its not easy for me to get girls that is why i am on this site seeking SP's. if I was good then I'd be at the moment, getting laid
Is it wrong to seek a SP to be your "friends for benefits" ?
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I know pal, it's hard. Do you have any money? Maybe if you tell the girls you're broke and have no job then they will be more receptive to the friends with benefits thing, I mean then they won't have any high expectations or be tempted to ask for loans or help them move....it's benefits not boyfriend, am I right?!?
Keep trying bud....theres one born every minute.
If it's not easy for you to get girls, then why on Earth do you feel like you've got enough game to get free sex from an SP? Just asking...
Interestingly, I had a friend who had a friends with benefits deal going with an SP a few years ago.
It turned into a huge drama-fest and got so bad that he ended up leaving town to get away from the drama.
I saw an SP in Toronto a few years ago and now every time I'm going to Toronto she stops by my hotel for a booty-call (no, she doesn't charge me) and she often emails me nagging me to go visit Toronto more.
So I guess it isn't impossible, but I don't think it is something that you can make happen, it has to just sort of happen all by itself and if it does, make sure it's drama-free
It turned into a huge drama-fest and got so bad that he ended up leaving town to get away from the drama.
I saw an SP in Toronto a few years ago and now every time I'm going to Toronto she stops by my hotel for a booty-call (no, she doesn't charge me) and she often emails me nagging me to go visit Toronto more.
So I guess it isn't impossible, but I don't think it is something that you can make happen, it has to just sort of happen all by itself and if it does, make sure it's drama-free
7 months?? isnt it a 90 day only thing?I agree, I've been doing P90X for 7 months now and one of the routines is Yoga which I've fallen in love with. What better way to meet attractive women than start going to a Yoga studio. I can't wait to get on that
yeah I know, I might buy, but I do exersize every week though, on the weekends nowadays.
WOW! EnchantingAria, you are so my kind of girl.
I am all the things you list that you like above. Well, except that I am not too clever, been told that lots, hate taking risks, like living home with the parents and not paying rent and oh, I do like to have fun....this one time I had 3 Starbucks Venti Quad Lattes. Man it was party time that day.....WOO HOO!!! Everything else that you advise you want I have for you honey, let's get together!!
Actually I believe that whatisthis may be starting to get it. He came on the board young and kinda cocky and thinking he was all that and a bag of chips and would hook up with a SP for some crazy ass sexy for gratis. Seems to me he is slowly coming to the realization that he is not going to get that and if he wants to hook up with any girl, that he is going to have to bring something a little more than what he has now to the table. He does seem to be listening what we are telling him, giving some polite feedback to our musings. He just needs to have some life experiences and learn a bit more about how the world works and realize that being a young stud is not necessarily going to get you a quality girl. I think if we give him some time, he may surprise us.
Well, I think that would apply to most guys, if you want a girl from here you are going to have to pay to ride my friend.
whatisthis, I suggest if you are not working out that you start doing something. Just find something that you enjoy doing and get out there and do it. It could take a bit to figure it out, but try some different things until you find one that clicks for you. It may not be a requirement, but women do like a guy that is somewhat fit and looks decent in and out of clothes.
At one time I worked out with weights and cardio and looked pretty damn good and I could see that the ladies appreciated that, but that was a few years and some life experiences ago. Fast forward to today, I have recently started working out again and doing cardio, I feel better about myself and the padding is coming off and being replaced by some toned muscle. Suffice to say that I will never be a Mr. Universe but every bit helps when you are competing against every other guy out there for the attentions of a lady. I don't do it for the ladies, I do it for my own well being, but this helps me get noticed a bit and I feel a hell of a lot better about myself.
Well then Baby!!!
I'm your man!!!
Because I've always got people telling me I'm funny!!
Just today while in a meeting I had somebody tell me I smelled funny!
Then later in the afternoon I had a random stranger tell me I looked funny!
Shopping last week, I was standing in the checkout line & some woman's kid told her mum that I talked funny!
And last weekend I had a gal tell me I got a schlong that looks funny & I have a funny way of "doing it".
So Aria - if it's funny yer looking for ...
I got that in spades!!
Let's hook up & bump uglies!!
Wait,
As guys, at least we're biologically honest with ourselves and our "spread the seed" biology. Women hide it better, and are physically more equipped for that with their hidden estrus (times of the monthly cycle when they are fertile).
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The first quote is inaccurate; the second is correct. They seek out alpha males all the time for mating, not 50%. What you must have meant is that in general they seek out alpha males; when they seek out others, it's not for mating but for provider etc. Studies show that even in relationships, women are most fertile during the times they are cheating with their lovers, not when sleeping with their partners.
As guys, at least we're biologically honest with ourselves and our "spread the seed" biology. Women hide it better, and are physically more equipped for that with their hidden estrus (times of the monthly cycle when they are fertile).
What is your idea of an alpha male? Cause I know lots a guys who have managed to throw their genes into the pool and they might not be considered alpha...really, if that statement were true would we not be looking at a little less bio-diversity among humans?
I have a couple of very special clients who I have allowed into my personal life. One I go walking and hiking with, one I like to go to funny movies with, one just can't stop finding projects to do on my property and we hang out at Rona a lot. But, when it comes to sex they make arrangements to meet me at the apartment and they always pay. They have each told me that they respect me very much and would not want to sully our friendship by taking advantage of me.
It keeps the sex from getting boring. It keeps our relationship from getting too intense, there is no hope of marriage on any of our horizons, and we never cross the boundaries during our casual time together, which, is sometimes difficult, as there are times I could just lean over and plant one. The restraint we show actually builds more suspense for our next encounter...
If I put all my favourite clients in a room together they would become best buds...I am fond of them all.
BTW I did have a client once with whom the boundaries blurred and he was going to financially support me, however, I have trouble asking for help in this way and without me vocalizing my needs he just didn't help out. I ended up living in poverty and fucking him anyway...never again!
I have a couple of very special clients who I have allowed into my personal life. One I go walking and hiking with, one I like to go to funny movies with, one just can't stop finding projects to do on my property and we hang out at Rona a lot. But, when it comes to sex they make arrangements to meet me at the apartment and they always pay. They have each told me that they respect me very much and would not want to sully our friendship by taking advantage of me.
It keeps the sex from getting boring. It keeps our relationship from getting too intense, there is no hope of marriage on any of our horizons, and we never cross the boundaries during our casual time together, which, is sometimes difficult, as there are times I could just lean over and plant one. The restraint we show actually builds more suspense for our next encounter...
If I put all my favourite clients in a room together they would become best buds...I am fond of them all.
BTW I did have a client once with whom the boundaries blurred and he was going to financially support me, however, I have trouble asking for help in this way and without me vocalizing my needs he just didn't help out. I ended up living in poverty and fucking him anyway...never again!
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I think it is possible but very few and far between. From what I've seen the friends with benefits happens only in a few other cases. One of my buddies is a muscle-bound steroid freak and has dated a couple of SP's. The other one is dating an SP who was lonely and wanted company more than anything. I think other than that you have to be pretty lucky to find one who is looking for you. They all know they can get you to pay so it's very difficult to turn it the other way.
Lol talk about thread resurrection. Sebulba, the last post in this thread before yours is over a year old!
