Is this kind of guy worth it to you, SPs?

[Harmony-bc]

Thank you Harmony. To be honest, I don't have a sense of humor about lenny anymore. Overall I find his posts disrespectful to women. I also find his too-frequent references to me creepy and 'baiting'. The mods have deleted several of his posts about me deeming them 'inappropriate' so one could conclude that I'm not over-reacting. I try to ignore him and I won't respond to anything he posts from now on (I'm sure he'll have an ugly response to this) but I will make it clear that his comments are unwelcome and I will PM the mods each time I perceive he is baiting.

Yes, I agree. I don't think he likes women very much. Just because you like to fuck someone, doesn't mean you like that person.

 

[lenny]

Look Lenny I only can intepret what is written at face value. I couldn't help but notice every time a critical point is made you start to explain yourself more which lessens the starkness of you original point.

This is what I call back tracking or was it just an innocent error of ommission?

It's what i call, your comments here are so vague how in heck do you
expect me to answer that? It's impossible, and maybe that's the way
you'ld like it. But if you are serious, then rather than being so incredibly
vague, give quotes, post numbers where they cum from, and your
"interpretations" of them regarding what you call "critical points" and
my "original point". I mean, do you really expect me to guess, or try
to read your mind? BTW, i won't hold my breath waiting for such
details, and it would surely feel better for you if you didn't bother ;

Consider also that there are thousands of religions made from so-
called "interpretations" of the Bible, so maybe you shouldn't assume
that your "interpretation" of my comments is correct, or that you
know its meaning better than its author, namely moi.

We all know this is a business transaction in the purest sense. Without sounding repetitive...there is real human factor at play here where a SP is engaging in a very personal service.

Again, the vagueness. Define "human factor". I assume that SP's are
"human" beings rather than those alien hotties in the Species trilogy ;
or the machine that is John Connor's protector in the TV series re the
Sarah Connor Chronicles {after the Terminator trilogy}, and who
wouldn't love to own her as a fuck toy ; but what is your point?

A "personal service" like a bank teller rather than an ATM machine?
Define "personal service" too, if you will, because so far you are
not telling me anything with such vague language.

I suspect a SP, from the time they communicate via email /phone to opening the door, she is mentally forming an impression of you via sight, sound and speech. If you take away the speech and sound then she doesn't have much to formulate a sense of safety, comfort and rapport.

So? Who said anything about not communicating with her before or
after the session? BTW some SP's don't provide much of an opportunity
{no telephone number} to talk to them before a session.

For you, it's about about getting the sexual carnal lust out. For her, she wants to know if you are mentally sane first before delivering the goods at the level of your expectation.

I would hope. But from the little i've seen about dangerous people like
serial killers, her chances are quite poor that she will be able to identify
the more devious ones. So it's a game of Russian roulette, except with
one bullet and thousands of barrels.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_roulette

Every time a client walks through that door she doesn't know what's going to happen. It's the subconcious fear of the unknown especially if one had a bad experience. So a itty bitty 5-10 min chat goes along way to making the SP feel comfortable.

I'm sure that can help. Maybe better yet talk to him on the phone for
5 minutes before he arrives, and then if she identifies him as a psycho
she doesn't have to deal with such a person in person. Or if she knows
him from a posting board, that might help her to be relieved ; Further-
more, the more guys she sees probably increases her chances of
cumming into contact with a Charles Manson type. Better to have a
handful of regulars than 100's of newbies.

It's sad when some pooners are worrying and accounting for every minute of value you can extract in exchange for $$s.

No doubt. But it's also sad when they feel cheated out of their
hard earned money. There's always two sides to every story,
and then there's the truth.

The very fact you don't care to acknowledge this makes me conclude your viewpoint as distasteful or should I say a man lacking in a bit of emotional IQ?

So many words w/o saying anything. Emotional IQ? WTF is that? I've never
heard of such a thing before in over 50 years in this world.

Did you want me to go back in time, see that you were going to post
this, and then post out of the blue to no one that i believe knit picking
over one minute of chit chat is foolish? I guess you expected me to
read your mind and know that you expected me to acknowledge some-
thing rather than you simply asking me if i acknowledge it ;

 

[lenny]

"Why would i want to see something your way when it's not true about many SP's"

Because those mechanical sps who don't typically speak a lick of english you so conveniently point out don't take this "profession" seriously like the indy's on this board. How long do those girls last? You are beginnin to stretch a bit.

When did the subject of discussion change to (1) only SP's who take
their "profession seriously" {as if you are a judge of that, whatever the
heck "seriously" means, you didn't explain} or (2} how long an SP lasts?
You are just ignoring my comments and changing the subject with such
blatant obfuscation.

The only point I agree with you on is if you explicity state and arrange the condition of NO talking and stressed it's very important to you to having a gratifying experience and she does otherwise then that's wrong on SP's part.

