship" It is true .