Like I am not saying that we should only meet when "i" want the romance but if she wants it I should travel as well.
Just seeking some advice
Just seeking some advice
Is it wrong to seek a SP to be your "friends for benefits" ?
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I had a relationship similar to what you are describing with my last regular & it was nice because it no longer was about paying a fee to get fucked.
We were there for each other & it was a mutual understanding that either could call at anytime for social or sexual needs.
I always made sure she was financially secure & she never wanted for anything (except the million dollar home & closet full of minks)
If you can find someone cool enough to do that go for it but those types of gals are very few & far between!
Yup - but if you find the right one things can work out brilliantly for both parties.
Yes indeed - good to find if you can get it!
But kinda rare.
well there is nothing wrong with being a friends for benefit kinda thing.
the SPs also at some point of their 'business career' desire sex right?
the SPs also at some point of their 'business career' desire sex right?
Not at the rate you're thinkin.
Let's put it this way - I would be very happy to find that again.
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Isn't this something we seek from women all the time? And why would it be wrong if you were both into it? The problem isn't a moral one - it's the hazard of self delusion... either that you think you could get that - or that you'd get it and not be able to handle it because you get attatched and therefore might become possessive.
I've actually had a couple of Asian girls that I dated briefly. It was kind of fun and nice to think that she enjoyed being with me enough to do it for it's own sake and forego the money. But just make sure it's really feasible.
um, we get sex. We get tons and tons of sex. No need to desire it, lol. There is absolutely nothing wrong with friends with benefits type thing, but I think sps like to be paid for their benefits
Good luck with that,
This thread is hilarious!!
I am pretty sure that the OP is serious in his question, but seems very implausible to me.
I am pretty sure that the OP is serious in his question, but seems very implausible to me.
Much more likely to happen with a dancer than an SP, in my experience; for the most part, you haven't already paid for anything or engaged in anything sexual.
Some of the girls/SP's that I have had sessions with, I have also seen socially, mostly at their request.
I fit none of Topper's stereotypes, but I believe it is about building a rapport, and treating a woman with respect.
In my view, no such thing as "friends with benefits" with a SP as they are in direct conflict with the SP's work ethics. Personally, I would never seek an SP for that situation.
I fit none of Topper's stereotypes, but I believe it is about building a rapport, and treating a woman with respect.
In my view, no such thing as "friends with benefits" with a SP as they are in direct conflict with the SP's work ethics. Personally, I would never seek an SP for that situation.
Fake it till you make it. It could be a huge effort but it's doable. I know plenty of people who have done it, especially here in Vancouver.
Won't work unless you build attraction first. And that can also be a learned skill (doesn't have to be a natural talent).
Don't know about SPs, but a couple friends have gone out with strippers (without paying)
Well I'm pretty sure most Sps already get enough casual sex that they dont need to seek out booty calls from clients. So unless you are really god's gift to women- Yes it is wrong and unreasonable to think any SP would be interested in being strictly FWB with a client. Esentially by asking her to do so, you are taking away her lively hood.
If you were selling a service (mechanic for example) and if you because friends with a customer would you suddenly feel inclined to stop charging them? Highly unlikely.
If you want to bang SPs for free, I'd think that you need to meet them when they are 'off duty' but in that case you'd probably have more chance with regular civilian girls.
If you were selling a service (mechanic for example) and if you because friends with a customer would you suddenly feel inclined to stop charging them? Highly unlikely.
If you want to bang SPs for free, I'd think that you need to meet them when they are 'off duty' but in that case you'd probably have more chance with regular civilian girls.
I've got to question one point: A lot of women - SPs or otherwise - hear 'alpha male', and think 'asshole'.
Discuss.
Attraction is a biological response, not psychological. It is a low-level instinct, not subject to conscious control, and hard-wired in our brains by our genetics. What Topper outlined are alpha male characteristics that apply in very general terms across the population. BTW, I should point out that women will often say one thing, but feel another. You could ask women what they want, but you better listen between the words; taking them quite literally won't gain you any insight.
Obviously not true. There are various ways alpha male characteristics can manifest themselves, but deep and unshakable confidence, independence, leadership, belief in one's abilities to handle any situation, and so on are common factors. In relation to the opposite sex, alpha males in general will hold a belief that they are desirable to women, rather than just the other way around. None of this says that you have to be an asshole or arrogant. Of course, some alpha males are assholes, but hardly all of them or even the majority.
