Is Pooning the Cure?

masterpoonhunter

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Pooning while in an "unhealthy marriage" seems more like a band-aid on a shattered window, thinking it's solving anything....it doesn't...

For me, I see pooning as massage therapy. I love my wife, no obvious issues that would lead me to believe my marriage is toxic. I share in the cooking, cleaning, and child raising equally with her. I am the bread-winner, but she works and contributes too. We are active (well, 'were' thanks to COVID), and travel and do family activities... overall we are tight-knit, not to worry about things falling apart...... Except for that one thing, that annoys me, like a dripping faucet in the middle of the night; that "itch".... Even though we're middle-aged, I still want to fuck like a teenager, but the wife doesn't seems to have the same energy. We have sex enough to still believe we're into each other, but I do want more. We 'talked' about how we can get more, but she seems disinterested to try; which is tragic since in our younger years, she'd do anything. But I don't see here unwillingness as a bad sign, just something to accept.....so I compensate... I turned to pooning to fill the void, and have my demands met.... in that case, I think "pooning is the cure", no different than going to a legit RMT and getting a therapeutic massage on an atrophied muscle.....

Now for the extreme case, if you were in a toxic marriage. Husband is a drunken abuser, or the wife is so high-maintenance she sinks the family into unescapable credit-card debt, name your scenario......and the only real catharsis in that relationship is to poon without prejudice. IMO, it's the wrong mentality to have. Because being such a dismal state of mind, you act only on rushed instincts. You think more with the little head, than the big one, leading to more trouble you're willing to accept, either by disease, cops, or thugs.....not to mention the safety of the other party who isn't into the trade to be one's emotional punching bag either..... Pooning for those types is just a weak band-aid to a larger issue they should solve first.
 

Cock Throppled

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Always suspicious of these things. Just how does a researcher know details of anyone's marriage?
 

g eazy

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Always suspicious of these things. Just how does a researcher know details of anyone's marriage?
I'm guessing you didn't click the link, or read more than 10 seconds. It wasn't hard to find.
The study relied on 30 years of health data that tracked the lives and deaths of 10,000 Israeli state employees beginning in the 1960s, paying close attention to deaths from cerebrovascular accidents (strokes) and all-cause mortality. Participants, who were in their 40s when the longitudinal study began, were asked early on to rate their overall level of satisfaction with their marriage on a scale of 1 (very successful) to 4 (very unsuccessful).
 
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masterpoonhunter

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Pooning while in an "unhealthy marriage" seems more like a band-aid on a shattered window, thinking it's solving anything....it doesn't...

For me, I see pooning as massage therapy. I love my wife, no obvious issues that would lead me to believe my marriage is toxic. I share in the cooking, cleaning, and child raising equally with her. I am the bread-winner, but she works and contributes too. We are active (well, 'were' thanks to COVID), and travel and do family activities... overall we are tight-knit, not to worry about things falling apart...... Except for that one thing, that annoys me, like a dripping faucet in the middle of the night; that "itch".... Even though we're middle-aged, I still want to fuck like a teenager, but the wife doesn't seems to have the same energy. We have sex enough to still believe we're into each other, but I do want more. We 'talked' about how we can get more, but she seems disinterested to try; which is tragic since in our younger years, she'd do anything. But I don't see here unwillingness as a bad sign, just something to accept.....so I compensate... I turned to pooning to fill the void, and have my demands met.... in that case, I think "pooning is the cure", no different than going to a legit RMT and getting a therapeutic massage on an atrophied muscle.....

Now for the extreme case, if you were in a toxic marriage. Husband is a drunken abuser, or the wife is so high-maintenance she sinks the family into unescapable credit-card debt, name your scenario......and the only real catharsis in that relationship is to poon without prejudice. IMO, it's the wrong mentality to have. Because being such a dismal state of mind, you act only on rushed instincts. You think more with the little head, than the big one, leading to more trouble you're willing to accept, either by disease, cops, or thugs.....not to mention the safety of the other party who isn't into the trade to be one's emotional punching bag either..... Pooning for those types is just a weak band-aid to a larger issue they should solve first.
The point of the article is that the Husband in the Unhappy Marriage has a higher statistical chance of a shortened life due to a stroke.

My post was not a comment on infidelity, it was a tongue in cheek, (tongue in genital orifice?) note that post marriage it seems to me my pooning has lowered my stress levels down to a non stroke level. But that's ok, make all judgey posts, it is an open forum after all!!
 

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Pooning while in an "unhealthy marriage" seems more like a band-aid on a shattered window, thinking it's solving anything....it doesn't...

For me, I see pooning as massage therapy. I love my wife, no obvious issues that would lead me to believe my marriage is toxic. I share in the cooking, cleaning, and child raising equally with her. I am the bread-winner, but she works and contributes too. We are active (well, 'were' thanks to COVID), and travel and do family activities... overall we are tight-knit, not to worry about things falling apart...... Except for that one thing, that annoys me, like a dripping faucet in the middle of the night; that "itch".... Even though we're middle-aged, I still want to fuck like a teenager, but the wife doesn't seems to have the same energy. We have sex enough to still believe we're into each other, but I do want more. We 'talked' about how we can get more, but she seems disinterested to try; which is tragic since in our younger years, she'd do anything. But I don't see here unwillingness as a bad sign, just something to accept.....so I compensate... I turned to pooning to fill the void, and have my demands met.... in that case, I think "pooning is the cure", no different than going to a legit RMT and getting a therapeutic massage on an atrophied muscle.....