Nice to hear. It would be hard to disagree there, eh ;

 

[overdone]

Although i am working on my 4th baccardi breezer

I think this explains most of what there is to learn about Lenny.

Coolers, stuck in the 80's.

 

[hapkido]

"So many words w/o saying anything. Emotional IQ? WTF is that? I've never heard of such a thing before in over 50 years in this world."

This says it all folks. Touche. I'm done with you Lenny. Let's agree to disagree. The court of public opinion will be your judge. Not that you would ever care to acknowledge because ...well it's Lenny's World. Lenny's World = BKK= the land of manworship where the girls have no choice or voice If you ever have a chance Lenny view this documentary. http://www.cbc.ca/thelens/program_190906.html. Human Life is cheap and expendable there. But hey you knew that already... just close your eyes and just conjure up those fond memories of saying "pleasure me darlin no talking ok ..that aint what i paid for "

(Note: this is not a condemnation of those who travel to BKK but making a point that small chat is about giving the lady a level comfort and respect that she is a human being and giving her a bit of dignity in an otherwise what we know as a pure business transaction. It's a small gesture that goes a long way for not only the SP but client as well.)

http://www.utne.com/lens/bms/9bmseq.aspx

Emotional intelligence gives you a competitive edge. Even at Bell Labs, where everyone is smart, studies find that the most valued and productive engineers are those with the traits of emotional intelligence -- not necessarily the highest IQ. Having great intellectual abilities may make you a superb fiscal analyst or legal scholar, but a highly developed emotional intelligence will make you a candidate for CEO or a brilliant trial lawyer.

Empathy and other qualities of the heart make it more likely that your marriage will thrive. Lack of those abilities explains why people of high IQ can be such disastrous pilots of their personal lives.

An analysis of the personality traits that accompany high IQ in men who also lack these emotional competencies portrays, well, the stereotypical nerd: critical and condescending, inhibited and uncomfortable with sensuality, emotionally bland. By contrast, men with the traits that mark emotional intelligence are poised and outgoing, committed to people and causes, sympathetic and caring, with a rich but appropriate emotional life -- they're comfortable with themselves, others, and the social universe they live in.

A high IQ may get you into Mensa, but it won't make you a mensch

 

[Thais]

So many words w/o saying anything. Emotional IQ? WTF is that? I've never
heard of such a thing before in over 50 years in this world.

Interesting. That was a part of mandatory introductory curriculum when I went to get my Bachelor of Commerce in 2000.
Perhaps, the world has changed a bit?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence

 

[lenny]

This says it all folks. Touche. I'm done with you Lenny. Let's agree to disagree. The court of public opinion will be your judge. Not that you would ever care to acknowledge because ...well it's Lenny's World.

First of all, sorry if i hurt your feelings, but your erroneous comments were
worthy of a reply.

Secondly, it seems you weren't "done" since you came back 4 hours later
to edit your post and add quite a few comments.

In that post you followed your MO again. Rather than try to explain or
defend your accusations against me, as usual you changed the subject to
something else. IOW, ran away from the issues. How high does that quality
rate on your emotional IQ or emotional maturity test?

As for your "court of public opinion will be {my} judge" and that "says it all
folks" comments, maybe you are too concerned about what others think of
you? Truth and knowledge are more important than the masses or mob
type of mentality.

 

[hapkido]

Lenny the only way you would hurt my feelings is if you continue to make your yearly trips to fuck helpless underaged BKK girls who can't speak a lick of english. I know in your world it's only a straight business transaction $ for sex like any other service and supporting Thai economy.

http://www.denverpost.com/jonbenet/ci_4244063
"A portion of the estimated 200,000 to 300,000 sex workers in Thailand are either underage or in involuntary servitude or debt bondage, according to a U.S. State Department report. Homeless street children are the most vulnerable, Capaldi said."

We all know why Lenny prefers mute sessions and avoids GFE. You're incapable.

"men who also lack these emotional competencies portrays, well, the stereotypical nerd: critical and condescending, inhibited and uncomfortable with sensuality, emotionally bland"

 

[lenny]

Lenny the only way you would hurt my feelings is if you continue to make your yearly trips to fuck helpless underaged BKK girls who can't speak a lick of english.

Actually i make an effort to avoid underage girls. In BKK they have
ID cards with their DOB on it. And if they don't have that then
they can't have me ; Furthermore, i've found that the best ones,
i.e. keepers, have always been 27 and older. Being Asian & small
compared to Western women, though, they often look a number
of years younger than a caucasian of the same age.

As for your remark they "can't speak a lick of English", the truth
is at least 95% of those i've encountered can speak a little bit of
my native tongue, and some do so fairly well.

But how did we get on this topic? And i thought you were done
with me ;

 

[FortunateOne]

Polo, not cricket, is the sport of kings.

Horseracing, not polo or cricket, is the sport of kings.

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