Now for the extreme case, if you were in a toxic marriage. Husband is a drunken abuser, or the wife is so high-maintenance she sinks the family into unescapable credit-card debt, name your scenario......and the only real catharsis in that relationship is to poon without prejudice. IMO, it's the wrong mentality to have. Because being such a dismal state of mind, you act only on rushed instincts. You think more with the little head, than the big one, leading to more trouble you're willing to accept, either by disease, cops, or thugs.....not to mention the safety of the other party who isn't into the trade to be one's emotional punching bag either..... Pooning for those types is just a weak band-aid to a larger issue they should solve first.
Your rationale is interesting, but one question is unanswered. Does your wife know about your pooning, and if so, does she accept it? If so, the solution would appear to be great.

sensualsixty
 

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Your rationale is interesting, but one question is unanswered. Does your wife know about your pooning, and if so, does she accept it? If so, the solution would appear to be great.

sensualsixty
This sounds like a moral challenge at the expense of a data-validated health risk.

He tried, She denied. ‘Nuff said, Hit the bed.

Science now confirms the best thing for under-sexed men to do: don’t choke, avoid the stroke.

-Punt.
 
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I'm guessing you didn't click the link, or read more than 10 seconds. It wasn't hard to find.
It still has no bearing on what the REAL situation is in anyone's relationships, what may have changed from their first "report" and what other risk factors that may have played a role. Did they check to see if the ones reporting a 4 in the 60's ended the relationship over the next 5-30 years? Did they check to see how many in the 60's were heavy smokers?

A 1-4 rating doesn't leave much room to nuance a relationship. The one reporting a 4 would be unlikely to stay in that bad a relationship all the way to the point of their death. I'm willing to bet a statisticiaan could take the same data, and produce an opposite result.
 

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It still has no bearing on what the REAL situation is in anyone's relationships, what may have changed from their first "report" and what other risk factors that may have played a role. Did they check to see if the ones reporting a 4 in the 60's ended the relationship over the next 5-30 years? Did they check to see how many in the 60's were heavy smokers?

A 1-4 rating doesn't leave much room to nuance a relationship. The one reporting a 4 would be unlikely to stay in that bad a relationship all the way to the point of their death. I'm willing to bet a statisticiaan could take the same data, and produce an opposite result.
Right. I agree with you (to some degree), but that's not what you'd asked. You're questioning the validity of the assessment now. You were questioning what the assessment was in your original question.
 
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Pooning while in an "unhealthy marriage" seems more like a band-aid on a shattered window, thinking it's solving anything....it doesn't...

For me, I see pooning as massage therapy. I love my wife, no obvious issues that would lead me to believe my marriage is toxic. I share in the cooking, cleaning, and child raising equally with her. I am the bread-winner, but she works and contributes too. We are active (well, 'were' thanks to COVID), and travel and do family activities... overall we are tight-knit, not to worry about things falling apart...... Except for that one thing, that annoys me, like a dripping faucet in the middle of the night; that "itch".... Even though we're middle-aged, I still want to fuck like a teenager, but the wife doesn't seems to have the same energy. We have sex enough to still believe we're into each other, but I do want more. We 'talked' about how we can get more, but she seems disinterested to try; which is tragic since in our younger years, she'd do anything. But I don't see here unwillingness as a bad sign, just something to accept.....so I compensate... I turned to pooning to fill the void, and have my demands met.... in that case, I think "pooning is the cure", no different than going to a legit RMT and getting a therapeutic massage on an atrophied muscle.....

Now for the extreme case, if you were in a toxic marriage. Husband is a drunken abuser, or the wife is so high-maintenance she sinks the family into unescapable credit-card debt, name your scenario......and the only real catharsis in that relationship is to poon without prejudice. IMO, it's the wrong mentality to have. Because being such a dismal state of mind, you act only on rushed instincts. You think more with the little head, than the big one, leading to more trouble you're willing to accept, either by disease, cops, or thugs.....not to mention the safety of the other party who isn't into the trade to be one's emotional punching bag either..... Pooning for those types is just a weak band-aid to a larger issue they should solve first.
My side piece doesn’t like banging her husband anymore so she tries to get out of it as much as she can

I wonder is he sees SPs on the side...?
 

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I can only comment on my own experience. I got married young, I was 19 and she was a hot 25 year old. Maybe I got married to young and didn't sew enough wild oats, I was cruising the stroll when I was 21. I wasn't unhappy in my marriage, I think I missed out on the "sexual revolution " of my young life. Maybe I was a sex addict because I continued to pick up ladies for the next 25 years. Since then, my marriage has gone through some turbulent times, we separated for over a year and then got back together. She wanted me back because I was her love of her life, her words. I hoped her words were true but inside of a year I was sleeping in the basement bedroom. I will admit that there was a lot of animosity over the years, on both our parts. So I continued to see ladies. It wasn't until lately, the last 5 years, that getting my rocks off wasn't was I was looking for. The last few years, after 30 years of "banging" that I found a couple of special ladies that actually enjoy spending time with gentlemen who treat them respectfully. They can listen without judgement and offer their views which makes the sexual experience so much more intimate. You may assume that these ladies are just good actors and promoting their business, and at some level they are. That's a generalization and I can tell you that there is a genuine caring situation between us. This helps with my cardiac situation immensely.
 
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